How Women Make Themselves Cheap

By Tosin Ojumu

A short ebook from my relationship series and blog: "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" that is all about building an outstanding foundation for an outstanding Christian marriage. This ebook contains 7 articles:

How Women Make Themselves Cheap
"...Be fussy ladies!
Seriously, I cannot encourage you too much to be extremely fussy in your standards regarding his character. Look for someone who tells the truth, to himself, and to others. Look for someone who acknowledges his own faults, and apologises, without necessarily waiting for you to point out what he has done wrong. Sometimes people innocently don't know. Watch then for how he responds when you (gently) point out his mistakes..."

People Who Have Changed My Life: My Husband!
"...My darling husband. My very own darling husband,
I feel a bit self-conscious about expressing here for public view what you mean to me. I don't want this to be about writing things to give other people a certain impression of our marriage. On the other hand, I respect you so highly that it would genuinely be hard for me to exaggerate what I think and how I feel about you. How can I even begin to express how deeply I love you, and how grateful I am to be joined to you for the rest of our lives?..."

Already Desperately in Love
"...I've been twisting these issues over in my mind for so long, and this is what I believe I have finally understood: I have the kind of romantic nature that makes me feel as if I was born to be hopelessly in love with my eventual spouse. This is my self-proclaimed destiny that I have eagerly embraced for many years. Over the years I've been building up a mental /emotional impression of my eventual spouse and marriage to the point where now I am already desperately in love with this mental image, both of the man and of the marriage...."

Anatomy of a Marriage Made in Heaven
"...In my writings I am always talking about the importance of a spouse who is truly striving to be like Jesus. Please please understand that by doing this I am not trying to "come across" as being "super spiritual" or "super holy". I only say these things over and over because they are the most pragmatic, practical, down-to-earth and common-sense ways to ensure a beautiful and a peaceful marriage for yourself..."

How to Be Truly Beautiful: From the Inside Out
"...I come from a family of smilers, and I've certainly given out my own fair share of radiant smiles. A huge grin has always been my personal trademark, and I'm naturally the kind of person that even when I'm crying I'm smiling! In fact, as a child some people just called me "Smiler" or "Always Smiling". I used to completely take it for granted until a few years ago, when I lost my smile. Before then, joy always came so naturally to me, without my having to make any effort whatsoever..."

How Joining a Church Is like Entering a Marriage
"...Have you ever met one of those people who is always talking endlessly about their latest relationship? "This one, is the real thing!" They post pictures, they happily change their Facebook relationship status to "In a relationship", everything is simply perfect, and they could not be happier! Because you are their friend, you know them, you've seen it all before, so many times; you sit there peeking through your fingers at their latest updates, hoping and praying for them that this time will be different..."

and "A Business-Minded Spouse as a Business Investment"

• Language: English
• Publisher: Tosin Ojumu
• Release date: Jul 15, 2019
• ISBN: 9780463027790

Tosin Ojumu

Hello, my name is Tosin and for many years I have sat down and thought through questions about how to have an outstandingly successful marriage, and what I need to do before I get married to best ensure that successful marriage. Over the next few weeks and months I aim to publish a new ebook everyday from my blog and relationship series "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie." Visit my blog address listed here to see the full list of ebooks as well as video excerpts for each ebook :)

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How Women Make Themselves Cheap

Copyright 2019 by Tosin Ojumu

Published at Smashwords.com

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Table of Contents

A Business-Minded Spouse as a Business Investment

How Women Make Themselves Cheap

People Who Have Changed My Life: My Husband!

Already Desperately in Love

Anatomy of a Marriage Made in Heaven

How to Be Truly Beautiful: From the Inside Out

How Joining a Church Is like Entering a Marriage

Cover image by Kevin Schneider from Pixabay

The ebook summary is available on my website at https://huggie-wuggie.com/excerpts/ebook-summary-how-women-make-themselves-cheap/

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A Business-Minded Spouse as a Business Investment

This ebook was previously posted on my blog "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie" on 6 December 2014.

To see this ebook in other formats please check out my website at: https://huggie-wuggie.com/excerpts/a-business-minded-spouse-as-a-business-investment/

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This post is not about selfishly going out to get married just for the sake of pushing forward in business life and dreams. I know many people do that. For instance some people get married at least in part for the sake of having a free personal assistant, housekeeper, cook, cleaner etc. I am not talking about that here in this post. Rather I am talking about why two ambitious people who are both pursuing their own dreams in life, might find it conducive and deeply beneficial, not just for life generally but also specifically for their dreams, to find one another, genuinely fall deeply in love, and proceed to get married.

REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME: This is not just about being a high-octane Power Couple, but also about being able to switch fluently from that to just being a guy and a girl, walking arm-in-arm, quietly enjoying life. Not just a marriage of convenience, but actually a real marriage, of two people who genuinely know one another and like one another. The key word here is fluency. To be able to truly achieve this, we must both be comfortable in both environments. To be able to easily switch to being low-key, I'm thinking that we will have to consistently reserve some parts of our marriage where work, work goals and even money are simply not allowed to intrude.

INSTANT BUSINESS ASSOCIATE - A spouse who looks the part.

If there is no-one else available, and you need to present your business as a team endeavour, guess who is going to come along to meet the prospective clients? You are, of course, darling! This is why it is important to have a spouse who genuinely looks the part, and can carry it off, asking suitably intelligent questions. It is not just an eye-candy thing, although that too is important. The best way to make sure of this is to have someone who is actually minded in this way themselves.

SUPPORT

Sometimes, life in the business world is hard. Most times though, it is impossible! It helps to have someone who truly talks your language, so that they at least understand what you are going through, and so that they can sometimes help out in all-nighters. If someone is truly committed to you, and to the marriage, then hopefully they will generally be there to offer support, not necessarily because they desperately love what you're doing, but rather because they want to support you, and encourage you to keep striving for your best.

BUSINESS TRIPS

Erm, I hope you don't imagine you're going anywhere without me, least of all with your glamorous (and