Legitimate Self-Concern Versus Unconditional Love In Marriage

By Tosin Ojumu

Another ultra-quick-read Thought Provoker from Tosin Ojumu.
This ebook seeks to offer a solution to that tension between considering one's own needs in marraige, and offering unconditional love to one's spouse.
Tosin Ojumu's Thought Provokers: Humorous, heartfelt and utterly honest slices of Christian wisdom for busy modern lives!
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• Language: English
• Publisher: Oruko Oluwa
• Release date: Jul 17, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301697625

Tosin Ojumu

Hello, my name is Tosin and for many years I have sat down and thought through questions about how to have an outstandingly successful marriage, and what I need to do before I get married to best ensure that successful marriage. Over the next few weeks and months I aim to publish a new ebook everyday from my blog and relationship series "Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie." Visit my blog address listed here to see the full list of ebooks as well as video excerpts for each ebook :)

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Legitimate self-concern versus unconditional love in marriage

Copyright 2013 by Tosin Ojumu

Published by Oruko Oluwa Publishing at Smashwords.com

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Table of Contents

A big personal struggle

Tension between selflessness and consideration of my own needs in marriage

Fears about unconditional love

Giving rather than taking

God's responsibility to meet my needs

Behaviour while still single

So excited!

Liberal outpouring of love and smiles

Not bothered?

Meaning of marital needs

Praying for your spouse

Re-igniting a marriage from a place of stagnation

Twisting God's Arm?

Love is....only going as far as the other person needs

....Genuinely offering a service

....Not going on about it

....Accepting someone else's gifts

What if you said this?

Being taken for granted

An old chestnut

A little humour

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About the Author

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I originally posted this ebook as a series of 3 blog articles on my blog, Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie.