Out of The Rut
By Pal Arjan
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Some of us find ourselves in a rut at times. The ruts discussed here are environments or situations that are hindrances. We sometimes are in a situation that's controlling, traditionally dogmatic or even abusive. Instead of allowing our circumstances to keep us stuck, we ought to find our way out. This book entails unique ways in which we can free ourselves from ruts and actually see them in good light and as stepping stones to work our way towards a better life and being an example for others who also want to come out of their quandaries.
Pal Arjan
I am a independent writer, bred and grown in Malaysia, having traveled and have a world perspective.
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Out of The Rut - Pal Arjan
FOREWORD
I write this book as a way of making aware of what ruts are. Ruts are unforseen things that happen to us inadvertently. We can find ourselves in ruts due to many factors. Some of which are by birth, being in relationships or also environments that don't suit us. Here we will highlight several types of these scenarios and how you can maneuver yourself out of them. We will help enlighten you with ways to broaden your perspective and save yourself out of the situation that you're in. It is my hope that you find your freedom sooner than later and lead a meaningful life.
Thank you.
- Pal Arjan
Contents
Introduction
The Different Types of Ruts
Why do Ruts Exist
Ways to Get Out of the Rut
Transform your Rut
Out of the Rut – An Introduction
Many of us have found ourselves in a rut, one time or twice, or even more. Sometimes we've been living our whole lives in a rut. There needs to be a way to come out of it, or we would very much be doomed. There are many types of ruts that people can find themselves in and here we'll explore the ones to do with living in environments that are controlling and some also abusive. We will entail the types of ruts that exist, and how to get out of them.
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Chapter 1 - The Different Types of Ruts
The first rut is a religiously controlling environment. Here's one in which there's conditioning and a set of rules on how to be. Many a times we have families deep in their beliefs that don't accept the new and the more acceptable ways of being. We as people may