Anger Tablet: An Explicit Solution for Anger Mismanagement

By B.O. Ipadeola

'Anger Tablet' offers an explicit solution to any form of anger mismanagement. The tablets are packed up after being strictly subjected to various tests in diverse anger environment and conditions. Thereby, branding the tablets as one, capable of neutralizing any form of temperamental disorder or any anger defects.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Publiseer
• Release date: Oct 21, 2018
• ISBN: 9788829533879

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FINISHER

PROEM

Personally, my temperament often gets so hot during a slight dial on my anger that it could actually be used in serving a coffee; if there be any anger mismanagement competition anywhere around the globe, I'd definitely come home with at least a treble, although, a gold might be possible; just don't want to sound unreal and look as though this is mere exaggeration. Trust me my anger reactions and mood defects was absolutely woeful, unhealthy, uncivil, and irritating. In summary; it was really the best bad amidst other better form of bad.

I would easily flair up at the tiniest issue that even a kid of nine years would have prematurely handled in a mature way. I take every available chances, I often act quickly just to display my displeasure, ones that get displayed in a very destructive manner; ask Anita, she would tell you how not exaggerated these facts her. Peradventure there wasn't any available means towards acting up; that wouldn't be a big deal to a catastrophe like me, because I could swiftly create my own scene and get other innocent victims involved, and within a twinkle, the word innocent wouldn't be theirs anymore. It quite easy for me to turn an innocent sort into an unjustifiable person.

Apportioning blame to others and transferring aggressions to those who aren't in no way the cause of my ambiguous severe mood was a motto I could easily act on and render.  During those long unending years of being in anger bondage, it was quite easy for me to come out clean even after I must have destroyed half of mine and others gadgets or belongings; I really was a genius in coming out clean, after all, it was easy for me to blame my anger issues on an inherited trait, one that runs in the lineage. Mysterious right? Not that, try weird! Or simply combine both. I was a pain in everyone's ass for years, most especially that of my fiancee Anita; whom happened to live with me for almost four years during my time in the university. The scars I had written almost all over her hands and thigh was rubbishly tattooed; I still get to drop an internal tears each time I see one of such scars. I would be apologizing to her not enough, for the rest of my life, she really never deserved such animality act from anyone. No one deserved to be treated like I treated her for years.

It took me about twenty years of my life before realizing how an animal I had been and how badly the anger issues had destroyed my life; it finally dawned on me that I've been hurting people especially the lady I'd wished to spend the rest of my life with. I realized how hot of a hell she had been living in for about four years of our relationship. It was finally clear that even those that remained as my friends, had only been tolerating me and sticking by me with caution in order not to get a bite of the unreasonable destructive me. I finally saw the demon in me long after twenty years and few months of my been in existence.

Nursing this sort of temperament had already successfully killed my social life, my emotional life was damaged and dead, and had merely been hanging on a tiny vein of hope which belongs to the Queen that was patience enough to be mine. I'd been killing her everyday, throughout the four years duration of initiating our romantic relationship.

I had basically just concluded beating up my my victim fiancee as usual for a sin she hadn't even committed, I had, out of no patience put a blame on her for a mistake I was actually the one that made. It was after I had dealt with her severely and added a new tattoo on her body than I realized she wasn't even a bit a cause of the occurrence; I was the primary cause. As I watched the cold tears drip down her succulent cheeks, I knew I had been killing her ignorantly for too long, I was unable to fight back my own tears that moment; I knew it was time I dealt with my unbearable temperament for her sake. By this, I sort to take any available measure in order never to be the monster I've been ever again.

After I was done walking down memory lane, I realized I had a problem, and it was easy to identify the problem, but getting a solution wasn't appearing easy at all. I was eager to build up Rome in a day or at most in two, yet it never really stood firm no matter how dier I tried, it just kept collapsing then and on; it was until I realized that the temperament issues had lived in me for many years, than I concluded that it would only be more likely to leave me slowly through the course of the days, weeks, months, and years. Yes! This was my breakthrough clause; even though I was set and prepared to give whatever it demands to start leaving as a new me as fast as possible, yet I was also ready to keep practicing anger management until, whenever complete break free from anger bondage embraces me.

Basically, being hot tempered is an abnormal disease which occurs as a result of one's abnormal manner of reasoning, thinking, behaving, then acting. A person who is hot tempered has the tendency of reacting quickly and easily to any form of anger dial, they are also prone to getting irritated easily, and tend to act destructively while administering their anger on a victim.

Although anger itself is a normal feeling that every human being possesses, but for a person that has temperament issues, anger isn't as normal to them. This sort of people need to be subjected to series of treatment; a form of both psychological and practical, which makes this anger pack uniquely helpful to such people and every other human with diverse anger issues. This sort of treatment can be initiated by swallowing the anti-idleness tablet enclosed in this pack. The tablet would be of diverse help in keeping you from doing nothing no matter how less busy or jobless you might be, not even in your leisure period would you be seen doing nothing, because anyone with temperament issues or normal anger mismanagement issues, need not be found doing nothing; such must always get engaged in something, or something else. Something less stress demanding is preferable though.

MY BREAKTHROUGH

Although during my first few weeks of swallowing the anger tablets, I'd rushed to conclude that it might take me years before I become able to take charge and deal with my temperament disorder, but surprisingly, it fortunately took me less than six months to be sure I had taken charge of my temperament issues, and in lesser time, I'd become a better anger manager; these swift changes were quick to occur to me due to the fact that I had completely made up my mind and pledged my unshaken loyalty to the tablets. I'd made the tablets become a concrete and an intense part of my being; regardless of the slight failure that occur to pull me down during day practices, I kept swallowing the tablets without a second thought on any side effects (failures/abuse), until proper treatment was restored to me. And within few weeks, it dawned on my lovely Anita Austin that something big and good had really happened to hee man. At first, she was feeling awkward and almost uncomfortable with my new found acts; she had thought I was having a moment of frustration or dealing with depression which had started affecting me from displaying my usual mood defects, but it finally dawned on her that an angel had spat on me.

Everyone around me became more affectionate and close to me, but believe me, none of them knew how hard I was working to become a sweetheart, still it was fine, all that counts was making them smile and be at peace with myself. My commitment and determination was unquestionable and undisputed, being a successful anger manager was ultimately inevitable to me, so I had to give birth to a new me all by myself, for their sake and more especially for my endowed Anita's sake.

THE PROCEDURE

Initially, I made up my mind and added a covenant to that effect. Then I patiently studied and practiced all the anger tablets one after another, at times simultaneously, but I never skipped practicing a tablet for another. I swallowed them all; had to do that just to be sure of the tablet that would work more effectively and best on me.

The funny truth was that, I was somehow, initially not enjoying my practice that I almost often prayed every morning that no one should get on my nerves in order not to get offended, and other times, I'd wished someone would just press a dial on my mood so I could at least see how much of a grown manager I had become, but it seems there was no one; I was somehow getting short of people to anger me, my usual clients had somehow stopped patronizing me.

What I observed is that, when you are committed to a course, the temptations and distractions becomes rigorously daring at the initial stage that you may start planning on returning to your default setting, but as times ticks by when those unyielding agents of distractions starts realizing how committed you are to your practice, they just can't help than to start withdrawing before they eventually flee through windows and roofs.

Conclusively, it is paramount to know that no matter how tough and offensive your temperament might be, there is definitely a cure for you in this pack. There is obviously a cure for everyone around and all over the world. Sweep through with determination.

FOREWORD: NEVER FOLLOW THE CROWD

In recent times, there have been some news on proper management of anger, it is just that, in general, the rate of success in management is really below low. This few poor results in anger management is due to certain basic false beliefs introduced by our pop culture.

For way too long, anger management psychologist and therapist have always tend to help their clients (those with temperament issues) in pampering their anger disorders rather than help them get proper treatment for it.

Although, there might be a tiny element of fact that anger is caused as a result of frustration or depression; but basically, that isn't the real cause for someone getting so destructive and thereby reacting abnormally. After all they aren't the first person to be frustrated or to be facing depression, or does it mean that those that doesn't react abnormally and destructively to anger check don't get frustrated or depressed, ever? We all get frustrated and depressed at some time in our lives, but that doesn't give us an excuse to be combative on our loved ones or anyone all in the name of being frustrated. No. There is obviously no genuine excuse for being ill tempered, neither is there any reasonable resonance for reacting destructively to anger. The only bit of excuse that should be given to having anger issues is that, anger itself is a normal emotion, but regardless of this bitter-truth, it remains abnormal to take the normal reflexive being of anger for granted, thereby abusing it. Every intense and overhyped form of anger is termed an abuse to every form of anger.

In regards to our pop culture, most articles on anger management tend to relate destructive reactions of anger and temperamental issues majorly as an act caused by frustration or depression; this is obviously an approach that entails helping the anger victim harbor their anger issues, after all a reason in form of an excuse had being placed on it. This is obviously a wrong approach towards dealing with anger issues, rather than help give excuse for someone whom has, through the excuse of being frustrated reacted destructively or insanely, such person should be taught on how to face the result of their destructiveness and taught how to accept blames. Let them be taught to look the effect of their anger reactions in the eyes and sober, if they wish to show their regrets. Just let them look and see.

It would also be bestest that you don't get this anger pack twisted; Anger Tablet here is not one of those pitying sort of article that pampers, nor one of those interesting motivational novel that cares about your weakness. Quite the opposite. All tablets in this pack are strictly produced and packaged after being subjected to a tough daring atmosphere for proper observation on various anger victims. So if you are sincere and serious about taking charge of your temperamental issues and also hoping to attain proper managerial level with the help of this pack, then you have to initially ignore those normal cultural belief of anger management from your mind completely. In order for those odd seductive beliefs not to conflict with the tablets, thereby forcing it not to provide total effectiveness as it ought to have worked efficiently on you, every of such thoughts and general beliefs must be ignored.

Your primary focus should be on getting proper treatment for your temperament, by pledging your loyalty to the anger tablets. What the pop culture thinks about anger management should mean almost nothing to you, because it would be wrong for you to swallow two different migraine tablets together in the name of treating your headache, except you are the abnormal sort. You are therefore obliged to ignore the opinion of others once you notice that it is contrary to the aim of of achieving great success in your anger management duty.

Most of us (I'm guessing here though) wish to avoid all those complicated sorts of reactions that often encompass reacting destructively during a mild or severe anger issue, those sorts that could have been calmly contained and handled on a norm. Most of us (I'm still guessing here) wishes to stop getting others pissed off, most especially our loved ones which entails; spouse, family and friends and maybe few others, like our colleagues at work. But rather than treat people fairly, this is what happens (I'm not guessing anymore) ; we obviously have those special people in our lives that we'd wish to do anything in order to avoid seeing them wear a slight frown nor drop a tiny tear from their fragile cheeks, yet we just can't admit that we've got faults in their faces. It is quite an hurdle for us to admit that we have temperamental issues and that we are prone to getting unnecessarily angry; all these unfiltered acts and abnormal possessions, that often leads us to reacting in an uncultured, and undiplomatic like, such as acting destructively and inhumane, thereby leading us to hurting our loved ones and those around us. A hurt that comes so powerful that we tend to give them a concrete virtual stab through the powerful unprecedented words that we pronounce out of our unguided mouth. While some of us limits the hurts to the numbers of memorable words, other categories tend to go way beyond using words to kill emotions and the feelings of their victims, but thus goes as far as piercing deeply into their soul by admistering a physical approach (they just beat them up blue-black, an act which the man possesses, most especially when he his involved with is spouse or wife).

The undisputed truth is that, there is obviously no cure for your anger issues or any form of anger management if you fail to admit and accept that you have issues with your temperament. Let no one or novel deceive you. Your temperament disorder stays permanent and even stands the risk of becoming way grave if you fail to accept being a victim of anger issues. Proper management is met only when absolute admittance is made the initiating background.

Since you are lucky enough to own a copy of this limited anger pack, all you need to do is to be conscious of all the prescribed tablets in this pack; this consciousness can simply be obtained through formulation and clarification of the complete technicality of practical ideas that this pack offers to you as a treatment and cure for your anger disorders.

B.O Ipadeola's Anger Tablets offers a wide range of treatment and breakthrough towards gaining proper anger management and permanent treatment. Which clearly states that, irrespective of how severe or the age apportioned to your temperamental issues, there is definitely a cure for you in here, and fortunately, you need not strive much for any form of perfection; it comes as simple as initially taking your loyalty oath seriously, then keep swallowing each tablets and let them work their effectiveness in your system. Walk your way in and savor every moment spent in swallowing each tablets!

INSTRUCTION MANUAL

Anger tablet comprises of varieties of tablets in which all have been orderly arranged, it is therefore of no use attempting to rearrange the tablets just to suit a personal use. Rearrangement can be inform of skipping a tablet by jumping into another. Skipping a tablet without having to read the preceding one is totally not an healthy means of swallowing the tablets. It is therefore strictly warned that on no account should the arrangement of the tablets be altered or tampered with. There is a concrete and standard reasons for the way this tablets has been arranged.

In other word, adherence to the instruction manual is paramount and should be handled with utmost obedience and observation.

TAB  1.1: KNOW YOURSELF

IT IS ALL TOO ABNORMAL to be slaving away yourself to anger in this hurly burly busy scheduled life. A research has helped realize that, one of the basics that should be adopted passionately towards success in whatsoever endeavor is the act of knowing oneself. Since no one could give a better definition of you like yourself, it would be best for you to take your time in studying yourself properly. Relating this fact to anger management and treatment; you have to stay calm and study yourself properly in order to know what seldom or often triggers your anger.

Knowing yourself as stipulated here doesn't entails introducing you to yourself. No. In fact, no form of introduction to self or anyone is needed.

The rate at which certain category of people endanger and enslave themselves to anger mismanagement is really alarming, being that, some people already know their insecurities yet still choose to ignore it and carry on with it. For instance, some people know their insecurity to be around money, yet they still accept an offer to work as a bank cashier. Now tell me how this kind of people won't end up letting an apartment in a prison cell? Its almost impossible, right? Yeah, just as I had expected. The discussion here is not meant to be seen as been judgmental or condemning. No one is going to judge or condemn anyone, but the truth must be told no matter how bitter it might seem.

Since you currently have a soft spot for stealing, (not necessarily you though, just saying in general), then taken up a cashier job in a bank is suicide. Why not try a more befitting and suitable job like taken up the post of a cleaner instead. An outdoor cleaner though. Just stay far away from any appearance of money, at least for the time being,  if possible flee permanently from its surroundings until further notice.

If you already know of your insecurity that once money is involved you are liable of acting dubiously smart with it, then you should completely flee from any job offer that has to do with being around money. C'mon! Reject heading to jail with your eyes wide