All Women Are Bitches, and All Men Are Bastards
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Men and women are perhaps more alike than either would care to admit. In this guide, former Personal Development Coach and Personal Trainer Nina van der Plas invites you to laugh at how very human we all are.
All Women Are Bitches, and All Men Are Bastards allows us to take a closer look at ourselves before we point a finger at the opposite sex. By providing valuable insights into what goes on behind the scenes in our actions, she helps her clients to understand that everything works in balance. Lessons we learned in childhood are played out in our adult lives, and the more aware we become, the easier it is for us to break these patterns.
A new way of being can begin with something as simple as a change in focus. This can be difficult, as it can challenge a relationship to growor grow apart. Fear is what keeps people from pushing ahead, and the old safeguard of at least Im not alone seems like a safe haven.
But if we loved ourselves enough, we would never allow ourselves to be miserable, hurt, or sad. By changing our behaviour and holding ourselves responsible, we can learn true respect for our selves and others, self-confidence, self-empowerment, integrity, a healthy body image, and an uninhibited sense for creative expression. Once we learn to look within and from anothers point of view, we can have more valuable relationships.
This is a journey inwardsandpaper for the soul.
Nina van der Plas
For more than twelve years, NINA VAN DER PLAS has combined her passions for people, music, and dance as a personal development coach and personal trainer. She runs Free Spirit Dance and Music School and the Free Spirit Dance and Music Foundation, a nonprofit organization on the Sunshine Coast, Queensland, Australia.
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All Women Are Bitches, and All Men Are Bastards - Nina van der Plas
all Women are Bitches, and All Men are Bastards
Nina van der Plas
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CONTENTS
Does Fairy Tale Truly Exist?
Am I A Control Freak? Surely not!
Is It Really My Fault?
Why is Getting What You Want So Bloody Difficult?
Some People Just Can’t!
The Choices We Make
All Women are Bitches and All Men Are Bastards!
The True Meaning of Love
Safety and Security: The Lie That Is!
The Pursuit of Happiness
Resistance Is Futile
The Communication Error/Era?!
36130.jpgDoes Fairy Tale
Truly Exist?
There are so many stories of the knight in shining armour coming to claim or rescue the princess and live happily ever after. The fairy tale is true; the writers just forgot to Tell us about the responsibility each person has in the relationship to make it blossom.
In society, men and women are being taught how to harden themselves against feeling, making the world more and more masculine and less and less feminine. Trusting intuition is left to a select few, and as this happens, the relationships between men and women get harder to maintain.
Feminine energy and masculine energy are equally important. As one goes out and gets, the other nurtures and supports. One is of the mind, the other of the body.
Did you ever notice that when a woman approaches a man in her masculine energy, she immediately calls him to combat? A classic example of this would be a woman approaching a man from an aggressive position, the reaction or response is most likely going to be matched with his own aggression, irritation or agitation. But when she approaches the man in her more feminine energy (through feeling), she invites him to open his heart, and the man is then called to act, support,