Destiny

By Hairi Lasisi

First of all, the book describe about salvation. It thought you about life in the sense that before any plan could be put in place you must have the means to successive and that is the salvation my Father was talking about. On the other hands, the experience, the agony of defeat, and the day to day life experience life thought us, know one expected that, it is a natural situation that we must go through in life. We pray every day that we will not suff er much before we posses out possession in life. (Amen to that).

In this world, if you dont have anyone to rely on, or you dont have anyone to help you, you must rely on your self, and work hard as you could, eventually you can make it in life. The world is for ever live. If you buy my book, and read it from cover to cover you will gain something out of it about the world we are living, and no regret if you dont.

• Language: English
• Publisher: iUniverse
• Release date: Jan 16, 2012
• ISBN: 9781462064175

Hairi Lasisi

HAIRI'S AUTOBIOGRAPHY. I was born in 1957 at Igboye in Lagos State, Nigeria. My education was started in that city and was continued through a baccalaureate at Thomas Edison State College New Jersey. My father was also born in that city. The environment explain why I acquired much experience early in life, great respect for books, scholars and education. After my secondary school in Lagos, I came to USA to further my education. I graduated in 2000 as BA degree. Early in my student year, I developed a strong interest in both computer software and computer operation. By listen to and speaking with Dr. G. Hussain, Professor of economics and accountant, respectively. As a result, I started going to computer school with the strong sense of computer, I graduated from National Education Center, New Jersey. (Diploma) Business Operation.

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Contents

Acknowledgments

Introduction

Destiny

The Dreams

Popcorn

The Dream 11

3rd Street

My Wife

Baltimore-Maryland

My Story

Life Experience

The pain and the suffering

Illusion

Unemployment

TO MY WIFE

AND

MY DAUGHTER

Acknowledgments

This book has been research through collaborations of many books, my idea and my experience, and it relatively correspondence with many other books you may have read. The story is clear, and it is a personal experience detailed together to make a book.

I thank my wife Olufunke when I first make my first travel out of my country Nigeria, and take a first step to another country She call me She support me and comfort me at the time and when I travel and I make it a success. She also follow me to the with the problems we both went through in my travel in the pursuit of knowledge.

I also thank my brother Adeniyi that also believe in me and my journey to the strange land and he also travel to meet me at USA. We also go through his way and do what he has to do to get his way.

Finally I thank my daughter Oluronke that also support me and comfort me as dad and see that dad graduate from college. I pray that I will have a long life to be able to repay back the obligation they offer me.

Introduction

We may find ourselves wondering on that we can never get back to how we are before after many years of studying and wondering, coping with weather changes and the people around you, what they are saying and their attitude towards you.

Surely something in each of us resists peering beneath the surface of our relatively innocent. Everything we encounter we take as something, we interpret it, explain it, mediate between it, and what it have already observed and experienced. We try to understand what it is, what it means how it relates to other things and to our selves.

Now that I arrived to the USA successful, I send a letter back home to let them know that I arrived back here without any problem. Me and my uncle started to live together in his apartment, including his wife. Shortly a Nigerian girl join us, ask my uncle wife that he will like to be living with us, after that a friend of my brother wife also arrived from Nigeria and boyfriend living with us, the whole house now crowded with visitors and friend. Furthermore, immediately I finished my school traning and started working I decided to live my uncle and set out on my own. As the time progress my uncle and his wife go back home Nigeria.

my own problem and that I did not know the country well, that it is not an easy task to be able to cope with all the bills I will need to pay and that is something I will need to think about. So not to prolong the matter He and his wife decided to enroll me in to one of the training school that may be if I finish the school I may get a good job and if I decided to set out on my own that it will help me to get a job. I started going to school and quickly I finished the school, and get a job in the reputable industry. I did this for some months but I realized that I’m having a depression, catching American flue and the fear of immigration and the police after my B2 Visa expired, the fear of being caught by police or immigration officer becoming more intense in New York and that blow my mind about my living in a New York City. One day me and my uncle went out to go and see a friend which happen to be my uncle friend living in New Jersey and have been knowing for a long time to help me get school admission document which happen to be a brain watch for him saying that I can not stay with him and that I will need to do all this on my own. Now I will have to make another budget on how I will accommodate myself and I said to my self suppose this friend help me get what I want would it not be faire for me and for him or is just that playing stupid. At this point my uncle worried why I want to change a base location to New Jersey, I said the town is look more like it, well he did not agree with me but there is nothing he could do at that point him and his wife, it was too late to change my mind. When I was living with my uncle at first, I may feel like a fresh prince, eating and some falling out which I never worry about. It is a way of life.

For centuries the United states has offered an open door to people in need all over the world. The open door policy has recently become an ethical issue. Now at the end of the twentieth century, people are becoming skeptical about immigration frequently workers and politicians entries the United State. Although American citizens are right to be concerned about their future, they need to look objectively at the facts, while a steady stream of newcomers arrives each year, and they bring a positive results in some ways although a few immigrants come to the US. for a new life and turn to crime, a few people do the right thing and achieved potential, In short, I can not recollect that I started to weak in body and my hearing was impairing, so without wasting time I will have to check in to the hospital and I did. Nigeria nowadays everywhere is churches, is unlike before I travel out of the country, no too many churches then, but now you donÕt have to listen to hear the church around you, and their microphone want to make you listen to their worship, I believe their growing strength that can affect everybody in the neighborhood.

Job placement in a middle position has often been reserved for the person with a college degree, a quick at look through the classifieds reflect that most companies have educational standards requirements. Some time the BA in science, Master preferred is chosen over the years of experience and employee within the company is able to offer. A college degree have a theoretical basis for any business decision that might need to be made and a wealth of knowledge at their disposal.

Hire a degree candidate from the outside can involve many costs; such as training new employee, advertising, agency fees, and much more, they employer still runs the risk that the new employee may not demonstrate the dedication and loyalty necessary for a successful of the company. In most case the hard job to find some time become easier by taken the proper channel during the time I was going to school in the way and at the same time working as a full time security guard. The case against man at that time always seem to be pointing at me in the sense that the case do concerns me. Despite that the racial between black and white at that time is already been clear off in the sense at that time but that is still a case with black, white, and minority. In fact according to the Nobel Price Winner Desmond Tutu said what is happening to you was also happening to us.

For many years I have many success than failure about food topic. Politically and religiously are the way out to debate this family for some dinner to come out. The most shouted in the family was abandon even though there is plenty to go around to satisfy the curiosity of each one. As a pie plate holder, it is very disgracing that everyday you have to share your thought before anything can come out about food, another thing I notice from this family is that they never watch their mouth or what they suppose not to say to another person, they can ask you for a meat or chicken, I try to avoid been maneuver about all these, have you seen other family that they never talk or joke about their dinner and they also quiet about it, not that they do not know it. They seem to take it as a personal thing, a betrayal, and an undermining of God forbid, traditionally they want to understand in a patronizing way, but the God work lies in understanding the more you do, the more better you get. I can only picture the scenario as a plates and platters and no jobs, no workout.

The shaman culture is still a dominant force in Nigerian culture today. When I was making my research about what are Nigerian people made of, I could found out that majority are from shaman culture.

Television is good in the house and for the family, it can also be use for a Long distance education for the children that listen to a