She's Crazy

By Nicholl McGuire

A man doesn't suspect after great food, sex, and cool conversation with a beautiful companion that there is a dark side to her. He doesn't anticipate that one day his partner might hurt him with her words and hands. Yet, there are crazy women who will not hesitate to abuse a man over almost anything! In this non-fiction book, Nicholl McGuire, author of "Tell Me Mother You're Sorry" and "Say Goodbye to Dad," speaks to the man who has been berated, misunderstood, wounded, and beaten down by a frequently irate and abusive woman. He might be your son, brother, father, uncle, cousin, or best friend. He hides his shame. He tells you that everything is okay when it is not. He shares nothing that would make you suspect that he is hurting inside due to his controlling girlfriend, emotionally abusive wife, or violent companion. He grins in front of you and grimaces when at home with her. He hates what his bad relationship is doing to him and possibly his children. He needs peace! If you are this man, let this book inspire you to speak and break free from a dysfunctional relationship with a controlling partner.

In this compassionate and thought-provoking guide you will receive:
- Guidance on using the past to gain control of your present.
- Tips on recognizing warning signs a woman is abusive and not just having a bad day.
- How to exit a miserable relationship.
- Insightful information to help you rebuild your life.

You can feel confident knowing you are doing the right thing for yourself and family when you start working on having a new mindset about this abusive situation. Hitting, shoving, spitting, punching, slapping, biting, and other violent acts are abusive! Name-calling, isolating, economic abuse, ignoring, withdrawal of sex, and more are forms of emotional abuse. Get this book today, what you do with the content just might save your life!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Nicholl McGuire
• Release date: Nov 23, 2015
• ISBN: 9781310363740

Nicholl McGuire

A native of Pittsburgh PA and a transplant in Southern California, Nicholl McGuire is the author of "Laboring to Love Myself," "Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate," "When Mothers Cry," and other books. Nicholl runs a home-based business, Nicholl McGuire Media, providing writing and publishing services for individuals and businesses in need of website and blog content, family memoirs, visual presentations, clerical tasks, and more. Nicholl has been publishing online since 2007. Her work has appeared on eHow, Hub Pages, College Central, Axis of Logic, Natural Beauty Secret, Street Articles, Bukisa, Authors Den, and many other websites and blogs. Nicholl attended Point Park University and took classes in Journalism and Communications. In addition to writing, she offers spiritual wisdom on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7. A born again Christian believer, survivor of domestic violence and a mother of four sons, Nicholl is a woman who definitely knows about the challenges of loving one's self and others.

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She's Crazy

Nicholl McGuire

Published by Nicholl McGuire Media at Smashwords

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copyright 2015 by Nicholl McGuire

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This book is dedicated to my sons who may one day meet Ms. Crazy types. I pray that they won't lose their minds, freedom or souls for these heartbreakers. God bless.

Table of Contents

Introduction

Chapter One: At First Glance

Chapter Two: The Angry Woman

Chapter Three: You were Warned

Chapter Four: Controlling, Crazy Signs

Chapter Five: Mental and Health Issues

Chapter Six: Life Revolves Around Ms. Insecure

Chapter Seven: She's Intense and Crazy

Chapter Eight: Where is the Love?

Chapter Nine: Are You Driving Her Crazy?

Chapter Ten: Time to Get Away

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Introduction

Abused and abandoned by parents, bullied by siblings, and mentally ill, the pretty damsel in distress is going to sooner or later attract a naive man who just wants sex, a quality companion, or to boost his ego. Whatever his desire, a manipulative woman will use it to get what she wants: love, money, a place to stay, a friend with benefits, etc. If the man should let his weaknesses show (like saving women from themselves for starters) he will have attracted the damsel to compliment them; therefore making him an easy target for the crazy woman.

In the movie Basic Instinct, Catherine Tramell, was accused of murder, she used her sexuality to throw her accusers off her trail while seducing an investigator. Fatal Attraction, another movie that produced a sexy but obsessed deranged woman, showed how intense things can be when a man cheats on his wife with a woman like Alex Forrest. Clingy and possessive women are hard to rid yourself and family of especially when you are still connected to them in some way (house, children, business, etc.)

According to media reports, one in three abuse victims are male. So the chances that a man could be abused by a woman in his lifetime are likely. Whether he chooses to open up about wild incidents with an abusive woman or not, there is enough evidence displayed on and offline that prove that many women can be physically violent too. The secret has long been out; men do get harmed or murdered by insane women.

Countless families don't have a clue that sons, brothers, nephews, cousins, grandsons, and great grandsons have been abused by wives, fiancés, girlfriends and mistresses. Sometimes mothers and fathers too. Check out my books Tell Me Mother You're Sorry and Say Goodbye to Dad. Being repeatedly assaulted by someone who claims to care for you is not anything to be proud of and most men would rather forget about what happened then to get assistance.

Have you ever wondered why some of the best-looking women in Hollywood just can't seem to stay committed? They have the best of everything, but love. People who have formerly worked with celebrities have gone online telling the public how mentally disturbed Hollyweird is. So imagine being a fly on the wall watching your beloved actress clawing or hitting a favorite actor over and over on his head in one of those big, beautiful mansions sitting on a hill? Seeing is believing when you refuse to face facts especially when it comes to entertainers.

Most mainstream media outlets showed arm-swinging Solange, a singer, actress and the sister of award-winning musician Beyoncé, fight Jay-Z in an elevator. There were rumors circulating why she went off, but since there was no audio publicly available to listen we really do not know what made her go mad on her brother-in-law. Rumors were that he was disrespectful toward her sister and she felt the need to defend her. Just like some of us are shocked to see media footage or hear about A-list celebrities fighting, there are those you know who wouldn't ever believe that you were exposed to someone abusive.

Since crazy means many things to different people for purposes of this book, I will define it based on many articles, videos and conversations I have had with abusers and victims. A crazy woman is one who makes you feel like you are walking on egg shells, nervous and afraid. You take great care not to set her off like a time bomb. You do what you can to appease her while protecting yourself for fear she might do something to harm you and/or children. But if you don't meet her demands, she will either threaten or emotionally and physically abuse you.

Some people who have encountered foolish women knew right away something wasn't quite right in their minds just by their mannerisms like their acting: too loud, goofy, strange, talkative, quiet, or angry. They also felt very uncomfortable around these ladies. Sometimes you can see when a strange woman is about to blow her lid and other times you have no clue. I recall a woman who had an emotional breakdown over money. She took her bag and swung it at everything including cracking a glass case. Then she ran outdoors fell into a slump crying horribly while a male witness attempted to help. She tussled with him a little almost knocking the man over six feet tall down. She began to calm down. The police and paramedics arrived.

Now mental insanity can be temporal or permanent with plenty of people. When it is temporal, you will notice a rise of emotions with someone due to a difficult situation, sudden loss, and other life challenges that trigger mood swings. Normally, the average person will return to a reasonable mindset and proceed with his or her daily activities. However, one whose mind has gone mad is out of touch with reality, often confused, lost, saying off-the-wall things, behaving in shameful ways, sometimes not caring for his or herself and others, and often making you feel like you need to react to whatever, whenever or else they are going to hurt you, the bystanders, or themselves.

So you have a partner who is easily upset, so you begin to look for solutions. You might caution people about not coming around her at this time. You probably do nice things for her to lift her spirits. If someone she cares about is going through much; you immediately rush to that person's aid not just once but many times. Your companion is in trouble; you bail her out. You find yourself running with this person (and his or her family sometimes too) with no end in sight. Her mind and feet are rarely calm and neither is yours. She might take far more than she gives or provides so much to the point that you are spoiled (but not in a good way either). You probably are okay with participating in some activities with her for awhile, but the moment you stop, she becomes demanding and displays her anger like a two year old having a temper tantrum.

The insane woman might be wild, loud, domineering, or strangely odd or quiet. Upon closer inspection, she reminds you of someone such as: an ex-partner, a controlling mother, a sibling, or someone else you once spent a lot of time with. A familiar person from the past didn't produce a lot of happy moments for you or those you know and neither does the lady you have chosen. A crazy woman is reckless about what she says, does, and can be violent.

Some women in the Holy Bible would have been deemed unwise like Jezebel, Delilah, Eve, Potiphar's wife, Leah, and Lot's daughters. Consider the women who did things like: act deceptively, order the deaths of innocent people for selfish gain, participated in incest, stole from others, participated in prostitution, cheated on husbands, have babies for men who didn't love them, and more, these women weren't short on craziness in the Bible. During a time when women were stoned to death for doing some of those things, these ladies had to be somewhat mentally unstable to carry on in the ways that they did.

In this book, I'm not referring to women who are angry every now and again who do things like: yell, say some bad words, and slam doors then years go by before they are angry enough to want to leave their spouses or boyfriends. Most people have disputes, but oftentimes they get over them without having to beat their partners up or emotionally abuse them