Grieve Like A Man: Finding God's Strength As You Walk Through Your Loss
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Grief. It's a messy, hard path...yet it's a journey everyone will take at some point in life. When men walk that road, they often find they're not given the freedom to grieve as they need to. Author Jonathan Fann has been there, having lost two children and his father in less than 18 months.
Grieve like a Man offers men a practical guide to navigating the path of grief in a culture where men are taught to be tough. The author also provides insight for wives, mothers, sisters, and friends into how men grieve differently than women and how they can come alongside the men in their lives who are hurting from a loss.
Readers will learn how to face grief that occurs, not just in the case of death, but also during the loss of a marriage, jobs, and even a man's hopes and dreams. An encouraging book for every man dealing with loss.
Jonathan Fann
Jonathan Fann is a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary. He serves as a chaplain in the United States Army Reserves and previously worked as a hospital and hospice chaplain. Jonathan and his wife, Heather, are the parents of two children, now both in heaven, and a daughter, Madison. The couple live in Missouri where they direct a support group (www.MEND.org) for individuals who have experienced pregnancy or infant loss.
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Grieve Like A Man - Jonathan Fann
journey.
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I Don’t Have Time for This
Grief is never convenient.
LIFE WAS GREAT! Heather and I were living out fantastic days together. Our marriage was stronger than ever, and we stood ready for a new adventure. I had worked through my grief and was finally able to put my life as a cop behind me. Next up—the ministry!
We were going to put everything on the line for our new life. So with that wonderful mixture of excitement and terror that comes with risking everything for the unknown, we packed our bags and moved to Dallas for graduate school.
We were a little worried about what it would be like to live in such a large city so far away from family and friends. We also had all the usual concerns related to going back to school—I had not been the most dedicated student in the past, and the idea of wasting tuition dollars made my stomach hurt. My wife depended on me, and we were about to have another mouth to feed. Heather was expecting our first child during this transition.
To say my faith was being stretched would be an understatement. I was stressed, but I also had an incredible peace. In fact, it was one of the happiest times in my life. I knew God had set me on this journey. It was an exciting feeling to rely on Him in such a real way from day to day. I had no other choice. Questions hung heavy, of course, and I certainly didn’t have the answers. I remember praying, God, I have no idea how this is going to work out, so I just trust it to You. I must have said that a thousand times. God gave a thousand answers.
We settled in a small apartment just outside of Dallas. We managed to have enough money for my program so Heather—who had always dreamed of being a stay-at-home mom—was able to work at home.
I spent my days in class listening to debates, and then over dinner, Heather and I discussed what I had learned. One evening I was sitting at our dinner table while Heather finished cooking, and I breathed a silent prayer. God, You are so good to me. Life is so perfect right now, and I thank You for bringing me here.
The anxieties associated with our move had begun to fade. We had a nice apartment, and I quickly learned the new driving skills I needed to commute to downtown Dallas. God even threw in a huge park close to home so I could enjoy short escapes from all the sirens and car alarms in our neighborhood.
The only unknown for me had to do with being a dad. Like most new fathers, I wondered if I had what it takes. Would I really be able to live up to that dangerous comment I had made numerous times—My kids will never act like that!
It’s a Boy
Soon our small nursery was ready for its new occupant, and so was I. As I walked past the nursery doorway, my mind drifted to thoughts of my soon-to-arrive son. A boy. Heather wouldn’t let me register for baby gifts at Bass Pro Shops or Cabela’s, but the day was coming when he would be all Dad’s. It is amazing how your mind can drift instantly to the dreams you have for your son—even one you haven’t met. Hunting is a big deal for the men in my family, so it was no surprise that my thoughts drifted to the first year he would join the rest of the men at deer