Metamorphosis: Finding Your Passion Finding Your Purpose Finding U

By Cindy Tawiah

Metamorphosis: Finding Your Passion, Finding Your Purpose, Finding U by Cindy Tawiah is a brutally honest and candid account of abuse suffered at the hands of both loved ones and strangers. It chronicles the rise of a damaged young lady as she perseveres and persists in realizing her dream and thereby achieving self-actualization. The book includes various aspects of Tawiah’s life in which she does not recognize the signs of abuse in relationship after relationship, but comes to know true love as it radiates from within. Once she recognizes her need to fulfill, Tawiah becomes a successful business woman and entrepreneur. Her goal is to give back and encourage other women to find the love within themselves, as well as their purpose in life in order to realize their dreams.
The book is divided into sections entitled Humble Beginnings, My Awakening, Living My Purpose and Butterfly. Each section is subtitled with one of the stages in the evolution from caterpillar to butterfly. Metamorphosis: Finding Your Passion, Finding Your Purpose, Finding U is an easy read as Tawiah evolves and emerges from her own chrysalis to impact the lives of others.
Metamorphosis: Finding Your Passion, Finding Your Purpose, Finding U by Cindy Tawiah is very relevant to contemporary times and will encourage women to recognize the signs of abuse and compel them to action.

• Language: English
• Publisher: BookBaby
• Release date: Dec 4, 2014
• ISBN: 9781483547480

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Cindy

PREFACE

As I reflect on all that I have been through, I am grateful because my experiences – even the worst ones – have molded and shaped my life.

Peace is the best gift you can give yourself, and I truly am at peace. God has made so many of my dreams come true, and I know there is much more. Faith and Fear cannot exist in the same space, and you cannot allow yourself to become so paralyzed with fear that you lose sight of your goals. We call God our creator; what He did and does is create. If He dwells within us and we are God-like, then we are God (within). Therefore, we were born to create, and when we stop doing that we die (spiritually).

Find your heartbeat – that is, what makes you giddy with excitement. Don't think about the money because money is a byproduct of services we render; and when we create and follow our hearts, money naturally follows us or comes to us. Because I believe spirit is a currency, I have felt extremely wealthy during periods of my life – especially when I was helping those in need; that is because there is a wonderful exchange and a wonderful experience that comes from giving. You cannot receive with a clenched fist (nothing can go in or out).

I know the revelations and experiences that I share in this book will help you look within, and help you find your calling. May you discover it, and may the joy and peace you seek be yours. You don't need to look outside; look within and find your answers, your passion, and your mission. Finally, to all those who are being abused or have been abused emotionally, physically or sexually; when you attain the courage and find your voice, then speak up for those who cannot. You are a victor, not a victim.

Love and Light,

Cindy.

PART I

HUMBLE BEGINNINGS

Egg

CHAPTER 1

LOSS OF INNOCENCE

I always share with people that my journey began at the age of 16 when my chemistry teacher taught me to make hair products. But, in reality, my journey began at the age of 5 when I was lured into an empty house that was being painted. My friends urged me to go into the house with a man who was wearing blue overalls, and who promised me he would give me mangoes in exchange for me walking inside with him. Something didn’t feel right, and yet, I loved mangoes so much that I followed him. I was touched, fondled, and molested. Even though I wasn’t penetrated, I lost my innocence, and I lost a part of me as well. Something died within me that day. After he let me go, I walked outside and I heard him call out little girl, you forgot your mangoes. I began running in the direction of my home, and ran right into my father who was coming home from God knows where. I say from God knows where because my mother moved from country to country while my father remained with us. He went to work and visited friends, and I was primarily left with house helpers. On many occasions, I was starved and beaten by them while they entertained their boyfriends. When my father was out, I roamed the neighborhood to get away.

The first thing I remember my father saying was Akaaba (my middle name), where have you been? Girls aren’t supposed to roam the streets. I was only five at the time, naïve and afraid. All I wanted was for him to sense and acknowledge that something was wrong. I knew he had questions as to where I had been, but nothing further was said, and my guilt and shame, and my dirty little secret, were buried with me that day.

CHAPTER 2

LIVING ABROAD

In 1974-1975 we left Ghana to live with my mother in Switzerland – a new country, a new language, new people, and a new school. My younger sister and I learned the language and tried to assimilate. I felt very isolated and alone during that time because my mother worked and focused on her work. We had a nanny whose job was to fill my mother’s shoes while my mother worked. Our nanny was very kind and gentle, and I loved her because she was one of the first people in my life to truly nurture me. My mother bought us very lovely clothes, toys, and bags, but what I felt was missing was that nurturing bond between a mother and daughter. On the other hand, my sister shared something with my mother, which drove a wedge between my mother and me. My father had his girlfriend living with us when my mother was out of the country, and my sister shared this information with my mother. My mother asked me about my father’s infidelity – wanting me to share what I knew. When I refused to disclose the information, she turned on me and emotionally damaged me further. My sister shared her bed with our mother, whereas I was left in the cold. Our mother didn’t realize that I had been through so many traumas, and that, during her absences, her behavior led to her death in my mind. My mother died within me; she died when I was five years old, and she died when she failed to rescue

Reviews for Metamorphosis

[OlgaMartin · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

The book was very informative concerning many struggles, abuse from family and boy friend girl relations, molestation, over coming fear, giving in to family wants, and learning to survive in spite of obstacles. A quick attention holding read, and I highly recommend it.

[Teresa Hamilton · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Metamorphosis: Finding Your Purpose, Finding Your Passion, Finding U, is a must-read for anyone looking to discover their true purpose in life despite experiencing setbacks from family members, friends, or failed ventures. It is about one woman's desire to live out her true God-given talents and gifts despite adversity. Cindy shares her story of disappointments and triumphs in a heart wrenching manner that anyone can relate to in their lives. This book leaves you feeling hopeful and confident in believing that you can accomplish anything you desire by NEVER giving up!

[D · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Metamorphosis is a great read! It is an insightful view of a woman's journey. Kudos to author Cindy Tawiah for her openness to share the depths of her story -- one that many can connect with. Truly others will be encouraged by reading this book. Encouraged to do more than overcome, but to succeed! Very inspiring book!