**The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program is Open for Application** Decide that this is the year you become securely attached, and attract the love you deserve: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramIn this episode, I interview Jenn Flood, a recent graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program. Jenn shares her powerful journey of healing her disorganized attachment style and the struggles she faced in her relationships. Inside of this episode: Jenn and I discuss how understanding disorganized attachment can provide language and support for individuals struggling in their relationshipsThe importance of self-compassion and self-forgiveness when healingHow to continue to work on becoming securely attached while in a relationship If you related to Jenn’s story, and know you are ready to do the healing work, take the next step today: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Background01:00 Life Before the Program03:10 Understanding Disorganized Attachment07:05 Unhealthy Beliefs About Self and Relationships09:41 Roots of Unhealthy Beliefs in Childhood12:31 Showing Up for Your Inner Child13:07 Practicing Self-Compassion14:09 Tools for Healing and Growth16:06 Challenges and Breakthroughs in the Program21:29 Changes in Relationship Dynamics26:57 Navigating Conflict and Communication32:38 Continuing the Healing Journey39:47 Overcoming Shame and Taking the First Step42:39 Advice for Those Considering the Program45:49 Best Life Advice