My guest on this week's Best You Podcast episode is Kute Blackson. Kute is a beloved inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. He speaks at countless events he organizes around the world as well as at outside events including A-Fest, YPO (Young Presidents Organization), and EO (Entrepreneurs Organization). He is a member of the Transformational Leadership Council, a select group of one hundred of the worlds foremost authorities in the personal development industry. Winner of the 2019 Unity New Thought Walden Award, Blackson is widely considered a next generation leader in the field of personal development. His mission is simple: To awaken and inspire people across the planet to access inner freedom, live authentically and fulfill their true life’s purpose.Check out this week’s episode of the Best You podcast to learn how to stop lying to yourself, why no one owes you anything, what Kute told his Father when his Father told him he was going to be taking over 300 churches in Ghana, Africa, how he repaired his relationship with his father, how to listen to your soul, and so much more!Give Kute a follow!Facebook: kuteblacksonlovenowInstagram: @kuteblacksonAnd even more importantly, check out his books on his website, https://kuteblackson.com/_____________________________In this episode:3:20: How did Kute have the courage to realize his father's plans for him weren't what he actually wanted to do?8:12: What happened after Kute told his father that he didn't want to follow his plan for his life?13:21: Pain is a gift14:19: How do you know if you’re lying to yourself?16:20: What was one of the biggest lies Kute was telling himself at age 18 that allowed him to grow when he discovered it?21:52: Kute's forgiveness toward his father, and how it can be freeing to forgive your own parents28:44: How do we determine what is truly our soul speaking to us versus fear speaking to us?36:25: You have to want the truth more than you want what you want40:15: What are three things that Kute can currently do or work on to get closer to his best version of himself?_____________________________Kute’s Three Keys to Getting Closer to his Best Self:1. Stretch More2. Have More Fun3. Ask People for Help_____________________________Want to try out the 10 Week Transformation - THE premiere results oriented fitness program?Go to: https://www.nickcarrier.com/10wt to learn more and get signed up!Follow Nick on Instagram: @carrierbestyou