There is no such thing as a completely healed person. You heal and grow through things, but there will always be something else to grow through and heal from. So don’t wait for the right time or the right person. Dive in now, responsibly. That is advice from today’s guest, Oscar Robles, a Trans man, and Senior Marketing Manager on HubSpot’s Community-led Growth team. In this episode we also talk about having depression, taking care of your mental health, dating and relationships, and staying sober from addictions. We talk:How the name Oscar chose him - 5:26How his suicide attempt propelled his transition - 11:52What his support system looked like growing up - 18:09Advice to listeners who want to create a community - 24:25How Oscar navigates relationships - 31:13Healing while dating - 40:38Advice to someone trying to navigate their identity and sexuality - 51:54Click here for transcript!Read more about Oscar in his bio below:Oscar Robles is currently a Senior Marketing Manager on HubSpot’s Community-led Growth team. In this capacity, he is focused on the company’s customer and partner-led groups that connect HubSpot users interested in advancing their tech knowledge. Oscar is also a trained organizer and facilitator, previously working with grassroots community groups, school districts, law firms, and major corporations in their diversity and inclusion efforts. Passionate about social and restorative justice, he seeks to create a safe space for individuals to be their full selves, as well as self-reflect on their identity and how to show up as stronger allies in society. When not working, Oscar enjoys spending time hiking upstate with his pup Willie, practicing yoga, cooking, and visiting local arts institutions.Are you enjoying the Dem Bois Podcast? Donate today to help support the cost of production and the honorarium we pay our guests for their time. All donations are tax-deductible. Click here! Donate to support our 2023 Gender Affirming Surgery Grant Fund here!