Today we have another Dem Bois Podcast First! In this episode, my guest TJ Jourian shares a difficult time in his life where he had to revert back to his previous gender and how that affected his mental health. And, I want to give an emotional warning, because we do discuss suicide ideation. We also discuss masculinity, being trans identified vs. being a man, cultivating healthy higher education environments, and much more! We talk:TJ’s transition journey - 5:48How his family accepts his identity now - 15:50How reverting back to his previous gender affected his mental health - 24:42TJ’s higher education and how he navigated those spaces - 34:47The importance of community in higher education -  47:10How you can work with TJ - 54:12Click here for transcript!ReferencesBoys Don’t Cry (movie) Brown Boi ProjectEmergent Strategy by adrienne marie brownRead more about our guest in his bio below:T.J. Jourian is a scholar, consultant, and coach with Trans*Formational Change. He helps changemakers – diversity workers, activists, creatives, scholars, and leaders – reclaim and transform their energy, as they transform the world. T.J. partners with colleges, companies, conferences, and community-based organizations across Turtle Island in their efforts towards equity and inclusion. His research examines race, gender, and sexuality in higher education; masculinity, transness, and racialization; and campus gender and sexuality practitioners. T.J. has published extensively, including the co-edited books Queerness as Being in Higher Education: and Queerness as Doing in Higher Education: Narrating the Insider/Outsider Paradox as LGBTQ+ Scholars and Practitioners.http://www.tjjourian.net/https://www.instagram.com/tjjourian/https://twitter.com/tjjourianhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/tjjourian/Are you enjoying the Dem Bois Podcast? Donate today to help support the cost of production and the honorarium we pay our guests for their time. All donations are tax-deductible. Click here! Donate to support our 2023 Gender Affirming Surgery Grant Fund here!