Kate and Carinn discuss I May Destroy You Episode 3, the brain child of Libra creator, Michaela Coel. **Spoilers***** In a flashback to three months ago, Arabella and Terry are in Italy having fun and showcasing the complexity of their friendship. Kate senses some jealousy from Terry, but Carinn thinks she's just frustrated she hasn't gotten hers yet. Bella tells Terry to “control what you can, no more, no less,” we swear this quote has to make in on our “list”! (01:20)*** Carinn & Kate love the scene where Arabella and Terry get high, which then turns into a personal and hilarious chat about our own views on pot vs. drinking!  (06:09)*** The brilliance of this show is portraying, in a casually accurate way, things that happen in everyday life but we never see on TV. Bella and Terry getting ready to hit the club is a perfect example of that. (10:50)*** Bella and Terry partying showcases the differences between them and apparently the differences between Carinn and Kate too! Hamilton (the musical) gets a shout out...say whaaaat? (12:40)*** Biago really surprises us in this episode -- a gentleman and a drug dealer -- who shares a sex scene with Bella that far surpasses the “I can’t believe I am watching this on television” bar previously set by this show. Still pulling our jaws off the floor at the brilliance of Michaela Coel! (20:25)*** Meanwhile Terry is having an equally confusing, yet unexpectedly cringey, sexual encounter in the next room with two Italian men. Terry's threesome highlights the nuanced layers of consent in modern-day dating. As usual, it’s complicated and has us struggling in the shades of gray. (28:24)*** Biagio and Arabella share a moment at the beach. He gets vulnerable and tells her to quit the drugs. Will his words come back to haunt her? Kate & Carinn debate how this conversation will play out in the future of their relationship. (37:30)Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @popfictionwomen and on Twitter @pop_women. To do a full deep dive, check out our website at www.popfictionwomen.com. Stay Complicated!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.