What are the obstacles keeping you from loving your adult children.? "Oh, but I do love them" you say.  I say back to you, "if love feels so amazing, why are you so miserable."Love trumps every other emotion.  Love will win every time.  What's keeping us from feeling complete and whole that love offers to us to feel....our thoughts about our adult children's choices and behavior.  It's not your child's fault that you are feeling disappointed, hurt, resentful, unloved, disrespected.  It's your fault.  It's what you are making your child's actions or inactions mean.  I point out to you five obstacles that are robbing you of feeling the reward that only loving your adult children  can offer you.  It's your responsibility to love them (only if you don't want to feel miserable) not their responsibility to earn your love.  Love is always an option.  Love is always available.  Love is a choice.Have you received my new resource "3 Steps To Be Yourself Around Your Adult Children?" Click HERE to receive it. You'll be amazed what life offers you when you take back the power to be yourself around everyone.Have you ever considered 1:1 coaching? To get started, book a call with me to find out how coaching can help you. I offer an 8 week coaching program where I help you practice seeing things from a perspective and thinking new thoughts that result in you living a more peaceful life with your adult children. Go to bonnielyman.com (click here) to book a call.