Our brains run off of two software programs.  A positive software program and a negative one.  It's our choice as to which one we want to use.  But it seems we automatically default to using the negative program when our children are not doing things like we would like.  We are so familiar with this program that we don't even try to use the positive program.  When a negative circumstance happens we lean toward thinking that it's going to be this way forever.  If we were to use the positive program more often, we would become more optimistic about positive changes happening in everyone's lives.  Listen to four steps I offer you to become more optimistic about negative circumstances working out.Have you received my new resource "3 Steps To Be Yourself Around Your Adult Children?" Click HERE to receive it. You'll be amazed what life offers you when you take back the power to be yourself around everyone.Have you ever considered 1:1 coaching? To get started, book a call with me to find out how coaching can help you. I offer an 8 week coaching program where I help you practice seeing things from a perspective and thinking new thoughts that result in you living a more peaceful life with your adult children. Go to bonnielyman.com (click here) to book a call.