In this episode, Steve Fretzin and Wendy Salajka discuss:The sages and saboteurs in our lives and how they affect what we do.How Positive Intelligence is relevant to running a law firm. Mental health in the legal industry. The 5 powers of the sage and building the human connection first. Key Takeaways:Our brains are not reliable. Sometimes they are for us, sometimes they are against us, and, in an effort to protect us, sometimes they hurt us in their attempts. Giving into the thoughts of your saboteurs is not helping you, even if they feel like they are what is driving you to success. Your saboteurs are never right. Your negative emotions are one-second indicators to course correct, not a space to live in and have drive you forward. There is good and bad in everything we do. Even if that good is microscopic, it can be enough to power us through anything.  "The more you accumulate the positive, the more you realize that this thing that I'm stuck in isn't going to last forever. But also, you build up a database in your brain so that when you are going through difficult times, you know you can get through it." —  Wendy Salajka Thank you to our Sponsors!Moneypenny: https://www.moneypenny.com/us/Get Visible: https://www.getvisible.com/ Episode References: Uncorking a Story - “So, How do we Begin? With Steve Fretzin” https://uncorkingastory.com/steve-fretzin/The Mel Robbins Podcast - https://www.melrobbins.com/podcast About Wendy Salajka: My name is Wendy Salajka (suh/ /like/ /uh). I am a lifelong observer of people and a student of psychology and neuroscience both formally and informally. I have a BS in psychology and a master’s degree in Leadership Development specializing in Organizational Leadership. I have certifications in Positive Intelligence Quotient (PQ), Neuroscience of Change Neuropsychology, DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy), ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), Life Coaching, Brain Health Coaching & Human Design.  Connect with Wendy Salajka:  Website: https://identifyandconquer.com/pq-home/Email: wendy@identifyandconquer.comPhone: 331-202-8367LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendysalajka/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/wendy-salajka/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wendy.salajkaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/identifyandconquerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy_salajka_pilcher/ Connect with Steve Fretzin:LinkedIn: Steve FretzinTwitter: @stevefretzinInstagram: @fretzinsteveFacebook: Fretzin, Inc.Website: Fretzin.comEmail: Steve@Fretzin.comBook: Legal Business Development Isn't Rocket Science and more!YouTube: Steve FretzinCall Steve directly at 847-602-6911  Show notes by Podcastologist Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.