Matt Rudd is Deputy Editor at The Sunday Times Magazine which he joined in 2002. Matt's column, Man Trouble, for which he was awarded columnist of the year at the 2019 BSME awards, His book is called Man Down, and here's a brief intro to what it's all about, and what we talk about today.  On the surface, men today don't have much to complain about. At work, they still get paid more than women for doing the same jobs. At home, they still shirk most of the unpaid labour. Putting the bins out does not count. Beneath the surface, it's a different story. An alarming number of men end up anxious, exhausted, depressed - and very reluctant to admit they are. Even if they do everything that's expected of them in work, life and fatherhood, genuine happiness is still elusive. By midlife, their levels of stress are higher and their levels of wellbeing are lower - and work-life balance turns out to be just a cruel illusion. In Man Down, Matt Rudd takes the long view on this perplexing paradox. Drawing on stories from his own life, and the varied lives of the other men he has interviewed, he goes back to the beginning to consider what makes the modern man - how the seeds of midlife misery are sown in the school playground and cultivated through adolescence and into adulthood. By turns compassionate and provocative, Man Down asks the important question: is midlife unhappiness inevitable? Spoiler alert: it isn't.   THIS SHOW IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: Magnesium Breakthrough - One of the most effective magnesium supplements out there. Say goodbye to having to buy 7 different bottles of magnesiums to get the complete dose. Go to www.magbreakthrough.com/zestology and use coupon code ZESTOLOGY10 to save up to 40% off select packages to get the most full spectrum and effective magnesium product ever. If there’s ONE MINERAL you should be worried about not getting enough of... it’s MAGNESIUM. I take it every day, and even more after exercise. But most supplements contain only 1 or 2 forms of magnesium... when in reality there are at least 7 that your body needs and benefits from. Magnesium Breakthrough has all 7 forms of this mineral. Check out the exclusive deal for Zestology podcast listeners which you won’t find anywhere else at www.magbreakthrough.com/zestology If you are in the UK, head to www.bioptimizers.co.uk and use the code ZESTOLOGY or ZESTOLOGY10 you’ll get 10%.