Skepticism is hurting you. Have, and believe in, people, and in yourself. Have beliefs in programs, trainings, and endeavors that you want to do. If you go into something -anything at all - with a negative mindset and you don’t believe it it will work, it absolutely will not.    Try to come at life in the faith and belief and mindset that it will work. The more skeptical you are and the more that you believe that things will not work out. You’re basically creating your own destiny and outcome they absolutely will not.