The Complete Handbook on BDSM for the Intermediate Player

By Sadi Mckena

Now that you are no longer a newcomer to the BDSM community you may be convinced that you know your way through your chosen niche. The truth of the matter is, however, that the best members of any kink are those who continue to educate themselves for the betterment of their chosen relationships.

"The Complete Handbook on BDSM for the Intermediate Player" takes a look at some of the more intermediate points that players in the bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism communities should know.

Sure, you may have mastered your kink in terms of knowing what you like and what you want, you may even have developed a lasting relationship already, but believe us when we tell you that the learning doesn't stop there! As a responsible member of your kink community it is up to you to constantly educate yourself not only on methodology, but also on the lesser understood aspects of kink relationships and that is precisely what this book aims to do!

Whether you are a dominant, a submissive, a masochist or a disciplinarian, there is something inside for you that can take your relationship to a whole new level!

• Language: English
• Publisher: The Other Side of the Tracks Publishing
• Release date: Dec 5, 2018
• ISBN: 9781386371380

Book preview

Introduction

Chapter 1: Bondage

Styles of Bondage Explained

Western Style Bondage

Japanese Style Bondage

Suspension Style Bondage

Speed Style Bondage

Sex Bondage

Advanced Bondage Position Safety

The Intermediate Bondage Toolbox

Bondage Tape

Rope

Leather Restraints

Metal Restraints

Bondage Cuffs

Bondage Mittens

Bondage Yoke

Suspension Cuffs

Bondage Gear

Ball Gag

Bit Gag

Chastity Belt

Collar

Spreader Bar

Penis Gag

Chapter 2: Discipline

The Lowdown on Discipline

Four Types of Disciplinarians

The Permissive Disciplinarian

The Punitive Disciplinarian

The Mixed Style Disciplinarian

The Proper Style Disciplinarian

Discipline versus Punishment

Discipline Training

The Disciplinarian’s Tool Bag

Cane

Crop

Paddle

Leather Paddle

Chapter 3: Dominance

Psychological Aspects of Dominant Play

Violence and Dominance

Limits on Domination

Always Question Yourself

Find a Mentor

Chapter 4: Submission

Always be Mindful of Your Emotional and Mental Health

Being a Doormat Vs Being a Submissive

Submissives Are Not Manipulative

Your Dominant is NOT a White Knight in Shining Armor

Good Submissives Don’t Have to Be Pushed to Submit

Chapter 5: Sadism

The Four Forensic Classifications of Sexual Sadists

Sadists ALWAYS Have the Consent of Their Partners

Sadism is NOT About Discipline

Sadists and Masochists Seldom Enjoy Each Other’s Company

Sadists Don’t Just Have to be Sadists

Chapter 6: Masochism

Masochistic Relationships Are About More than Giving and Receiving Pain

Masochism Does Not Have to Rely on a Sadist

Masochists Must Be Confident and Able to Communicate

The Four Classifications of Masochists

Not All Masochists Are Sexual Masochists

Conclusion

Introduction

As an intermediate player in the BDSM world, there are few books out there that are truly catered to your needs. The great majority of books that exist in this niche focus solely on newcomers to bondage, discipline, submission, sadism, and masochism. These books have little to offer those who are already familiar with BDSM basics. The Complete Handbook on BDSM for the Intermediate Player, however, is aimed specifically at the more knowledgeable individuals who are seeking a little more guidance in their BDSM realm of choice. Whether you are an aspiring dominatrix, a submissive, a switch or anything in between, you will find plenty of intermediate tips in this book to keep you busy for a good while to come!

Chapter 1: Bondage

THE WORLD OF BONDAGE is quite varied for the intermediate player in the BDSM community. With basic knowledge of the dos and don’ts of the bondage game, it’s about time that you delve a little deeper in to your kink! In this chapter we will look at what tools you should have in your toolbox, the different styles of bondage