Preparing the Bride: Who is Jesus Returning For?

By James A. Cousineau

God calls His people to committment. God desires, deserves, and demands wholehearted love. Christ-followers can experience abundant life here on earth as we live our lives for HIm, preparing us for His return.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Scriptor House
• Release date: Feb 9, 2024
• ISBN: 9798886921816

James A. Cousineau

James A. Cousineau pursued education by obtaining a Bachelors and two Masters degrees, one from Yale University, and became a teacher, counselor and coach. Coming to the end of life on his own terms through a painful dicorce, he turned his life over completely to the Lord Jesus Christ. For the past 30 years he has sought to serve God faithfully as a pastor, church planter, and trainer of leaders. He lives in Gladstone Michigan with Susan, his wife of 28 years. They have 6 children and 7 grandchildren, and currently are ministering to the Native Americans, encouraging pastors, and preparing the church for the Lord's return.

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Outline

Intro – Included discussion about the signs of the times, fulfillment of end times, Bible prophecy and the closeness of the coming of the Lord.

Jesus promised He would come again to take us to be with Him to a place He has prepared for us, and scripture states it is an incredible place and life He has for us, beyond our comprehension.

We can begin to experience this abundant life and walk in these Kingdom blessings here and now.

As we allow the Holy Spirit to work in us, to lead, convict, teach and empower us to live for Christ – we will be prepared for His coming.

The real question is not when is He coming, but who is He coming for and will I be among those He receives to Himself?

Concerning these end times and His coming, Jesus said though we wouldn’t know the exact hour or day, but that we are to be looking for the signs of His coming – to watch, pray and be ready for Him to come at any moment.

As we watch, pray, and then do whatever He asks us to do, we will be ready for His coming or our going to be with Him, whichever comes first. The Bride has made herself ready!

He is coming to take a prepared people to a prepared place, so what does it mean to be ready? In light of the possible imminent return of Jesus, what manner of persons ought we to be/how would we want to be found by Him?

What sort of Bride does Jesus desire/deserve and will he accept? Who is He soon coming for?

A Pure Bride – not just outward beauty but the inner holiness of heart and spirit, free of compromise and contamination from the flesh, world and/or enemy.

Develope the heart attitude of Jesus that is evidenced and manifested through the fruit of the Spirit.

This means the willingness to deny the self/flesh and walk the crucified life in order to follow and glorify Jesus.

By the Spirit we must make every effort to cleanse ourselves, mortify the flesh, and perfect holiness in the fear of the Lord.

A Powerful Bride – not weak and wimpy, holding on by our fingernails saying, Even so, come Lord Jesus!

A violent people advancing the Kingdom by destroying the works of the devil.

Those who not only overcome all opposition but who are more than conquerors through Jesus Christ – by His blood and through our faith in and total surrender to Him.

A Productive Bride – not sitting and waiting, hoping we can endure to the end, but doing business, doing the master’s will, and going forth to do great exploits until He returns.

Faithful stewards who are willing to risk all to glorify the master – using everything He has given us to please and honor Him.

Available for whatever, whenever, and wherever He asks to do or go. Every good work.

The few laborers willing to gather and make disciples (prepare) the harvest.

A Passionate Bride – not cold or lukewarm but deeply in love with and devoted to Him one looking and longing for His coming, preparing for His arrival, and desiring only to spend every minute in His presence.

I’m sure I could write a book about each of these characteristics of the Bride of Christ (and maybe I will!), but I believe God has called me to focus on the last one for two main reasons:

Most of all, it is the essence and key to everything we are and do for the Lord. Everything comes down to loving God and others.

God desires, deserves and demands our wholehearted love!

Love is the distinguishing mark of a true disciple. It’s not only the greatest quality, but without it we gain nothing from all our giftings and efforts, and we are nothing!

Secondly, it is the one thing that holds us to the end when the shaking comes, yet seems to be lacking in the last day’s church.

The love of many will grow cold (or lukewarm) from hurt, hard times or compromise with the things of the world.

Many will become lovers of self, lovers of pleasure, and lovers of money, rather than lovers of God.

Before I proceed I want to say unequivocally and emphatically that we can do nothing that will honor and glorify Him without the help of the Holy Spirit – we must ask for and let the Helper help!

He gives us both the will and way, the desire and power (as He pours out the love of God in our hearts and enables us to demonstrate our love in worship and obedience) to please him!

He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we could ask or imagine according to the power that works in us, with us, and through us.

However, in things pertaining to salvation, sanctification and the fulfillment of our purpose/destiny, God requires our cooperation and diligent effort.

Because He is at work in us we are commanded to work out and mature in His purposes for our lives with a holy fear.

While we definitely can’t do it without Him (and He gives enabling grace to those who humbly acknowledge their weakness), He won’t do it without us.

Getting back to the importance of love, as we prepare for His coming and do all He desires us to before this return, I want to especially focus on what we can and must do.

First we must understand what true love really is according to the word of God. It’s not simply a feeling or an experience that happens (fall in and out of) to you but is largely a decision that is demonstrated by actions.

We must fully commit ourselves to one another and then be willing to do all we can to remove hindrances, as well as discover and embrace the ways that allow love to flow and grow.

I. The Call to Commitment God Desires, Deserves and Demands Wholehearted Love

Chapter 1

The Second Coming:

Who is Jesus Coming For?

These days there is much talk about the end times, Bible prophecy, and the second coming of Christ. Believers and non-believers alike are recognizing the signs of the times and wondering if this could be the Last Days that are spoken of in some way by most of the major religions. Hollywood has fueled and capitalized on this concern by producing many films with an apocalyptic theme. Radio and TV talk show hosts have brought on numerous guests to discuss this hot topic. Even on a national news broadcast I heard one commentator state that in a poll nearly 70% of Americans believe we are living in the last days and that it could even happen in the next few years.

This book is not intended to debate whether or not this event will actually happen. As a follower of Jesus Christ and one who has diligently read and studied the word of God for many years, I know that the second coming of Christ is a given. In John 14:2-3, Jesus says that He is preparing a place for His disciples and promises to come again to receive them and take them to be with Him. Also in Acts 1:9-10, when Jesus was taken up to heaven after His resurrection and brief appearance to His disciples, an angel declares that this same Jesus will return in like manner. There are many other verses in scripture that also point to the certainty of this event and even describe some of the events preceding His coming.

The many Bible prophecies and end time descriptions are a matter of intense study and debate today as people seek to discover the actual timing of these events. There are numerous excellent books and teachings on prophecy by people more scholarly than I, and I encourage you to prayerfully read or listen to some of these…

Since Jesus Himself stated that no on would know the hour or the day, many have concluded, Then why should we think and worry about it? However, He went on to warn His disciples that His coming would be sudden and unexpected for those who were not prepared, just like a thief in the night. Therefore, He commanded them (and us today) to watch, pray and be ready!

During the time of the first advent, in spite of the many prophecies that were fulfilled exactly as they had beenforetold and the miracles which were meant to confirm His identity, many would reject Him. Because their hearts were not prepared, they were blind to the true nature of His Kingdom and they did not know the time of their visitation or the things that would bring true inner peace and well being. This would lead to their eventual judgment and destruction.

God knew how important it was for His people to recognize and receive His Son so He sent John before Him in order to prepare them. John was described as a forerunner of the Messiah who was to make ready a people prepared for the Lord. He declared himself to be a voice crying in the wilderness, Prepare the way of the Lord. Make His paths straight. The message he preached of repentance and surrender made it clear that the preparation required was a matter of the heart. There were many religious people of the day whose outward appearance and actions seemed to indicate they certainly were the ones who would be chosen. They were proud of their good work and sure that God would be equally impressed. However, they were rebuked by both John and Jesus as being a brood of vipers and whitewashed tombs, looking good on the outside but dead inside. Further, Jesus said they were people who honored Him with their lips but their hearts were far from Him.

Before His return Jesus promised that there also would be people who would operate in this same manner as John, in the spirit and power of Elijah, to prepare His people. Like John, they will desire only to attend the bridegroom and help prepare the bride for the great marriage of the Lamb, which will only happen when the bride has made herself ready. So the friend of the bridegroom with the help of the Holy Spirit will continue to make things ready for His coming. At the right time the Spirit and the bride will say, Come! Jesus will say, I am coming quickly. To which His prepared bride will exclaim, Amen, Even so, come, Lord Jesus!

When Jesus returns, He will be coming in His full glory as the King of Kings and Lord of lords, unlike His first coming when he emptied Himself and became of no reputation taking the form of a baby. The day of the Lord is declared to be a Great and Terrible Day for that reason. Truly it will be a glorious day for those whose hearts are right and ready, but it will be judgment for those who, for whatever reason, have not made the necessary preparations.

So, the important question in these exciting days is not when is He coming, but who is He coming for and will I be among those He receives to Himself? Since the Bible does say that many are called but few are chosen, what must I do to be among the chosen, those invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb? As we watch the signs of the times and see the day fast approaching, we need also to be praying for and listening to His instructions. Lord, give us ears to hear what the Spirit is saying to the church in this crucial hour! Then, if we are going to be among those who are prepared for His coming, we must be willing to quickly and completely obey Him in everything or risk being left behind (as the popular book and movie series portrays!) What a terrible thing to hear the door being locked, to know it’s too late, and to hear, Depart from me. I never knew you…

I have asked the Lord to help me be one of the few who will be ready and chosen to be with Him forever. How can I keep from being one of the many on the path that leads to destruction, or one of the many who will be deceived and fall away in these difficult last days? There are many voices clamoring for our attention, and the church in America seems to be going in so many different directions that it can be very confusing and frustrating. How can I stay on the right path and keep from being discouraged, distracted and/or deceived away from God’s intended purpose for my life and His church? If you have had some of these same questions and are also sensing the urgency of the hour, then keep reading. The answer the Lord gave me brought me back to His original call for me to ministry and is the subject of this book…

Lk. 19:42-44

Lk. 1:17

Rev. 19:7

22:17

22:20

Chapter 2

Get and Keep Your Heart Right

When God first brought me to Himself and demonstrated His love for me through His Son Jesus Christ, I was overwhelmed and determined to love, worship and serve Him the rest of my life. He especially gave me a heart for the church, and though I have always sought to lead people to Jesus, my deepest desire has been to see people grow up to maturity so that together we would come to the ‘fullness of the measure of the stature of Christ’. My passion is that the church would really be the church in every way that Jesus has redeemed and called us to be. Then we would honor and glorify Him as well as act as true Ambassadors who represent and reveal Him to a lost and dying world.

If the Come and See! part of evangelism would match or exceed the Go and tell! there would be no lack of harvest. Rather than begging, bribing and trying to trick them to church, we might see thousands coming and saying, What must I do to be saved so I can have what you have? As we seek to be like Him and present the true