The Millionaire Prisoner 4: Pen Pal Mastery

By Mike Enemigo and Josh Kruger

LEARN HOW TO ACHIEVE YOUR PEN PAL DREAMS!

Tired of subpar results? Here's a master blueprint that you can use to get tons of pen pals! TMP 4: Pen Pal Mastery is your complete roadmap to finding your one true love. You won't be able to put it down! With this book you'll DISCOVER the SECRETS to:

1. Get FREE pen pals & which sites are best to use
2. Successful tactics female prisoners can win with
3. Use astrology to find love, friendship & more
4. Build a winning social media presence
5. Playing phone tag & successful sex talk
6. Hidden benefits of foreign pen pals
7. Find your success mentors
8. Turning "hits" into friendships
9. Learn how to write letters/emails that get results

All of this and much more! This book shows you how!

• Language: English
• Publisher: The Cell Block
• Release date: Aug 13, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223857419

Mike Enemigo

Mike Enemigo is America's #1 incarcerated author. He is the founder of The Cell Block, an independent media and publishing company with over 25 books published and many more on the way. Among others, Mike and/or his books have been featured on websites like HuffPo.com, Thizzler.com, Hoodillustrated.com, RapBay.com and SacramentoRap.com, and magazines like Straight Stuntin, State V. Us, Kite, and Prison Legal News.

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CHAPTER ONE

My Story ...

The author’s character is read from title page to end.

– Henry David Thoreau

It all started back in grade school when I began writing letters to girls in my class. I was a poor kid from the right side of the track. Literally, right next to the train tracks that divided our town school district. Because of that I went to the middle school with all the rich girls. I didn’t know it at the time, but these girls didn’t want to be seen with me because I was poor. Yet, they would still carry-on secret conversations with me through notes and letters. Some of these girls would call my house, and we would talk on the phone for hours. My love affair with pen pals and women started then and has carried on ever since. You see, I’m a Gemini and a rake. I love communicating and writing letters to women. I love the persuasive power of words. I’m not ashamed of this fact and will not try and hide it. It’s what and who I am. So, don’t let me write to your sister.

After middle school, I went to high school and stopped writing love letters to girls because then it was all about face-to-face interactions and phone conversations. This was in 1993 so there was no text messaging available. But my success continued. I would mack to girls at lunch, so they’d buy me food from the snack bar, and I’d save my money. At the age of 15, I ended up in juvenile prison in St. Charles, Illinois. That was when I really fell in love with writing letters to women. I started corresponding with a friend of my sister – Mandy. She was a year ahead of me in school and had a boyfriend, but that didn’t bother me, or her, for that matter. We also occasionally talked on the phone. But she wasn’t the only girl I was writing.

There was Elizabeth, a fellow juvenile’s sister from a suburb of Chicago. I also seduced a young prison nurse with my letters. She ended up succumbing to my youthful zeal, and we began weekly phone conversations. Our secret relationship almost ended up costing me my parole and her the nurse’s job. But I was smart enough (or scared enough) to curtail all communication. I signed up for the prison art therapy class and began a secret correspondence with the hot college intern who volunteered to teach the class. She would pull me out of regular school for one-on-one therapy walks around the pond in the back of the prison. I miss those walks! Even though I had those women, I still wanted more. I wrote to some of the female teachers at our prison’s school, but they turned me down. One turned me in, and I got a ticket. Those rejections did nothing to dissuade my ambition to write other women.

After my parole, I went back to my hometown and began a few short-term relationships with a few girls. I ended up getting caught up when I tried to put two girls on the phone with each other. I thought I was a pimp like the rapper Too Short. That didn’t work out, and they both left me. Anyway, I eventually got nabbed on an armed robbery, and while in the county jail I began writing my cellmate’s sister. After she became smitten, he decided that he didn’t like the idea of me writing his sister and picked a fight. When I beat him up, she decided she didn’t like me anymore. Her loss, not mine. I ended up pleading guilty for the minimum six years, and off I went to adult prison.

Not too long after I got to Shawnee Correctional Center in southern Illinois, I got a letter from Mandy. She was my sister’s friend that I wrote while in juvie. Her boyfriend had left her, and she needed someone to talk to. We started writing each other every day. And that turned into a 2-1/2 year stretch of letters, phone calls, and visits. I also started another pen pal relationship with Amy, a Latin girl from the northside of Chicago, who a friend of mine hooked me up with. I paroled out in February 1999 and went to live with Mandy. Amy called my mom’s house wanting to come down from Chicago to hook up, but I vetoed that idea and lost contact with her. Mandy and I had a passionate, if not explosive relationship. We found out she was pregnant a few days before I got locked up on this case. She gave birth to two beautiful twin girls in February 2000. Then shortly thereafter, she broke bad on me. I was hurt, but I had bigger fish to fry, because the state had indicted me on a death-penalty murder/robbery case.

When the cops arrested me, they found a loaded gun in my car. Since I was a felon, there was no beating that. I pled guilty to go back to prison and fight my murder case from there. It was 2001, and I went back to my first love – writing letters to girls. I happened to come across my hometown newspaper, The Commercial News, and saw a girl’s name that I knew. She had been arrested, and since I knew the county jail’s address by heart, I wrote her there. Sure enough, she wrote me back, and we began a great friendship. I also began another pen pal relationship with an accountant from a small town in southern Illinois. A buddy of mine gave me her address and I worked my magic.

I went back to my county jail in February of 2002 to fight my murder case. That’s when I really started to get flooded with mail. Because I was deemed a security threat due to my high-profile case, I was placed in administrative isolation. There was no TV. All I had was pen and paper and my mail. I got to use the phone for an hour each day. So I did what I naturally do – started writing women. I wrote my brother’s ex-girlfriend. I had a couple of Christian pen pals that I wrote. I found some other women to write in the local free classified newspaper in my hometown. My girl that was locked up had moved to the women’s prison in Illinois, and we started a pen-pal club. I’d hook my friends up with her friends in the joint. Everyone got mail and networked together.

I got so much mail every day that the guards would make jokes about it to other prisoners. But while they were on the general population cellblocks playing cards and watching Jerry Springer, I was in my cell writing girls.

In the fall of 2003, I was found guilty and sentenced to life in prison, and I was sent back to Menard Correctional Center. It was then that I learned the power of the Internet. My brother’s wife (whom he married while in federal prison) put me on two websites, The Pampered Prisoner and Prison Talk Online. I was again flooded with mail. I got over 50 cards and letters for Christmas from people wishing me well. I began corresponding with a few of them. I eventually devoted all of my time and attention to Allyssa. She was going to college in Georgia and was very appealing to me in personality and looks. We began writing every day and talking on the phone twice a week. But she couldn’t come visit me because of school and being so far away. That was a major stumbling block for me, so I decided to find a girl who could come and visit me at the prison.

One day a friend of mine let me read one of his Southern Illinoisan newspapers. I saw that they listed addresses of people who got arrested or ticketed for traffic violations. I began writing women who fit my age range and asking them to be my pen-pal. It worked and I got responses. I met Kayla, and she began writing to me every day and coming to visit every Tuesday. Because I had what I wanted, I stopped seeking out new contacts.

Fast forward to 2006, I had lost the direct appeal of my case and began working on my post-conviction petition. Allysa and Kayla left me because they didn’t want a long-term relationship with a lifer. So I went on another website, Friends Beyond The Wall, and got only three responses. Two of those were from homosexuals. I was very disappointed with those results. I went back to my system of writing women out of the newspaper and building up my list of contacts. I ran into another prisoner I knew, and he showed me a pen pal publication from 3-G Company. I wrote a few of the women in that publication who said they’d write prisoners and met Jennifer. She was a sweet secretary from Kansas who had a lame husband. We wrote each other every week for a few years.

In 2007, I found out the power of writing churches. I wrote one church and got 17 different responses. But when I replied to them all, only the secretary kept writing me. I later found out that she threw away all my other responses so I couldn’t write anyone else. I wrote another church and got a pen pal that is like my surrogate mom and who has been my pen pal for 14 years now. I ended up going back to seg for a few years and started working on my first book. But I’d get back in the game to research my second book, Pen Pal Success.

I’ve been on Friends Beyond the Wall.com; Writeaprisoner.com; ThePamperedPrisoner.com; PrisonInmates.com; Penacon.com; Plentyoffish.com; Craigslist.com; Facebook.com; Myspace.com; SimpliMingle.com; InterPals.net; PenPalsNow.com; LostVault.com; JailMail.net; PrisonTalkOnline.com; FederalWithPens.org; PenPalsBehindtheWalls.com; ExclusivePrisoner.com; InmateConnections.com; Conpals.com; Convictpenpals.com; VIPPenpals.com; RichPrisoner.com; CagedKingdom.com; and the PrisonSupportNetwork.com.

I’ll talk about the ones that matter in the rest of this book. But the truth is that most of them were a waste of time and money. This book is really about what I’ve learned since I wrote the first edition of Pen Pal Success. All the secrets I know about, you’ll find in this book. I’ve done all of the hard stuff and spent the money in research. I can’t promise or guarantee you’ll get the same results as me, but you should do better than the rest of your fellow prison comrades who don’t have this book. Turn the page to find out what pen pal mastery is and how to acquire it.

CHAPTER TWO

What Is Pen Pal Mastery?

"In order to master a field, you must love the

subject and feel a profound connection to it. Your interest

must transcend the field itself and border on the religious."

– Robert Greene

I opened this chapter with a quote from Robert Greene for a reason. For those of you who don’t know who Robert Greene is, he’s the author of must-read books like 48 Laws of Power, Art of Seduction, and 33 Strategies of War. His book Mastery has a special place in my prison experience. I had read all of his other books and ordered Mastery. When I transferred, they confiscated it saying it was on the banned book list. So I sued prison officials for a violation of my First Amendment Right to read. IDOC took it off their banned book list, and we settled out of court. But his book Mastery applies to any field, including pen pals. And throughout this book I’ll use some of his strategies to help you become a pen pal master.

Pen pal mastery all depends on your goals. What are you looking for? Just someone to write to help pass the time? A wife or husband? A success mentor? Or a freak you can write explicit letters back and forth to? Or all of the above? There’s no right or wrong answer, only your answer. But no matter what your answer may be, there is a right attitude that you must have to achieve mastery of the game. In this chapter I’ll show you the pen pal master’s attitude. Then in the next chapter I’ll show you how to create the plan to accomplish all of your pen pal dreams no matter what they are. Sound good? Okay, let’s do it.

Have No Fear

Personally, I’ve never had fear when it comes to approaching women. Rejection doesn’t bother me, because I know sooner or later one of my targets will fall to my stratagems and say yes ... and that yes could very well change my life just like all the other yesses have. But you’ll never get your one yes if you allow the fear of rejection to stop you. Sure, there’s a possibility that if you write a letter, the other person will not answer it. Yes, the first time you place an online profile you may only get three responses, like I did at first. Or you may get no hits, like some other prisoners I know. Then again, you could get 10, 20, or even a hundred responses. You won’t know what’s possible until you try. The number one rule for Pen Pal Mastery is have no fear!

This goes for female prisoners also. Get rid of that stupid stigma that the man is supposed to ask you out or write you first. Have no fear and put yourself out there on the market. Plus, if you follow the guidelines in this book, you’ll be too busy to worry about your fears anyway.

Winning isn’t everything but trying to is.

– Vince Lombardi

When you have fear in your life, you come to expect bad things to happen. You may start thinking, What if I don’t get any hits? What if she doesn’t write back? What if it doesn’t work? When these things happen, you act as if they were supposed to happen. But they weren’t. Instead of thinking about the what-ifs of the world, become a prisoner who thinks I can, and I will.

I’m sure there’s something in your past that you once feared, but now you don’t. It’s the same with pen pals. Guess what? I lost most of those old pen pals I talked about in the previous chapter. Some of those losses hurt. But a funny thing happened. I realized it wasn’t that bad. I didn’t have anything to fear. Now I sit here writing this book with way more pen pals than I could ever need. I get mail every day they pass it out, and e-mails every day they process them. Always remember that you have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. You won’t be any worse off than you are now if you fail. A great book to read is 50 Cent and Robert Green’s book The 50th Law. It gives you many strategies and tips based on one philosophy: Fear Nothing!

"When you get your attitude right,

you can handle anything the world

throws at you. Even life in prison."

– Bill Dallas

A lot of you hope that you could find a special friend. Or many special friends. But who will hear your request if you don’t have the courage to speak up or write the letter? Or post the ad. There will come a time when you’re done reading this book and you have to decide what to do. Do what the unsuccessful prisoner won’t do. Dare to go after your pen pal dreams. I did it, and you can do it also. The prisoners in this book also did it. We were once where you are, but they went after their dreams. No fear is the Millionaire Prisoner™ motto for Pen Pal Mastery!

"That which we call ‘genius’ has

a great deal to do with nerve."

– Nathan Branden

Understanding That You’re A Salesperson!

The second step is to know that you’re a salesperson. Because you are. You’re marketing a product called you. That’s why they are called "personal ads." Ads is short for advertisements. And an advertisement is the attempt to call attention to or promote a product. With a personal ad you want the other person to contact you in some way. This goes for all your marketing efforts to get pen pals.

Once you understand that you’re marketing yourself, you can learn the successful marketing techniques that help sell. I’ll share some strategies with you throughout this book that can assist you in your pen pal goals. Some of you will naturally sell yourself well, others won’t. The good news is that everyone can learn how to do it.

Here are a few basic marketing success tips and tactics that you should learn now:

1. You must know who you’re marketing to. Who are you looking for? What do you want out of the pen pal game? Once you decide that, and are honest about it, then you can tailor your profile ad to speak directly to that person.

2. You must know your USP or Unique Selling Proposition. You must put your best foot forward to make the best impression. And you must transform your features into benefits. I’ll discuss how to do this in later chapters.

3. Great marketing materials are specific, not general. Once I learned this principle, I started getting better results. Don’t worry about trying to be general so you speak to the broadest possible market of pen pals. Go back and read the first point. You are trying to stand out and you can’t do that by being a general, run-of-the-mill prisoner. I knew I was on the right track when the people who responded to my ads would say, You write a great profile. It stood out from all the others. And I thought it was all because of my great looks!

4. You need to know what medium is right to reach your chosen pen pal type. What magazines do they read? What TV shows do they watch? What music do they listen to? Why? So you can place your ads/profiles on/or in those mediums to reach them. For instance, if your goal is a freaky pen pal that you can write sex kites to, you need to find out what website or magazine you can place your ad in to reach them. (Literotica.com is the answer!) Some of you know what you want, but you don’t know where to find them. I’ll discuss lots of avenues and websites throughout the rest of this book. But it will be up to you to pick the best one. That way you can have a better chance of success.

5. You need to use a great headline or opening sentence. Why is this so important? Because you’re trying to get someone to stop and read your ad. People look at photos first, then the headline and first sentence. If you don’t stand out, they’ll