No More Faking It

By Magda Kay

No More Faking It: A Woman's Guide to Getting the Love, Pleasure, and Fulfillment She Deeply Desires

 

Are you tired of pretending everything is okay in your relationships? Do you find yourself putting others' needs before your own and feeling unfulfilled? Do you feel stuck in the same dynamic where your needs always come last? No More Faking It is your ultimate guide to breaking free from this cycle and embracing the love, pleasure, and fulfillment you deserve.

Written specifically for women seeking dating advice and relationship advice, this powerful guide teaches you how to live your most authentic life, honor your needs, and reclaim your power. Intimacy coach and founder of the School of Intimacy, Magda Kay, shares her revolutionary "F" power method to help every woman stop settling – because you deserve to get everything you desire in your relationships, in the bedroom, and in life.

 

Inside No More Faking It, you'll discover:

• Practical advice for choosing the right partner and building healthy, loving relationships
• Inspiring stories that demonstrate the power of authenticity and self-love
• Guided exercises to help you honor your truth, needs, and boundaries
• Strategies for making sure your needs are met and living a truly fulfilling life
• Empowering insights to break free from the cycle of bad relationships

With No More Faking It, you'll learn how to prioritize yourself and your own needs, ensuring that you never again settle for less than you deserve. Say goodbye to picking the wrong partners or giving bad partners too many chances – it's time to take control of your love life and embrace the power of authenticity!

Whether you're single, dating, or in a committed relationship, this insightful book is a must-read for every woman who wants to experience the love, pleasure, and fulfillment she deeply desires. Don't wait any longer to transform your relationships and start living your best life – scroll up and click the BUY NOW button to embark on this empowering journey today!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Magda Kay
• Release date: May 25, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223818519

Book preview

NO MORE FAKING IT

A woman’s guide to getting the love, pleasure and fulfillment she deeply desires

Magda Kay

Copyright © 2023 by Magda Kay LP.

All rights reserved.

Simultaneously published in the United States of America, the UK, India, Germany, France, Italy, Canada, Japan, Spain, and Brazil.

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any other electronic or mechanical means – except in the case of brief quotations embedded in articles or reviews –without written permission from its author.

No More Faking It has provided the most accurate information possible. Many of the techniques used in this book are from personal experiences. The author shall not be held liable for any damages resulting from the use of this book.

Paperback ISBN: 979-8390782408

Hardback ISBN: 979-8390450277

Contents

A Note From the Author

1.Welcome

2.This Book Will Forever Change Your Life. Ready?

3.The Truth Finally Revealed

4.Your First Power Center

5.Your Second Power Center

6.Your Third Power Center

7.Your Fourth Power Center

8.The Power of Four

9.Which Power Center Leads Your Life? (Quiz)

10.Reclaiming Your Sovereignty

11.Your Four Power Centers in Dating

12.Conclusion

Thank you

Acknowledgements

13.Final Words

14.Accelerate Your Progress With The School Of Intimcy

15.About The Author

A Note From the Author

Thank you for picking up this book! I do not take your trust lightly.

In it, I share my personal story, parts of which I’ve never shared in public before. It feels vulnerable and raw. But I know my experiences will help you integrate the teachings, and that is the reason why I chose to write this book.

As you read on, you will find it feels more like a friendly conversation. I don’t want you to feel like someone is preaching to you; instead, I want you to feel like we’re having a friendly chat over coffee or wine.

Do you remember how boring some of your university lectures were? I could hardly stay awake! And yet, we usually have no problem staying up all night chatting with our girlfriends. That is why I wrote this book using the same language I would use if I were talking to you on Sunday afternoon in our favorite cafe. Maybe it’s a bit unconventional, but I care more about you getting the most value from this book (and having fun while reading it!) than I do about having perfect grammar.

Everything in this book has been thought through with respect to how the human brain operates to help you best understand and absorb this information. Every story, every repetition, is included intentionally to help you make the most of it.

If that works for you, let’s begin . . .

Chapter 1

Welcome

I’ve never had an orgasm, and I’m going to die.

I’ve never been in love.

I’ve never been in a real relationship.

How is this even possible?

This day started like any other. I got to the office, turned on my computer, and saw there was an unread message from my brother. We had this ritual of sending each other funny memes every morning before we started work. But this time, it wasn’t anything funny.

Don’t worry, it will be ok, he wrote.

Don’t worry? WHY should I worry? What’s happening?!?!

I’m sure his intentions were good. He wanted to calm me down.

But it DID NOT work.

I was not calm. I was freaking out.

I was living in Milan. I was fresh out of university, working for a fashion company (and one of the top Italian companies). Like any other twenty-five-year-old, I was excited about building my career while fully enjoying my weekends in this thriving city full of posh clubs. As they used to say: Work hard, play harder. And that’s exactly what I did.

But unlike my other twenty-five-year-old colleagues, I was away from home, away from the support of my family. I was on my own.

I come from Poland. Living in Milan was a dream come true for me, but my family was struggling. My father had gone bankrupt when I was a teenager. We didn’t have money; I was only able to go to Milan because of the scholarship I’d earned from my university for good grades. I had gone to Italy for an exchange program, and then I found a job and was able to stay. But the money I was making wasn’t that much. It was just enough to cover my rent, food, and the occasional bit of shopping. And with little left, I tried to support my family, too.

Once a year, I traveled to Poland to see my family. I missed them and wanted to make sure they were doing ok, and it was also my time to stock up on a few products I couldn’t buy in Italy as well as get all my medical tests done. You know, the typical life admin stuff. I never thought much of it. It was just a routine I did every year.

Only this time, when the medical tests came back, it wasn’t good. My PAP test showed some changes. The kind of changes you find in the early stages of cervical cancer.

They came in the mail to my parents’ house, and it was my mom who read them first.

And she panicked.

Less than five years earlier, she herself had received a diagnosis. They had found breast cancer, and it was bad. She had needed a mastectomy and very strong chemo. I saw her go through it all. She became a shadow of a human: skinny, bald, and pale. I will never forget seeing her like that.

And now she was holding a paper in her hands with the words no mother ever wants to read:

Pathological changes in tissue.

It was a lot for her. Her own pain and fears came rushing back, only this time, it wasn’t her facing this. It was me—her daughter.

That was why my brother messaged me. He knew how scared my Mom was, and he wanted to calm me down.

Only I didn’t know anything about the test results. No one had told me anything. My mom was panicking, and she didn’t know how to tell me.

So, unintentionally, my brother did.

- Why should I not worry?

- The test results. It’s gonna be ok.

That was how I found out.

That was how I learned that I may have had cancer. A type of cancer that kills 50 percent of its victims.

I was only twenty-five. And I was not ready to hear it.

I had only just begun thinking about my future. I was fresh out of college with my first real job. I was only just learning about life and what I wanted to do with mine. I had big dreams and ambitions—I always have—and I was taking my first steps to realize them.

And here I was faced with the possibility of having no future at all.

I hadn’t yet experienced real love. In fact, I had never been in love, had never been in a real relationship, and had never had an orgasm.

I hadn’t experienced true fun, true intimacy, or real ecstasy. I thought it was something you had to work for, that it was a reward for years of working hard. So how could I possibly have experienced it when I’d only just started? I had been promised all those amazing things, like love and happiness, and now it would all be taken away? Just like this?

How can this be? I haven’t lived enough. There was so much more I wanted to do and feel.

They say there are five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally acceptance. I went through them all.

At first, I felt numb. It didn’t make sense. How could I have cancer? I’m too young. I sat there, frozen, unable to comprehend everything that was happening.

Then, the anger came.

Why me? Why now? It’s NOT fair!

I felt angry at the results, at my doctor, at my family. I got angry at God.

Then I started pleading: God, please don’t let me die. Please give me another chance.

And when God didn’t respond, I started crying, day after day. I was slowly accepting my fate.

And the more I did, the more I could look at it all with peace. I regained my ability to think logically. I stopped resisting or magically trying to change what was happening to me. Instead, I started preparing myself.

I read about various treatments, but the statistics did not look good. The gravity of my situation was sinking in deeper and deeper. I was scared.

But I had no choice. It wasn’t going to magically go away just because I didn’t want to deal with it. I wasn’t going to wake up one day and have different test results.

I thought to myself: My mom went through chemo. I can do it, too. I can take a break from work, go back to Poland, and if I have to, I’ll take a year off to heal myself.

My doctor recommended I get a histopathology report to know for sure how serious it was. I found a clinic and made an appointment. I sat on a gynecological chair with my legs open and tears in my eyes. It did not feel pleasant.

While I was waiting for my results, I scheduled a meeting with HR to tell them everything. I didn't know how it worked in Italy, but I expected there to be some sort of medical financial support. Truth was, I needed it. Without it, I would not have had money for the treatment.

So, I met with HR to ask about my options. The woman I spoke to was just a few years older than me. I told her about my test results. She was the first person outside of my family that I told. It felt so raw and vulnerable, telling a stranger that I may have cancer. In some way, I felt embarrassed, as if I had done something wrong.

And here is how she responded:

- If you need to go back to Poland to get treatment, we’ll need to fire you.

Chapter 2

This Book Will Forever Change Your Life. Ready?

Islowly started accepting my fate, whatever it was meant to be.

True acceptance is a strange feeling. It’s peaceful and calm, and there’s a certain joy that comes with it. You no longer feel the need to resist reality. You have total trust in the flow of life, and you simply let it take you where it may.

In that state, you receive a gift of clarity. You can finally see what truly matters—and what doesn’t. All those things I had always worried about? They lost their power over me. They stopped controlling my life and dictating my days. The truth was, they didn’t matter anymore.

All the fears I’d had, and all the things I had been doing because of those fears—they just disappeared.

I threw away my life plan. I let go of the goals I had set for myself. And finally, I stopped pretending to be someone I was not.

I didn’t even realize just how much I was living the life of someone my parents wanted me to be, someone who I would never actually be. Everything that, until now, had motivated me to wake up in the morning and keep going simply didn’t matter anymore. I didn’t need it, and I didn’t want it.

When you’re forced to face the possibility of death, it strips you and your life of anything that’s not important. It leaves you naked, alone, and exposed.

In a matter of days, the direction of my entire life shifted. After receiving the diagnosis, my life took a new turn. I abandoned the path I had been walking for twenty-five years and was now treading a new, totally unfamiliar one.

Little did I know what incredible treasure awaited me on this path.

Little did I know that losing everything would, in turn, give me the biggest gift of my life.

Right when I had nothing else to lose, I gained more than I could have ever asked for.

What I discovered in the process—and what you’re about to learn about in this book—is a way of living in perfect alignment with yourself. That means living your life, a life based on what you truly desire—not what your parents, teachers, boyfriend, or boss may want you to be.

I was finally able to open myself up to true love, mind-blowing sex (and multiple orgasms!), and following my actual dreams—like writing a book!

I’ve studied yoga, Tantra, psychology, energy healing, belief reprogramming, human behavior, and sound healing, to name just a few, and nothing comes even close to the system you’ll explore in this book. It’s something that no one ever taught me, that I never read about in any personal development book, and that no motivational guru ever mentioned in their speeches. Instead, my own journey has shown me the most effective and 100 percent bulletproof system for living a happy, fulfilled, and fully aligned life.

This system is a true revolution for women. It reconnects you to your body. It builds unshaken