A Marriage For Eternity

By Jair Da Silva Lima

Version 1.02 In this book, marriage is brought to the light of the Biblical, in the evangelical environment, in the traditional Judeo-Christian school. In God s vision, marriage was created for eternity, but due to human limitations, marriages are lasting, less than a lifetime. God did not create divorce, but this has been increasingly accepted in churches. This book brings a reflection, for couples to think about marriage again for eternity. Here is presented the institution of marriage, in the gaze of the one who created it: God. It is discussed the marriage in the body, in the soul and in the spirit. The care of the heart is explained against divorce. And it ends with the blessing in marriage, in the challenges, of the postmodern period. In the end, the reader will be touched to decide, in a marriage for a life, and for eternity.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Clube de Autores
• Release date: Feb 26, 2020

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A Marriage for Eternity

(English version)

JAIR DA SILVA LIMA

Copyright © 2019

All rights reserved.

Editorial label: Independently published

Translated by Lucas Bigí

Version 1.02

DEDICATION

I dedicate this work to the family that has always believed in me. My wife Carina sustains my will to smile.

Pr. Jair da Silva Lima

Grace and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ to you, my friend, Pastor Jair.

I would like to thank you for you for making this dedication, and congratulate your partner for this dedication to the household education. I remember, when God sent me to set you apart to become the Lord's worker, He showed me that you were chosen to be among the greats of the Kingdom of God on this earth. I'm grateful and happy to see you climbing the steps toward your call. I also congratulate you, for this wonderful work, which will certainly be developing a foundation in the family environment, generating great victories for all couples, who humbly accept your counsel and teachings. May God's great blessings continue to pour into all areas of your life. Best regards.

Pr. José Orlando T. Alves

President of IEAD in Lavras do Sul - RS

Congratulations Pr. Jair da Silva Lima, for understanding that his time has come, to also come out of the waterpots of stone, to expose the joy of making us stronger and happier, to read such inspiring words, to strengthen the base built and well founded by God: The family. Marriage is a happiness, and for those who lack it, but understands it, invite Jesus Christ, who sees and promptly upholds it, using the waterpots of stones, to transform the content into joy, just like fountain waters that run for eternity. We understand that this book is dedicated to the evangelical environment, in order to contribute and advise families for a happy marriage.

Pr. Ernani Greff Machado and Family

President of IEAD in Pinhal Resort - RS

It is with great satisfaction that I accept the honorable invitation of Pastor Jair da Silva Lima to highlight some thoughts regarding his present work. The union of a man and a woman by the sacred bonds of marriage, is something designed by God long ago in the garden of Eden for the happiness of both. However, the happiness of the couple is based on the commitment to build and maintain a solid and indestructible union. Therefore, this work becomes very relevant, because it presents us with safe guidance, based on the Sacred Scriptures, that will help all those who constantly seek the construction and maintenance of a happy marriage. The book, named A Marriage for Eternity, contains abundant biblical quotes, and it is very welcome in today’s society, as it will create a foundation at a time when marriage is so trivialized by today's society. Congratulations Pastor Jair Lima for the initiative to work on this important topic. In my prayers I ask God that He greatly bless your life, your family, and your ministry. 

Pr. Daniel dos Santos Paixão

President of the IEAD in Alvorada - RS

CONTENT

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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

I thank God who created the opportunity and gave me the strength and wisdom, and the family that unconditionally supported me. Thanks to Carina, my wife, friend, faithful companion, loving mother of my children, Rayssa and Raysson. Thanks to everyone who, in one way or another, contributed to this project.

And they that be wise shall shine as the brightness of the firmament; and they that turn many to righteousness as the stars for ever and ever. (Daniel 12:3 KJV)

Pr. Jair da Silva Lima

CONTENT

1 THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE

In this chapter we will understand the institution of marriage by God. Its purpose, principles, formation and eternity.

Before proceeding, it is necessary to the reader, who may be of another religion, with other beliefs, of other marriage models, or perhaps not legally married, or even a second marriage to have an idea of what this is; these words that will come to you, regardless of your religion or belief, do not depend also on your manner as a couple. The past no longer matters (2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. KJV).

The goal is for you to be legally married and remain eternally married, with the spouse who is by your side. And may you have a meeting with Christ