The Altar: Overcoming Abuse by the Church
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The Intruder Within. Part one of the book metaphorically uses the rapist as the intruder within the church who has unlimited and unquestionable position, power, and authority Part two of the book, The Exposer Without, brings into focus how Jesus is on the outside looking in. Whereas part one of the book concentrated on how the intruder within, the rapist, gains unlimited positional authority, part two reveals that Jesus seeks to bring healing to His church by exposing truth wherever necessary. Readers will be comforted by the fact they are not alone and that God truly feels the pain, as well as the rage, when His children are raped at the altar. God was close to the broken hearted during Jesus’ time on earth and continues to be today.
Debbie Vanderslice
Debbie Vanderslice graduated with honors in history (BA) from Southern Methodist University (SMU) in Dallas, Texas, where she played tennis on full scholarship and was selected to the GTE all Southwest honor team. With her strong writing skills and love for God, the Arkansas bred razorback has gone on to work freelance for Day Spring Cards and Celebration as a freelance writer. Debbie has also had Shameless,(New Hope Press) and Gilead Now (WestBow Press) and Behind the Curtain (Tate Publishing) as well as The Dance of the Addition. (Tate)
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The Altar - Debbie Vanderslice
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2 Chronicles 33:16a He also restored
the altar of the Lord…"(ESV)
Hook: The Altar (Overcoming Abuse by the Church) takes a metaphoric parallel look at why God despises authoritative leadership abuse within the church and compares this abuse to the key Biblical text where Jesus drove out the money lenders for raping, or abusing, those trying to get to the altar, or God.
DEDICATION
To all those who have been abused physically, sexually,
emotionally or spiritually. I know your pain and
struggles. May we seek God during our darkest days
And to Hannah Banana. Stop growing up!!!
To Sherry and Leigh Anne
I wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for you two.
For giving me hope again
To Lisa, Ginny, Kay
and Kathy and Ann. You guys rock!
And Quincy for believing in me!!!!!!!!!!!!
TABLE OF CONTENTS
PART 1 - THE INTRUDER WITHIN
Chapter 1: The Devil is an Angel Too
This opening chapter creatively invites readers to look at how musician, Julie Miller, poetically illustrates how Satan is an angel too according to God’s Word. By drawing upon evil the author then openly portrays that evil is often disguised as light according to the Bible. This beginning chapter uses modern day examples to highlight a Garden of Eden dilemma: Evil is many times disguised and the church is no exception.
Chapter 2: Money, Sex, and Power
This chapter zeroes in on three often-overlooked reality based facets of society that somehow are mistakenly thought to be taboo within the church. The author draws the parallel modern day example of how positional power is as relevant today within the church for its’ leaders as it was in the day of Christ. Readers will identify with the ‘hoop jumping’ that many times is encouraged by church leaders before one is deemed worthy of serving.
Chapter 3: The Point of Penetration
By setting up this chapter through the previous chapters and the progression of sin, evil, and unlimited and unaccountable power and position, the author then is able to take readers to the ultimate crime by the church; rape at the altar. Readers will overwhelmingly identify either figuratively and/or literally as the author then uses the act of rape itself, the methods common by the rapist, and the feelings associated with the point.
Chapter 4: Alone With Chains
Because abuse by the church is many times swept under the rug, this chapter comforts readers in the fact that isolation is a very real thing. Because of the specific methods by the rapist, readers who have been abused go through a ultimately acceptance. Much like Kubler-Ross’s stages of grief, the author keys in on the isolation readers feel after having sought out a place of safety, the church, only to then find themselves thinking, no one will ever believe this happened to me.
Chapter 5: Desperate Measures
and Sliding Scales
This final chapter in part one brings to the forefront the pain readers feel when they have been raped, or abused, by the church. The author bridges the gap between part one and part two by exposing the intruder within the church and the desperate and bold courage it takes to finally step out of the shame of what happened and expose what lies within the church. By using the visual example of weights and measures Biblically to modern day ‘injustices,’ the author give readers what they want to hear