One of My Livers Goes to the Psych Ward: Liver Transplant Story and More!
By Ralph Meewes
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Ralph Meewes, a retired purchasing manager, discovers two cancerous tumors on his liver. He discusses his many years of medical challenges to sustain a quality life.
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One of My Livers Goes to the Psych Ward - Ralph Meewes
One of My Livers Goes to the Psych Ward
Liver transplant story and more!
Ralph Meewes
Copyright © 2016 by Ralph Meewes.
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CONTENTS
Chapter 1 The Call
Chapter 2 The Author
Chapter 3 History
Chapter 4 French Doctors
Chapter 5 Attitude About Doctors
Chapter 6 Mayo Trip
Chapter 7 Mayo in Jacksonville
Chapter 8 Melbourne, Florida
Chapter 9 Trip
Chapter 10 Hoops and Hurdles
Chapter 11 Surgery Day
Chapter 12 Veteran Nurse
Chapter 13 New Year’s Eve, 2008
Chapter 14 Post Surgery
Chapter 15 Psych Ward
Chapter 16 Rush
Chapter 17 Jack
Chapter 18 Urine Test
Chapter 19 Shirt
Chapter 20 Painting
Chapter 21 Psych Ward Observations
Chapter 22 Liver Rejection
Chapter 23 Life’s Twists and Turns
Chapter 24 Inclusion Body Myositis
Chapter 25 Miracles
About the Book
About the Author
Chapter 1
The Call
Settle down, Sparky!
Yeah, I know that a human has only one liver. What’s this about two livers? Well, anyway, a human can have two livers or more; however, preferably one liver at a time. Yes, I had a transplant. I had one liver for seventy years. Now my second liver has been with me for about eight years but is only forty-nine years old; it is a discounted liver from Puerto Rico, not really, because the acquisition costs of this liver was $48,000. Now I like beans and rice—just kidding. The $48,000 cost of the liver was a part of the $250,000 hospital and surgery bill. Only my new liver got to go to the psych ward.
Christmas Day, 2008
It’s a beautiful day. It’s a beautiful day in Florida, what a revelation that is. It’s Christmas Day of 2008, and we are at my son’s house in Tallahassee, Florida, and it is nine o’clock in the morning. The cell phone rings before I answer. Earlier in the month, I had e-mailed my three boys that I was going to disrupt their Christmas. I had told them I was going to have my liver transplant before the year was up. Of course, I did not know that for sure because no one knows where the next liver will go. To explain the liver waiting list is a little like explaining income tax. The US is split up into eleven regions. Your liver will most likely come from the region in which you live. Florida is in region three along with five other nearby states and Puerto Rico.
Patients are listed according to blood type, body size, and medical condition (how ill they are). Each patient is given a priority score based on three simple blood tests. However, liver cancer has another priority system. UNOS in Richmond, Virginia match donated organs with transplant candidates for everyone in the United States.
I had gone on the transplant list on September 23. On December 23, ninety days later, I would gain three more MELD points—Model for End-Stage Liver Disease (a great name—uh!) which predicts survival for patients with advanced liver disease. The higher the number, the closer you are to death. Shit! But the higher your priority for getting a liver, a double-edged sword. Having a common blood type at that point, I would be number one on Shands ninety-five-person waiting list. Before I answer the cell phone, I had not had my phone for a long period of time. And the reason I got the cell phone was so Shands would be able to get a hold of me in case a liver became available. There are numerous stories about people getting notification of a liver. One guy on the waiting list went to a health club and threw his cell phone in the locker and went to work out for an hour and a half. Unfortunately, his cell phone was sitting in the locker ringing and ringing. When he finally got back to his locker and discovered he had a call from Shands Hospital, he quickly called them and was fifteen minutes too late, and the liver went to someone else. On the other side of the coin, a