Unstoppable

By Pharoah Mitchell

Computers get upgrades all the time. This book is designed to give you an upgrade by helping you take control of yourself spiritually from within, and it would help you create a greater version of yourself, helping you take control of situations in your life by taking control of yourself. Your relationships, your happiness, and your well-being will all change by you taking control of yourself. This book will help you create a life designed by your own choosing. You are the writer, the director, and the star of your own life. It is time to create a life of your own choosing. This book will help you become the star over your life by helping you see the world with the eyes of an empowered personyou!
I asked the universe, Why have you created me? To suffer? To be in agony? To be unnecessarily wandering through life and then die? Why did you create me? Answer! It answered with one word: unstoppable! Unstoppable is about you creating a life designed by you. It teaches you how to take control over the situations in your life by you taking control of yourself. It gives you the power to empower yourself and to be the author of the stage play called your life. It teaches you how to write a happy ending that never ends. Until now most of us have been living the life that we thought was beyond our control. Unstoppable is designed to wake you from your sleep and introduce you to the transcendent qualities that are lying dormant within you. You are the universes greatest gift to humanity; you just dont know it yet. Unstoppable will unleash you to the world with a newfound ability and power that you never thought you had. This book will help you understand why you are the way you are, understand why people are the way they are, why your life may not be on the right track that you wanted it to be, and how you can take control of your life, and youll discover your lifes purpose. Everything that has happened to you in your life prepared you for this moment. What most religions wont tell you is that you have the most powerful creative mechanism within you. This is your subconscious mind. This is where everything is createdevery situation in your life, every breakup, and every heartbreak. This is the secret to creationwhatever you create in your mind, you create in your world, positive or negative. The thoughts you hold consistently in your mind create the world around you. When you begin to understand the concept that you create your world through your thoughts, you can look at the world through the I can mentality. I can take control over the situations in my life, my relationships, my finances, my peace of mind, and my happiness. When you understand that you are the creator of the situations around you, you become a creator of the situations that happen to you in your life. You begin to look at the world through a mature spiritual mind-set. This book will help you, a real person, have contact with the greatest power in the universe, and it is waiting right now to burst out of you. You have always felt deep down inside that you were created for a divine purpose. This book would help introduce you to yourself and the greatness that lies within you.
Enjoy the book, and I will see the more awakened, more powerful, more enlightened, and more confident you at the end of the book. I look forward to hearing about your testimonies and accomplishments.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Jun 6, 2013
• ISBN: 9781483637020

Pharoah Mitchell

Like most people’s story, mine is as complicated. I was born into a chaotic family that had drug abuse, physical abuse, and mental abuse. I hated my life. I was under the impression that God put me on this planet to suffer. My reality was just suffer and wait to die. Writing this book helped me create a better version of me, an upgraded me, this book helped me realize that I was the creator of my situations, and it taught me that if I created these situations, I also have the ability to change and to create situations I wanted.

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Identifying and Releasing Limiting Beliefs

First of all, I would like to congratulate you for making it this far; you had a lot to handle since you arrived here on this planet. From the very first day you came out of your mother’s womb, there was someone slapping you on your bottom. Ever since then, you’ve been in one situation after another. Believe it or not, you are God’s greatest gift. God gives a chance to experience life through you—your ups and downs, your highs and lows. Up to this point, you have been experiencing a tremendous number of lows, and that is what led you here. Life is trying to tell you something, and I’ve been blessed to be the deliverer of that message. What if everything you ever thought about yourself in the past was wrong? See, most of my life, I’ve been a chaotic kid, born from a dysfunctional family. We live through generation after generation of chaos. As a chaotic kid, I didn’t know what a normal life was because there was always chaos around me; and if you’re reading this, chances are you were born into a chaotic family. Now chaos comes in many different forms; it can be physically abusive, verbally abusive, sexually abusive, neglecting, drug affected, poverty affected, or a whole host of other life-draining afflictions caused by generations of insanity, which now rests on your shoulders. You are dealing with generations of crap that has been passed down to your family. Have you ever watched the movie called Dragon: The Bruce Lee Story? It was a movie based on Bruce Lee’s life, and this story talks about Bruce Lee’s father, who was battling this demon that he couldn’t beat. Eventually, this demon killed his father. When the demon beat his father, it went on to attack the son, Bruce Lee. This demon was the life-crushing, hopeless, self-defeating, hateful, and self-hating shadow of his father because it was the same demon that his father could not defeat. The story goes on to show Bruce Lee fighting the demon, and his son appears in the fight scene. Because Bruce Lee knows if he doesn’t defeat this demon it will be passed on to his son, he tells his son to step back and let him battle the demon. Bruce Lee goes on to defeat the demon. I tell you this story to let you know that we all have personal demons passed on to us by our parents, and these demons were passed on to them by their parents. This is a generational curse that has led you to where you are today.

I was born into a unhappy family. The people who were supposed to take care of me were on drugs and alcohol. I was around abusive people. My life was a life of hardship and physical abuse. I was beaten many times from head to toe with an extension cord. I had bruises all over my body, from my face to the bottom of my feet. I was physically abuses by other family members who were close to me; he would kick me in the face and all over my body. He was a tyrant who did not care for me. Whenever he would beat me, I would pray to God to stop him from beating on me. I never got an answer; he would keep beating me while the person who was the closes to me just watched. I would beg this person who was suppose to take care of me to tell him to stop.

They never did, so he kept on beating me. There was never enough food in the house, so many nights we went to sleep without food.

At the age of twelve, I slept with older women for money to feed my brothers. This is only a small sample of the hell that I lived throughout my childhood. I ran away at the age of fourteen and never looked back, vowing that my children would never go through the hurt that I went through.

I grew up having one failed relationship after another, finding women who had the features that I saw in people who was suppose to take care of me and hated—women who cheated and lied.

I share this story with you to get you to understand that if you do not handle the demons that were passed on to you, they will be passed on to your children and your children’s children, and the cycle of chaos will continue down your family line.

Today is a new day! I want to talk to that person inside of you, that person that never ages, that same person that you were when you were still three years old. Your body has gone through many changes; however, you are the same person on the inside. The body that you had at the age of seven had died and doesn’t exist anymore. The body that you had at the age of thirteen doesn’t exist anymore. The body that you had at the age of twenty-one is gone and doesn’t exist anymore, but you’re still the same. The essence of you and who you are is timeless and ageless; you are still the same. And that child in you never really grows up; it just goes on to mature. And maneuvered through life’s obstacles, buying bigger and better toys, but the same consciousness of who you are is still you. From the age of three when you said the words of creation I AM, you have been that same person ever since. The only problem is you are like a perfect computer that has been affected by hundreds of viruses from other people. Each and every one of us has an actor inside of us. Know that this actor is the person we created because of the people around us and their thoughts on who we should be. Because of this, we have created an actor who could get the things we want in life. For example, when you were a child and you didn’t get something that you wanted from your parents, you quickly realized that throwing a tantrum could get you what you wanted, so now as an adult, you use anger to try to control and manipulate people to do what you want. You now have to realize that this action is only going to end up in another failed marriage and broken relationship and continual hardship for yourself. Throwing tantrums is the single reason for destroyed relationships, broken families, heartbreaks, hardships, and our dysfunctional world.

Why You Are the Way You Are

When we are born into this world, I like to think of us as perfectly blank, fully functional computers with nothing written on it. Then your mother or your father comes first, but your self-concept does not exist. There’s been a whole bunch of people who have been defining who you are. He’s that way, or she’s that way; he or she likes this. It is all of these he, she, and you statements that helped you create your actor. A false self or a false sense of who you really are. They are just definitions of what people think you are. And around the age of three, you began to form your first I AM statement; you began to understand the concept of me, and it was from those statements from your parents, your relatives, TV shows, your teachers, and well-meaning people around you that you began to form the concept of who you think you are. You begin to take the concept of what others think about you and begin to create a concept of yourself based on other people’s concepts of themselves. Mostly, a concept about yourself was created by other people, and you adopted it to be a concept of yourself because you needed them for your existence, understanding of life, and their sense of acceptance of you. Based on their concept of you, you’ve created an actor of who you think people would accept, and it is based on you wanting to control others. From the first moment you realize that screaming and kicking your feet in the air got you things that you wanted, you have been doing it ever since. The problem with this concept is you have become a really good actor based on what people thought of you and the tools you use to control and get people to do what you want them to do, and it is not your true self. Most of your life, you have been living by other people’s program and a false concept of who you really are. Based on other people’s beliefs, you have created an actor who may not be the real you. It’s other people’s negative or sometimes positive programming.

Did you know that we self-talked to ourselves over fifty thousand times a day, and forty thousand of those self-talks are negative self-defeating beliefs? Out of the fifty thousand self-talks, we are only consciously aware of 5 percent of it. So 95 percent of our self-talk is unconscious, and most of the 5 percent of it is negative self-talk. So what that breaks down to is that out of 5 percent of our self-talk, 4 percent of it is negative and limiting beliefs. When I went to the zoo and I saw a giant elephant held to a little pole by a small rope, I asked myself, Why is an elephant being held down by that little rope? I looked for the zookeeper and asked her why this was happening. She told me that when the elephant was a baby, they chained the elephant around its leg to the pole that was cemented to the ground. For days and days, the baby elephant would try to escape. After a while, it would just give up, and all they would have to do is just put a rope around its leg, and it will stay in place. This was a learned behavior, and even though the elephant was free and could break away at any time, it became helpless. This learned behavior affects each and every one of us every day. If you are living in poverty, if you are living in failed relationships with loved ones, or if you’re generally unhappy with your life situations, you are a victim of learned behavior.

This state is called learned helplessness, and this means that we were taught things that make us feel helpless. When you were a child and your parents told you they could not afford something, you were put in the state of learned helplessness. When your parents told you that it was the government’s fault that you lived in poverty, you were put in a state called learned helplessness. And when you were told that you could control your anger, you were put in a state of learned helplessness. Learned helplessness is being programmed into you every day: when you watch the news every morning, and they tell you that we are in a recession year after year, day after day; when they tell you that it’s time to catch a cold by saying it’s winter season and it’s time to get vaccinations, they are negatively programming you to go buy their products; a housing rate is at its all-time low; or more and more Americans are getting on public assistance. Your mind has been hijacked by someone else’s learned helplessness or paradigms.

Paradigms are unconscious behaviors that are controlling the results of your life. They have the power of everything—your relationship and your income. When you start shifting your paradigms, your whole life improves. Paradigms are thoughts and habits that process the way we think. Paradigms are things that were passed down to us by our parents and the world around us by the age of five. Most of us have already created paradigms and habits that have affected us all of our lives. To be truthful, most of us walk around with the mind of a five-year-old because we were programmed to.

Paradigms should be a course taught to children in kindergarten. This should be their first lesson before ABCs. These children were taught about paradigms, and if we could get children to understand paradigms and habits and they get it, they would have a fantastic life. If you want to improve your life, your paradigms has to be shifted. Changing your habits, you will change your life because it’s your habits that got you where you are right now. All the failed relationships, lost jobs, hardships, broken hearts, pain, and sorrow were created by your and other people’s habits that you adopted as your own reality. The first and hardest lesson that you must learn is how to stop the negative chatter or voice in your mind. You know that no matter how well we are doing, we need people around us to keep us motivated and tell us how well we’re doing and to help stop that inner voice that holds judgment over you, keeps books on your shortcomings, and tries to make you believe that you are worthless and that you can’t achieve the things you want in life. That inner judge says you can’t do this, you’re not smart enough, you don’t have enough money, you’re the wrong color, you don’t have the proper upbringing, or thousands of other negative things that it says to you to keep you a slave in your own mind. You can’t do many of the things that you say you want to do. The real secret here is figuring out what you want to do clearly and then figuring out how to get rid of that voice inside. I’d like to think of them as the gremlins in our minds.

Are you willing to change?

The world’s hardest lesson that you will ever learn is how teachable you are, not how much you already know but how teachable you are. I learned about teachability index from a workshop series called Your Wish Is Your Command. By Kevin Trudeau, each and every one of us are too busy telling God, the universe, and the lawless that govern our lives what we know so much about them instead of listening to what they have to tell us. Most religious people are too busy telling the supreme intelligence what they know about him or her, and they are overflowing, so they cannot hear or understand what life is trying to teach them because they already know everything. My philosophy is that once you know, you become the dumbest person on the planet because you already know, and knowing makes you stupid. In fact, we don’t have a clue of who he really is, yet we are so full of ourselves that we are not open to listen to who he really is.

I know that you heard about the story of the person who knew everything, and he went to the master to learn. He went to these mountains to meet this master, and he sat down and started telling the master about everything he knew. The master said, Let me pour you some tea. The master started pouring the tea into the cup, and he kept pouring, and when the cup became full, he kept pouring until the tea started flowing over to the floor. The guys said, What are you doing? Why are you overfilling this cup?

The master said, You are like this cup. You are so full. There is nothing else that can fit in this cup because you are so full that you can’t be taught. So many of us are so full of what we know about God that we are unteachable because we know everything. Our cups are so full that we can’t learn anything new because we know everything.

That makes you unteachable. If you are not willing to listen to new ideas, that makes you unteachable, and you have failed at the first rule of life because you’re unteachable. If you get nothing out of everything, you must be teachable today, tomorrow, and for the rest of your life. You must understand that to become a master, you have to spend the rest of