If Shoes Are Tight, Untie the Shoelace, Change the Size or Give the Needy

By MPOMELA THANDIWE RACHEL

This book accentuate the need for men and women with significance, Who will go all out to look after their families and choose the correct environment that God has designed for them to live and grow, Who will be good son/daughter in-laws, Men and woman who will be good fathers/mothers, who can build a culture of Happiness, Fairness And Establish people of self value By letting them Know what they do is vital and highly appreciated

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Oct 7, 2014
• ISBN: 9781499065022

MPOMELA THANDIWE RACHEL

Thandiwe Rachel Mpomela was born in 1976, in Bisiesvlei near Sannieshof, she grew up in a small community called Itsoseng (Known as Mooidorpie or Tlebebe), North West, South Africa. She completed her Matric in Tswelelopele High School. Thandiwe was brought up in a lovely home with her late father Priest Douglas Ndiniso Mpomela who encouraged her to study and read for he himself was a voracious reader. Her mother Johanna taught her to stand on her ground. She was a strong character who shaped Thandiwe and her two sisters. Thandiwe and her older sister grew up staying with a chain of relatives including her Aunty who mistreated her during primary school making her to sweep the yard twice a day before and after school, fetching water from the river, collecting fire woods, etc, She only eat a proper meal on Sundays because her father Douglas was the one responsible of buying the food they ate in their Aunty’s house who regularly came from church to check on them so the Aunty made sure they ate well that day. She is blessed with three lovely children, two of them being twins fathered by a man who never took his responsibility as a father seriously and fits the description of 1 Timothy 5:9 saying ”if someone does not provide for his own, especially his own family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an infidel”. She has studied HRM, Copy-editing, Train the manager and Secretarial. She stayed out of her country for more than five years and worked for different International companies and organisations such as, SADC Secretariat; National Olympic Committee; DHL; Olive Leaf Foundation; UNISA; and Sun International. She strongly believes that she was lucky and highly favoured by the Lord Almighty to allow her to meet immoral people first because they made her strong, understand her real life purpose, changed her attitude towards life by focusing on the positives or possibilities only. Her life journey was full of exciting activity. She learned to have Faith and prayed to God to give her all her heart’s desire. She can do justice to any story and believes that freedom begins with the mind. She is strong willed and supportive. She believes challenges are there to make her strong and to push her to another level. Her books are the result of hard work and sleepless nights, from the woman who decided to expose herself and her mind and lay herself bare to the entire humankind to ask, affect and change other people’s speculation and attitude through self improvement. Thandiwe is surely an exceptional woman who is self driven by her quest for knowledge and sharing her knowledge with other people. You won’t talk to her for a couple of minutes or read her books without being inspired or transformed.

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Copyright © 2014 by Mpomela Thandiwe Rachel.

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Contents

Acknowledgement

Your Life Purpose is Greater than your Personal Fulfilment.

Hear my voice from where you are standing

New or Old relations can either build or bury you.

What If Everything Change From Tomorrow

Say yes to your dreams and stay calm

It is Too early to Throw the Towel

Being a Good Woman, Wife and Daughter

Many women are facing challenges but looking life with a vision.

Let go of self-destructive thoughts or customs.

1. Good reasons to depart without looking back.

What are your circumstances trying to say to you?

Choose your path, live with your consequences and learn from them.

What to do to reverse the process.

We Cannot Predict the Success or failure of a union between two individuals.

Lay the Foundation for trust and Respect

CONCLUSION

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Acknowledgement

‘O father, Lord of heaven and earth, thank you for hiding these things from those who think themselves to be wise and clever, and for revealing them to those who become as children." Jesus prayed, Mathews 11:25.

As for me and my family I shall serve the living God.

• I am so thankful to Apostle Jerry and Pastor Eunice Makananisa whose faithful prayers, endurance and loyalty inspired me and allowed me to fulfil my purpose and potential, the inspiration

I would like to distinguish and express gratitude to the people who believed and gave me support in writing and compile this book:

• Xlibris Team – for their support

• Bishop Ian Gedion Longwe and Apostle Aaron Ng’ona for encouragement.

• Mr. Welcome Msomi, Chief Executive Officer (Playwright/Producer/ Director/Executive)

• Dr. Popo Molefe, Executive Chairman of Lereko Investment Holdings, Former Premier of North West Province

• Stef du Plessis, Writer, Speaker, Facilitator, Workshop leader and Team Builder.

• To all the fathers, mothers and children who will bring peace to the world.

• To those who are subjugated and dormant by opinion and judgements of others.

• To all the people who bought my first book (I Was Left with an Inch to Go Down)

• I am also grateful to all authors around the world who have shaped my life and helped me learn the truth and Motivational speakers like Dr. David Molapo and Dr John Tibane, a Leadership and Health consultant, a medicaldoctor, writer and motivational speaker.

• To my children for whose potential I will live to witness released and maximised.

• Thanks to my mother for everything especially for being there for my kids, I pray God to extend her days and heal every pain in her body.

• To my dad Douglas Ndiniso Mpomela – May his soul rest in peace!! My beloved father God answered your prayers, you will forever be remembered by those who believed in Jesus and were transformed by your prayers.

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