Bringing out the Best in You: The Best Is Who You Are

By Uffoh Emmanuel Onweazu

One of the worst downside of life is to see yourself less than who or what you truly worth. Quite unfortunately, this is one common drawback that is found in most people. This state of less self-acceptance, undervalued personality and lack of self recognition are factors that has handicapped majority of people from maximizing their full potentials in this life.
Anyone with this mindset can not bring out the best in him. This is a truth that must be accepted.

The book BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN YOU is the solution to this major problem. This book will accomplish this purpose by helping the reader discover who and what they really worth and what it takes to bring out the best in you. It will ultimately accomplish the truth that each and everyone of us is different from the next person having different features, abilities and talents that we can explore and master to prove ourselves as the best in our purpose in life. I hope to see you bringing out the best in you as you as live by the information in this book.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Trafford Publishing
• Release date: Jul 19, 2016
• ISBN: 9781490774619

Uffoh Emmanuel Onweazu

UFFOH EMMANUEL O is the president and founder of hope4lifesolutions and hope4lifefoundations. His ultimate vision is to see people able to discover themselves and accomplish their very purpose of living using godly strategic principles. He is a practical teacher and have motivated many to their place of success in life. He has other books -Fundamental Principles of Success and Fulfillment and The Price For Greatness. Uffoh Emmanuel O. is a trained Electronics / Communications Engineer. He Pastors The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Great House, Orte Italy. He resides currently in Italy and married to Farida and they are blessed with three children.

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Contents

Chapter One

Self-Discovery and Realization

Chapter Two

Have A Good Opinion About Yourself

Chapter Three

Never Say You Can’t Rather Say You Can

Chapter Four

Dwell in Your Place of Joy and Love

Chapter Five

Partner With People of Like Vision

Chapter Six

Learn From Every Mistake

Chapter Seven

Never Give Up On Yourself or Your Quest!

Chapter Eight

Be Focused, Cut Off All Distractions

Chapter Nine

Invest and Manage Your Time

Chapter Ten

Learn To Tolerate Others

Chapter Eleven

Be Realistic, Avoid Sentiment

Chapter Twelve

Be careful and Rational in Decision Making

Chapter Thirteen

Show Mercy And Goodness To All

Chapter Fourteen

Be Open To Change

Chapter Fifteen

Keep Developing Yourself

Chapter Sixteen

Let Patience Guide Your Life

Chapter Seventeen

Be Discipline

Chapter Eighteen

Be Diligent Towards All You Do

Chapter Nineteen

Be Determined

Chapter Twenty

Seek For Opportunities To Prove Your Self

Chapter Twenty One

Be Passionate In Whatever You Do

Dedication

To every man, people, community and nation that hungers after becoming the best.

Acknowlegdement

I owe the Almighty God unquestionable gratitude for the insight and inspiration for this work. This book became a reality despite all the oppositions and challenges because of His support.

I wish to express my honor to the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God: Pastor E. A. Adeboye and all the people who have added positive value to my life. I am forever grateful to you all.

I want to acknowledge my loving and supportive wife Farida and our lovely children for their courage, God bless you all.

I specially thank all the members of The Redeemed Christian Church of God –Great House Orte Italy for all their support and encouragement.

Much appreciation goes also to all friends and well-wishers that have been there for me all throughout the time of this book.

Preface

The ability to discover the truth about your real personality is one factor that will definitely help you to find your place in life. It is the starting point of every man finding his footing in life and dealing with the problems of low self-esteem and inability to explore and maximize the potentials within and around him.

Each one of us represents the best. We are unique personalities as a result of the varying qualities and features that run through us. None of us is a misfit; there is a place that we clearly fit in excellently. This is the very reason you are the best.

Every time I am privileged to meet with people, one outstanding challenge I discovered is that lots of people find it difficult to accept the truth that they are the best. They are quick to point out the weakness and drawbacks in them and this blinds them of their uncommon strengths, abilities which they can capitalize on and make the very best of their life. In this way many have robed themselves their true personality. This is the basic reason most people are not living their real life.

This book BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN YOU was given birth as a solution to resolve this negative self-image. Actually, this book was the theme of a seminar. The demand to make a text became very necessary and as a result of the high demand of those in the seminar and those who in one way or the other have heard of this theme and the tremendous impact it has made in the lives of the participants.

This book is practically written so that it will help anyone discover himself and guide him to handle those limiting negative self-image and become the best in their chosen life endeavor.

Two things are necessary in getting the result from this book –the first is that you must believe that there is a best in you to be manifested and the second is for you to practically follow the various principles and strategies as you read them.

I hope that you will be inspired by this book and discover the truth that you are the best through this book as you follow the principles in it to make it a reality in your life. I wish you the best because you are the best.

Uffoh Emmanuel O

Introduction

One of the downside of life is to see yourself less than what you really worth. Unfortunately, this is one common drawback of most people. This state of less self-acceptance, undervalued and lack of self-recognition are factors that has handicapped so many people from maximizing their real potentials in life. I mean no one can bring out the best in him if in the very first instance he does not belief that there is a best in him.

Read my concept about all human and I strongly believe it will inspire you.

There is a unique best in every one of us. This best is special, personal and very unique. You are the best, because you are a specially planned personality, designed, structured, built, commissioned and given a mandate to excel in every sphere of your life endeavor.

-Uffoh Emmanuel O

Each and every one of us is different from the next person, we all have differing features, abilities and talents that we can master, explore and prove ourselves as the best and thus accomplishing purposes in life.

Some features that clearly separate you from others for example includes:

i. Your finger print

ii. Your vocal cord

iii. Your eye iris

iv. Special talents and abilities deposited inside you

All of these features make you original, and thus this is for a purpose, which is to accomplish your divine and secular life that brings joy and fulfillment to you and those around you.

All men are created with an inner gem (abilities and talents) to make them successful. The fundamental task is the ability to discover your real purpose in life. This will help you in bringing out the best in you.

Discovering this truth about yourself will bring you to self-realization and a mindset to make the best of your life and not to live a life without meaning and purpose as we see in many around us.

The fundamental question one will be asking is how can we bring out this best that is in us?

In this book, I have written on some principles, twenty one (21) of them that anyone can adopt to bring out the best in them. Some of these principles include:

-Self-discovery and Realization

-Have a good opinion about yourself

-Never say you can’t rather say you can

-Dwell in your place of joy and love

-Partner with people of like vision

-Learn from every mistake

-Never give up on your quest etc.

These principles are the very fundamentals, they are to be studied and as much as you can inculcate them into your life so that they become your lifestyle. This is the very key factor and method you can use to bring out the best in you.

Remember you are the best, because you are specially created for this purpose and your world is earnestly waiting for you to manifest this unique mandate that is in you.

Honestly it’s your time to arise and shine. Bringing out the best is for everyone including you. I hope you will find this book useful in accomplishing you desire of bringing out the best in you.

Uffoh Emmanuel O

Chapter One

Self-Discovery and Realization

Self-discovery is the power to unlock the door to your great wealth. –Uffoh Emmanuel O

The very purpose of life is to be able to discover who and what you are and be able to operate in that dimension. This is the only way that life can become meaningful and fulfilling to anyone.

You cannot live beyond the information you have about who and what you are created for. The understanding of this fundamental truth will make life much easier, enthusiastic and joyful for anyone. Read this:

And God said; Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.(KJV Genesis 1vs26-28)

And the LORD shall make thee the head, and not the tail; and thou shalt be above only, and thou shalt not be beneath; if that thou hearken unto the commandments of the LORD thy God, which I command thee this day, to observe and to do them (KJV Deuteronomy 28vs13)

If you read through the above Biblical passages some information are clearly stated for you to know about yourself.

The first passage made emphasis that,

We are created:

-To be fruitful (i.e. being progressive in life)

-To be productive (i.e. being handy and useful to yourself and the world)

- Exploring every part of nature (i.e. creating something from nature)

-With a mandate to dominate our world and with no geographical limitation.

The second passage made emphasis that,

-We are to be the head and always be above only.