Rambling Down Life's Road...
By Kevin Pettit
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This book provides you with a view of what it is like to have a traumatic brain injury (TBI). It contains unedited excerpts from the diary of someone who underwent a TBI. TBIs occur frequently these days and affect more than 1.5 million people in America each year.
This book is meant to give you a view from the inside out of what its like to have a TBI, encourage you find ways to avoid having or causing a TBI, and to make you laugh a little.
Audio copies of this book are also available. For information about audio versions of this book, please contact the author.
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Rambling Down Life's Road... - Kevin Pettit
Rambling
Down
Life’s Road...
With a Brain Injury
Kevin Pettit
Copyright © 2003 by Kevin Pettit.
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Contents
Prologue
Introduction
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Chapter 5
Chapter 6
Chapter 7
Chapter 8
Chapter 9
Chapter 10
Chapter 11
Chapter 12
Chapter 13
Chapter 14
Chapter 15
Chapter 16
Chapter 17
Chapter 18
Chapter 19
Chapter 20
Chapter 21
Chapter 22
Chapter 23
Chapter 24
Chapter 25
Chapter 26
Chapter 27
Chapter 28
Chapter 29
Chapter 30
Prologue
This is a book about my experiences resulting from a car accident. All the incidents depicted in it actually happened. Don’t worry, the names (particularly one) have been changed to protect the innocent (and the guilty).
Voicing and hence clarifying my anger and other feelings helped me realize, confront, and face up to my emotions and thoughts. I became a more whole person. This is much of why I wrote this book. I decided to publish it in hopes that this book might help those who are in a similar situation, and those who care for them.
Initially I wasn’t able to write, so when I started keeping a journal I put some things down from memory. The time order of certain things was difficult for me to remember early on, after my accident, so the chronology of some things may be out of order. I haven’t edited my writing in the hopes that my writing quality, style, and choice of subject matter will chronicle my recovery.
In the first several chapters, my writing style is rather fragmentary which mimics my conversational style and thought processes. Rather than edit this and make the book more readable, I have left it as I wrote it to give you a sense of what my thinking was like and the challenges that I faced. Thus, the first several chapters are fragmentary but authentic. Just hold on!
I hope this book is as helpful for you to read as it was for me to write. It is designed to give you a picture from the inside out of what it has been like for me to have a traumatic brain injury (TBI). Traumatic brain injuries occur more than 2 million times each year in the United States. There are around 275 million people in the United States, so if you know 100 people, there is a good chance that every year, two of them will suffer a brain injury of some severity.
I hope that you and those you love never are forced to face a TBI, and that you are a more careful and defensive driver as a result of reading this book. One of the good things about my accident was that it caused everyone in my extended family to drive more carefully. I hope this benefit extends to you.
The events of this book coincided with the election of Jesse (The Body
) Ventura to the governorship in Minnesota. Talk about a strange period in my life. Unlike the governorship of Mr. Ventura, this chapter in my life has no term limits. I hope that I can find a way to make this incident contribute positively to my life. And I hope that we all have been affected positively.
I want to thank people without whom this book would be impossible: my family, who gave me the will to live; the doctors, nurses and technicians at Hennepin County Hospital, Swedish and Craig hospitals, and Boulder’s Mapleton Hospital who sustained my life and helped me realize my life was still worth living; and most importantly my ex-wife Karen and son Andrew, whom I love dearly. This book is dedicated to those who made it possible: my family, doctors and nurses in various places, and friends. Although this book primarily concerns my personal and not professional life, I would like to take this opportunity to thank President Steve Lewis, Dean Sam Patterson, and my physics colleagues at Carleton College, for their encouragement, and for being so flexible in helping me return to work. I also would like to extend a special thanks to Professor John Taylor of the University of Colorado, the best mentor in the world, who helped mold my teaching. Special thanks to Alan Johnson, Jamie Jarvis, Jane McDonnell, Ian Barbour, and Kitsey Canaan for advice on this book. I would like to extend special thanks to my good friend Doug Kenshol.
Introduction
June 18,2002
Kevin Pettit is a remarkable individual. He was involved in an auto accident on October 27, 1998 in Northfield, Minnesota. The initial assessment of his injury at Hennepin County Medical Center in Minneapolis, Minnesota was that he had sustained a severe closed head injury. He had a Glasgow Coma Scale Score of 3. This is the lowest score you can have and still be alive.
He also had multiple other traumatic injuries. This started Mr. Pettit’s journey and recovery from his closed head injury. From Hennepin County Medical Center he went to the Multi Trauma Unit at Swedish Medical Center in Englewood, Colorado. This is where I first met Mr. Pettit. The right side of his body was paralyzed. He was initially mute and his prognosis was guarded according to his physicians. The goal of returning to his job as assistant professor was an odyssey that did not even seem relevant to consider. Dr. Pettit was admitted to Craig Hospital in November of 1998 and was not discharged until February of 1999. His MRI of the brain was consistent with a severe injury.
During the course of his inpatient rehabilitation, Dr. Pettit worked on overcoming many neurobehavioral problems including impulsivity, perseveration, and diminished attention /concentration. Dr. Pettit became an on the job expert in reacquiring the skills that are involved in basic independence. Initially, he lacked insight into his cognitive deficits but then was confronted with the terrible discrepancy between his preinjury level of functioning and the realities of his deficits.
Dr. Pettit’s struggles to improve his functioning render him a unique individual. He is perhaps the only physicist in the country who can tell you what slowed speed of processing means in clear and practical psychological terms. Dr. Pettit went on to outpatient therapy at Boulder Mapleton, and in Boulder he struggled with his own personal outward-bound journey-returning to teaching. He continues to work on maximizing all aspects of himself including the melody and tone of his singing. In this volume about his recovery, Dr. Pettit provides the unique perspective of a scientist forced to confront a multitude of psychological, community and professional challenges.
Dr. Pettit’s story is a remarkable work that is still in progress. It reflects his interface with health care providers in multiple States and settings. It is a testimony to the best values present in liberal arts colleges, in that his alma mater where he teaches in Minnesota has helped to enhance his recovery. His story also reflects the great utility of the support from scientific colleagues at the University of Colorado in Boulder. Dr. Pettit’s story reveals the heart of a very bright and good man, as he has worked hard to create a rich and productive future in spite of a severe closed head injury. Dr. Pettit’s writing captures the personal struggles involved in his journey toward the future in very personal and clear terms. It is a testimony to the best of the human spirit.
-James Schraa, PsyD Director of CNI Center for Neurobehavioral Trauma & Neurophychologist at Craig Rehabilitation Hospital
Chapter 1
missing image fileChapter 2
Why Am I Here?
January 17, 1999
I think I should write down my thoughts. I’ve never kept a diary but this would be a good time to start. I hope I can remember to write in it each day. Luckily, my aunt gave me her computer. It’s a laptop and it is the only way I can write.
missing image fileMy memory stretches back to later-December. The first thing I remember, is having a catheter stuck into me to help me when I needed to relieve myself. Apparently, I showed no outward sign of any pain and my nurses at Craig Rehabilitation Hospital thought it was strange. It’s not like you get a couple inches of fish tank tube stuck into your penis every day. But I did, several times a day. It caused major pain.
I remember not being able to speak. I had a tracheotomy. I had a little tube stuck into my throat that allowed me to breathe. They tell me that I used to be on oxygen, especially at night. They needed to make sure I was breathing OK, and that is the most difficult time to check it. It’s also a time when you’re most likely to have difficulty breathing, too.
A little later, it was sometimes very hard to talk especially