First Dates 101: How to Make Success Certain in Dating: Dating, #1

By E. K. Silva

Are you tired of being disappointed in your dating life? Does it seem like all you have been getting are bad dates one after another? Or worse, does it feel like you can't even coordinate a single date and may end up forever alone?

 

What if I told you that a solution to your problem would be as simple as basic math? That all you need is a logical, standardized system that you can personally develop now in order to trust the process.

 

Maybe you've been discouraged by the lack of guidance in today's world as the modern dating landscape continually becomes more individual. In the past, social groups provided structure to support new relationships but now, every man and every woman is left to figure it out on their own.

 

The unfortunate consequence is that the intense impacts that relationships have on individuals are almost ignored amongst other life priorities such as career and status. Since relationships are unstructured, many people choose to focus on their accomplishments that fit nicely into a clear societal structure. However, this leaves people either to secretly fantasize about one day securing an empowering, supportive, and fulfilling connection without the knowledge of how to do so OR to stay in toxic, draining, or unfulfilling partnerships. 

 

The journey to meaningful connection may become a self-fulfilling prophecy of romantic failure UNLESS you develop the proper decision-making skills to rationally see how your success is CERTAIN with the right system in place. That's right, I said CERTAIN.

 

You can develop the confidence to expect success with the right foundational logic. Then, it becomes a matter of WHEN you will meet the right person rather than IF you will. Throughout the process, you can enjoy learning about yourself, your preferences, and the art of emotional experiences all while having faith in a system that works for you.

 

For this desired result, I created this educational resource on the fundamentals of preparing for first dates. In it, I teach easy-to-understand formulas and frameworks to allow you to let go of any fear or objections that are hindering you from connecting meaningfully to potential lovers. You will learn the mindset necessary for success & much more!

• Language: English
• Publisher: E. K. Silva
• Release date: Dec 9, 2020
• ISBN: 9781393783220

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E. K. Silva

First Dates 101: How to Make Success Certain (Dating Logic)

First published by Kiwijo 2021

Copyright © 2021 by E. K. Silva

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Contents

Introduction

Note from the Author

Dating is Dynamic

Overview and Why

I. STEP 1: CURRENT EVALUATION

1. 1a: Do you even want to date?

2. 1b: What are the benefits of romantic connection?

3. 1c: Are you in control or are you being controlled by your subconscious fears?

4. 1d: How will this prepare you?

5. 1e: Exercise 1. Starting Point.

II. STEP 2: NECESSARY FANTASY LOVER

6. 2a: What is the most motivating factor in partner selection?

7. 2b: Would you date yourself?

8. 2c: How does an explicit fantasy safeguard you from your subconscious?

9. 2d: Exercise 2. Fantasy Lover Brainstorm.

10. 2e: What do you do with your fantasy?

III. STEP 3: THE KEY TO THE DECISION-MAKING CYCLE

11. 3a: Do you have a good enough self-esteem to be happy alone?

12. 3b: What does YCL mean?

13. 3c: What will you always gain no matter what you choose?

14. 3d: Exercise 3. Rules like a Religion.

IV. STEP 4: ABC’S OF THE DATING PROCESS

15. 4a: What is the formula of dating?

16. 4b: Are you being optimally honest in how you portray yourself?

17. 4c: Should you have high or low expectations?

V. STEP 5: INTENTIONAL FUN & EXPLORATION

18. 5a: How can you make a first date more comfortable?

19. 5b: Exercise 4. Fun Date Options.

20. 5c: How can you make dates more enjoyable?

21. 5d: How can you relax on dates?

22. 5e: Should you interview your date?

23. 5f: Exercise 5. Go-To Questions.

VI. STEP 6: MINDSET TO MAKE SUCCESS CERTAIN

24. 6a: Is the world abundant?

25. 6b: Who are you compatible with?

26. 6c: Exercise 6. Mental Preparation.

VII. STEP 7: SYSTEMATIC STRATEGY

27. 7a: What is a good approach to the process of dating?

28. 7b: How can you create a system?

29. 7c: Exercise 7. Designing Your System

30. 7d: Tips and Encouragement

VIII. STEP 8: ENDING CONNECTIONS WITH GRACE

31. 8a: How do you end connections gracefully?

32. 8b: Exercise 8. Graceful Preparation

33. 8c: Do you take rejection personally?

Next Steps

Introduction

Are you tired of being disappointed in your dating life? Does it seem like all you have been getting are bad dates one after another? Or worse, does it feel like you can’t even coordinate a single date and may end up forever alone?

What if I told you that a solution to your problem would be as simple