UNDIVIDED ATTENTION: Learning To Deepen Togetherness In Your Relationship

By Dew Showers

Do you feel like you and your partner don't seem to be close anymore?
Do you long for the early days of your relationship when you felt like you were so in love?
Do you want to feel like that again?
If you want to get the magic back in your loving relationship, this book can help you do just that.
Spending time giving your partner your undivided attention is central to deepening any love relationship, but your idea of undivided attention might seem daunting to you or your partner. However, not only is it something critical to keeping your love alive, it is something you can do fairly easily!
In this book, I'll give you a thorough explanation of what undivided attention means and how it can save your relationship. Then, I'll go into an in-depth explanation of the many different ways you can give your partner your focused attention. By spending time focused on one another, you can deepen your love, understanding, and respect for your partner. Specifically, the techniques in this book will help you with the following:

Understanding the reason why your undivided attention is such a gift to your partner;

Gaining an in-depth understanding of how undivided attention is defined;

How to express your love through focused time spent with your partner;

Various suggestions for spending time together;

Identifying your and your partner's preferences for time with each other;

Exercises to discover both of your focused time preferences.
These exercises can help strengthen and deepen your love relationship.
And, you'll come to understand both yourself and your partner in ways you never knew were possible.
If you want to rejuvenate your love for one another and deepen your connection, the techniques in this book can help you do just that.

There's nothing like a strong, deep love connection to make you feel on top of the world, and there's no time like the present to get that back--act now to start giving your undivided attention to the one you love the most!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Dew Showers
• Release date: May 22, 2020
• ISBN: 9781393564058

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Introduction

Love, in all its varieties and expressions, plays a central role in our lives as humans. The loving relationships that we have are among our most important connections. When those relationships are nurtured and healthy, they can bring us great joy, satisfaction, and long-term contentment. However, if those relationships aren’t on a good track, it can bring on complete misery. Although many relationships—be they platonic or romantic—may start out strong, people often find that the energy and attention they devoted at the beginning can diminish over the course of the relationship. What began as a passionate, caring, and sometimes obsessive emotional connection can fade and change over time. Oftentimes, the relationship becomes resentful, sad, and challenging despite the highs at the start.

This is where the work of true love comes in. Before this stage, love is more or less superficial and is mostly made up of our own ideas formed from idealized expectations and outside influences. We allow a person to fulfill our desires but refuse to see the reality of the person and their flaws. As close relationships unravel and fall apart, everyone involved suffers. The worst part is that, most of the time, people don’t want the relationship to dissolve and don’t understand why it is happening.

Do you want to be loving and express your affection to your significant other, but can’t seem to get it right despite your best efforts? Maybe they don’t notice or appreciate your efforts, or they don’t understand the meaning behind them. This is a very common issue that most couples face at some point or another. If you wish to maintain the relationship, then it is important to do some reflecting on the way(s) you communicate love as well as the way(s) you receive love. And equally, or perhaps more importantly, you must also reflect on the way your partner communicates and feels love.

Throughout this book, I will discuss how undivided attention can help you express the genuine love you feel for your partner, reignite the excitement you once felt at the thought of getting to know them better, and even salvage a relationship from the brink of disaster. With the many outward distractions pulling at your mind and attention in your daily life, undivided attention may seem like something you simply can’t give your partner. After all, you have what seems like a million demands pulling your focus in the different areas of your life. If you want your relationship to survive, however, it is important that you find opportunities to focus exclusively on your partner.

Undivided attention is a different kind of attention than that which you experience in other contexts, like a family outing or when eating dinner with the kids. This kind of attention sends a crucial message to your partner that you value your relationship, that it is a priority for you, and that your partner’s thoughts and feelings are worthy of your exclusive time and attention. Giving your partner the gift of undivided attention is also a gift to yourself. It’s amazing how opening yourself up to making a few simple changes to the way you express your