Inner Winner: Finding The Gold That Lies Within
By Judy Swallow
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Inner Winner - Judy Swallow
BEING AN INNER WINNER
What does it mean to be an Inner Winner
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Not all of us aspire to be Olympic athletes or gold medalists. It is a goal shared by a select few. But I do believe that the desire to win at life is a shared goal. Who wouldn’t want to live a life that is in alignment with our deepest dreams and heart felt desires? Just as the athlete needs to train and dedicate time and energy to their endeavor, each of us must do the same to live a life that is the expression of our true self.
Being an Inner Winner is doing whatever it takes to achieve the goal, to challenge and overcome every obstacle on the path. To live authentically and attuned to your highest aspiration takes similar dedication. Ascension in any field requires self-care and love.
Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you’re living?
Bob Marley
Self-awareness and introspection can reveal what’s hindering the actualization of the best life you imagine for yourself. It is the start of being an Inner Winner. It is the quality of being soul-y responsible for yourself and the willingness to do what it takes to achieve the dream.
When I was in my mid-30s and in the second year of the Transpersonal Psychotherapy Training Program, I had an extraordinary moment where I realized that I am responsible for my life. I wasn’t consciously aware that I was blaming others for not living the life I wanted to live. In fact, my if only list was long, and something I believed to be right and true: If only my parents had done this; If only that coach nurtured my talent more; If only people had told me how smart and beautiful I am...I would be more this, that or the other. I felt justified in feeling that others were responsible for my pain. It’s true that they may have contributed to my lack of self-worth, self-love, and self-esteem, but I was the one perpetuating the beliefs.
That is the value in paying attention to your thoughts, feelings, and to your life circumstances as they begin to reveal what is going on beneath the surface of the conscious mind. No one, not my parents, not my teachers, not anyone or anything in my world or environment, past or present, caused my problems. I stopped the blame game, or at least began to. I was truly on the path to soul and sole responsibility for my life.
You have to grow from the inside out. None can teach you, none can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul.
Swami Vivekananda
After each moment of enlightenment that I experienced, it was the resulting self-awareness that led me to see what I needed to keep working on and understand in order to further transform my default setting of fear to one of faith, faith in myself. The moments of enlightenment, plus the continued persistence and tenacity to gain deeper insights was what led me to cultivate an inner strength to live the life I desired. Inner winning was occurring more and more; I was finding the Gold within: self-value and self-worth that became the foundation on which I stood.
Have you ever noticed that life is always presenting us with the opportunity to see ourselves and what is really going on inside? I am not speaking of when we are doing our day to day—when the world as