Sex and Shame: A Short Guide to Managing Shame in Bed

By Charlie Glickman and Carl Frankel

Everyone experiences shame in the bedroom, including highly skilled lovers. In this short, free e-book, sexpert Charlie Glickman and sex writer Carl Frankel offer a succinct, usable guide to dealing with and overcoming shame when it arises in sexual situations. Don't despair! You're not alone, and shame can be dealt with. E-book includes a free excerpt of Frankel's groundbreaking novel The Unraveling plus a free gift, no strings attached (normally $67).

• Language: English
• Publisher: Mango Garden Press
• Release date: Oct 14, 2019
• ISBN: 9780463528228

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An excerpt from the novel The Unraveling, by Carl Frankel

(Volume One of The Erotopian Chronicles)

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SEX AND SHAME: A MANGO GARDEN PRESS SEX SERIES E-BOOK

ABOUT THE AUTHORS OF SEX AND SHAME

CHARLIE GLICKMAN, PH.D. is a sex and relationship coach, writer, blogger, teacher and internationally-acclaimed speaker. For over twenty years, he has spoken at academic conferences and community events, taught workshops about sexuality, pleasure, sexual practices and relationships, and worked with individuals, couples and groups to help them have great sex. In addition to his work with the public, Charlie trains sexuality educators, medical and mental health professionals, and clergy to enable them to better serve their clients and communities.

As a sex and relationship coach, Charlie works with people in person and over Skype to help them move past whatever is blocking them and make sex more pleasurable. He also coaches sexuality professionals who want to expand their skills and grow their businesses. You can find out about his services at MakeSexEasy.com.

CARL FRANKEL is an award-winning writer. His book Secrets of the Sex Masters won the 2015 AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists) national prize for sex-ed book of the year. His novel The Unraveling, is the first volume of a trilogy (The Erotopian Chronicles) about what happens when three Earthlings encounter life on a planet where people have a healthy relationship with sex, pleasure, connection and celebration. He is married to Sheri Winston, author of the award-winning Women’s Anatomy of Arousal. For more information: CarlFrankel.com.

ABOUT THE PUBLISHER

Mango Garden Press is the publishing arm of the Intimate Arts Center, which helps adults develop great sex and relationship skills.

Sex and Shame (e-book): © 2019 Carl Frankel. All rights reserved.

Cover Art by Erin Papa (The Turning Mill Graphic Art Studio)

Table of Contents

Sex and Shame

Fifty Shades of Shame

The Experience of Shame

Shame in the Bedroom

Developing Shame Resilience

When Shame Arises in the Bedroom

The Unraveling

Earth to Erotopia

Vala

Darius

Kri’Zhalee

Jahangir

Jahangir (2)

Sex and Shame

by Charlie Glickman with Carl Frankel

NO MATTER HOW SKILLED YOU ARE, THINGS WON’T ALWAYS GO as you’d hoped in the bedroom. A move that usually works wonderfully falls flat. You put your hand on her genitals and she moves it away. You spend way too much time worrying about how your ass looks. You ejaculate too soon. Your equipment won’t operate as it’s meant to.

We all hit these speed bumps sometimes, including very skilled lovers. When it happens, a frequent response is shame—a sense of unworthiness accompanied by feelings of isolation and disconnection.

Because