Making Love, Not Porn: A Romantic, Natural, and Emotional Guide to Sex in the 21st Century

By Jonathon Jones

Tired of being jealous every time you watch a romantic love scene, feeling as if there are a lot of things you're missing? Feeling disrespected and like you're a piece of meat every time you're with your lover? Having unrealistic expectations and feeling empty in the bedroom due to the influence of pornography in today's society? If you answered yes to any of these questions, this is the book for you.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jonathon Jones
• Release date: Jul 13, 2019
• ISBN: 9781386566137

Jonathon Jones

Born and raised in a small town in central Illinois, Jonathon Jones has spent most of his life involved in academic pursuits.   He received a Bachelor's degree in Art History at the University of South Florida. In addition, he also received a Master's degree in Library Science at that same University. He is also a member of the Society for Collegiate Scholars as well as the Phi Kappa Phi Honor Society. Some of his many research projects have involved nutrition, philosophy, art, antiques, history, and human relations. His personal interests are movies, trivia games, visiting historic sites, and museums. For many years of his life he has been an avid researcher and collector of antiques and collectibles, and since 2000 has been a seller as well, primarily via online auction sites such as Ebay. He has also collaborated with and sent textual and visual submissions (Using his alternate name--Jonathon Jones is a pen name) to Ted Hake, writer of the Hake's Character Collectibles Guides, and some of his former collection pieces have been pictured within the pages of those books. His most recent dream is to write informative manuals as well as short stories via the E-book format, and with the love and support of his family and friends, he hopes this dream will become a reality. He currently resides in Florida near his family, whom he would like to thank wholeheartedly for giving him the hope and inspiration that he needs to make all of his dreams come true.

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Making Love, Not Porn: A Romantic, Natural, and Emotional Guide to Sex in the 21st Century

by

Jonathon Jones

Copyright 2016, by Jonathon Jones

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Disclaimer:  Please note, this contains some adult subject matter that discusses intimate situations, sometimes candidly, for the purpose of disseminating sexual information in order to help people establish a better love life.  It is not pornographic in nature, but still deals with some highly detailed intimate topics.  Therefore, if you are not 18 or over, but would still like to learn about proper methods in which to be intimate, please get your parent's permission before reading the rest of the sample or buying this book.

Table of Contents

Making Love, Not Porn: A Romantic, Natural, and Emotional Guide to Sex in the 21st Century

Introduction

Pornography: What They Don't Tell You

Knowing Yourself

Maintenance, Maintenance, Maintenance--The Natural Way

Finding A Mate

The Fundamentals:  Step 1.  Setting the Stage

The Fundamentals: Step 2.  Location, Location, Location

The Fundamentals:  Step 3.  Expectations?  What are those?

The Fundamentals: Step 4.  Remembering the Basics

The Fundamentals:  Step 5.  Let the Games Begin!

The Fundamentals:  Step 6.  Hand Play

The Fundamentals:  Step 7.  Oral Sex?  It's Up to You

The Fundamentals:  Step 8.  The Whole Enchilada

The Fundamentals:  Step 9.  The Orgasm

The Fundamentals:  Step 10.  After the Bliss

Conclusion

Introduction

We now live in an unfortunate generation that seems to stress elements of sexuality that, in no way whatsoever, are indicative of real life or deal with the emotional and physical consequences of people's actions.  When a generation is brought up in a society where pornography can be accessed with but a click of a button, and this is even spread to people who should seriously know the difference between fantasy and reality by now, you are bound to get an abundance of mentally screwed up individuals who have no idea what making love is actually all about.

When we learn how to have sex without consequence, without a real emotional connection, with ideas of body image that are not even close to reality, and in ways that can be demeaning and even painful and emotionally scarring for many, we have lost one of our greatest assets we have as human beings.  That being the fine, natural, emotionally connected art of making love.

In this book, I will discuss what it truly takes to differentiate what is real and what is not, and what it takes to truly separate ourselves from social constructs that have limited our ability to express our true passion in a way that is more human and less animalistic.  In addition, I will give helpful hints on what it can take to allow yourself to be more connected with your lover in a multitude of ways, which will allow you to evolve towards a level many people may not have even known existed.

Overall, most of this will entail using your emotions, sprinkled with a little logic, of course, to get the best of what true sensuality has to offer.  After all, one of our greatest strengths as human beings is our abundance of complex emotions as well as the ability to use logic to keep them in check, so it's about time we took this wonderful combo and started to use it.

Pornography: What They Don't Tell You

However, before we delve into the realm of what it truly takes to make love, we need to be patient and realize that