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    Manipulated into Fear: There Is Always a Pattern
    Manipulated into Fear: There Is Always a Pattern
    Manipulated into Fear: There Is Always a Pattern
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    Manipulated into Fear: There Is Always a Pattern

    By Marvela Dawnay

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    MANipulated Into Fear is based on a true story about a man I went to high school with and years later married and divorced three times within thirteen years. His name was Rolf. During this time, I was living the dark side of life but others perceived me as living a happy and perfect life. Back in our high school days Rolf grew up as a farmer and drank beer with his buddies. After high school he began to run with the wrong crowd and changed dramatically. I knew he liked to drink a lot of beer and liquor and had used drugs in the past, but I was not aware of his addictive personality and the severity of his addictions.

    At the beginning of our relationship each time he portrayed himself as the man I had thought he was years before. Within a period of time he began to manipulate me into fear and take control of my life to benefit himself. All three times in the beginning of my relationship with Rolf he was dedicated to Christ, was family-oriented, charming, kind, respectful, and loving, complimented me all the time, apologized for his actions, and knew how to make me feel sorry for him.
    Shortly after I would marry him he would begin to manipulate and con me into doing things I did not want to do. Rolf would call me uncountable times during the day and want to know my whereabouts. He then insisted on being with me except for when I was at work. This took my time away from friends and family, and that is when the mental abuse began. He stopped complimenting me and began calling me names making me feel worthless, and told me that nobody liked me. When I would accuse him of wrongdoings he would become outraged, screaming at me and using profanity. After he gained control of me, the physical abuse began. Later, I learned that I had repeatedly been involved with a psychopath and that there is always a pattern. Get out of the relationship and don’t go back! The person will never change!

    Five Star ForeWord Clarion Review - Elizabeth Millard

    One of the more hidden forms of abuse comes when a romantic partner, parent, or boss creates a hostile environment by preying on a person's fears or self-doubt. This type of emotional abuse can be devastating and have long-lasting effects. Because it may lack the physical component of violence, a victim can suffer for years before recognizing the abuse.

    In sharing her story, Dawnay aims to help prevent other women from falling into a similar pattern of abuse. That impetus is clear in the no-nonsense, focused fury of her writing style.

    Read the full review: https://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/manipulated-into-fear/

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAuthorHouse
    Release dateDec 21, 2012
    ISBN9781477298862
    Manipulated into Fear: There Is Always a Pattern
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    Marvela Dawnay

    Christine J. Gilbert grew up in a small town in Missouri. She was a corporate executive and then later became a successful entrepreneur. She has attended two universities and served in the US Army Reserves for six years. Christine has published three books that are a series under her pseudonym, Author Marvela Dawnay. MANipulated Into Fear, There Is Always A Pattern, Book 1, that was published on December 19, 2012. White Roses In A Dream, Traits, Patterns, and Action Plans, Book 2, was published December 14, 2013, and DEEP SEEDED SECRETS, Corruption, Lies, and Murder, Book 3, was published on July 26, 2019. She is currently writing Book 4. Books 1 & 2 have received a ""ForeWord Clarion Five Star Review."" MANipulated Into Fear: https://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/manipulated-into-fear/ White Roses In A Dream: https://www.forewordreviews.com/reviews/white-roses-in-a-dream/ Christine has a daughter and two grandchildren. By being a grandma, she became aware of the Super Grandparents who spend time with their grandchildren or take care of them full-time. On September 11, 2015, Christine published book one of the Super Grandma and Super Grandpa, The Unknown Superheroes series to educate children and adults about safety and awareness with a super magical power theme for fun. Book 2 to the series was published September 11, 2016, and Book 3 was published September 11, 2017. Publishing dates are 911 because in the story, Christine educates about the emergency phone number 911. ""Never write a book and let it sit on a shelf"" quote, Author Christine J. Gilbert http://www.christinejgilbert-books.com http://supergrandmaandsupergrandpa.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/authorchristinejgilbert/ Twitter:https://twitter.com/CJeanneGilbert Instagram: christinejgilbert Linkedin: Christine J Gilbert

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