Want Your Teen to Listen? The Proven Irresistible Formula to Get Your Teen to Cooperate and Avoid the Wrong Crowd and Bad Choices
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IS THERE A SHORTCUT TO YOUR TEEN'S EMOTIONAL BRAIN? What if learning a simple formula will get your teen to listen and cooperate, almost instantly and without resistance? Can you imagine going from hopeless struggle to never having to worry about your teen now or in the future while saving money and time on therapy and medication?
IT'S ALL IN THE BOOK! After years of researching different behavior modification disciplines, observing clients, and her own teenage daughter's behavior, Dr. Viktoria Ter-Nikoghosyan has put together a unique and simple, but powerful science-based FORMULA. This shortcut quickly brought peace and laughter back into her family and will do the same for yours.
Do the parenting tips or parenting systems that you’ve learned require a lot of time and effort, but you don't have either because you also need to make a living? Instead of hard-to-remember long lists of Do's and Don'ts, you get a simple FORMULA that helps you:
•Avoid the three major parenting mistakes of the information era
•Irresistibly catch your teen's attention and keep it
•Guard your teen against mistakes and guide them towards solutions and more choices
•See immediate results, and have your teen listen and cooperate any time you speak
Bonus: You will remember to use the formula every time you speak with your teen.
"The beauty of Want Your Teen to Listen? is in its astonishing simplicity and the ease of applying its suggestions," explains Gayane Hovakimian, a professor from NY. "With this book's help, I repaired the broken communication with my son and now achieve so much more."
Viktoria Ter-Nikoghosyan
Виктория Тер-Никогосян – востребованный международный консультант по личностному и профессиональному развитию и коуч, кандидат биологических наук. Виктория Тер-Никогосян помогла сотням родителей в 23 странах мира вновь обрести связь, наладить взаимопонимание и полное взаимодействие со своими подростками. Благодаря ее методам они научились защищать и эффективно направлять своих детей-подростков, развивать в них самостоятельность и ответственность. В. Тер- Никогосян училась у многих самых лучших в своих областях специалистов. Она – мать троих счастливых и успешных детей: двух взрослых и одного подростка.Виктория говорит, что обязана успеху в работе с клиентами своей первой специальности – биологии, так как она помогает понять, как естественным образом изменить биохимию человека, чтобы повлиять на его эмоции, поведение, работоспособность и здоровье.Прежде чем стать консультантом по личностному росту, она выстроила успешную и прибыльную карьеру в нескольких областях, в которых прошла путь от кандидата биологических наук до международного консультанта по организационному развитию и до работы в качестве консультанта в Организации Объединенных Наций. Помимо 13 лет чистого академического и научного опыта, у нее есть также 18-летний комбинированный опыт исследований, лидерства, консультирования и тренингов в различных областях, включая экологию, юриспруденцию, экономику, человеческое развитие, сферу информационных и коммуникационных технологий.Виктория Тер-Никогосян работает на трех языках (английском, русском и армянском), сотрудничает с различным организациями и отдельными лицами, такими как официальные представители Организации Объединенных Наций, руководители компаний, бизнес- команды, высокопоставленные государственные чиновники, ведущие оперные певцы, музыканты, спортсмены и ученые разных стран. Все они смогли кардинально изменить свою жизнь в лучшую сторону.
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Want Your Teen to Listen? The Proven Irresistible Formula to Get Your Teen to Cooperate and Avoid the Wrong Crowd and Bad Choices - Viktoria Ter-Nikoghosyan
Guard and Guide with Confidence
Want Your Teen
to Listen?
The Proven
Irresistible Formula
to Get Your Teen to Cooperate and
Avoid the Wrong Crowd and Bad Choices
Viktoria Ter-Nikoghosyan, Ph.D.
San Francisco, 2017
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Smashwords Edition
WANT YOUR TEEN TO LISTEN?
The Proven Irresistible Formula
to Get Your Teen to Cooperate and Avoid
the Wrong Crowd and Bad Choices
Copyright © 2017 by Viktoria Ter-Nikoghosyan
www.Live-in-Harmony.com
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other non-commercial uses permitted by copyright law.
For permission requests, write to tervika@Live-in-Harmony.com.
Development and Final Copy Editing by Janice Forry - JForry34@gmail.com
Copy Editing by Bettyanne Green
Front Cover Illustration by Mihran Akopyan
Front Cover Design by Janice Forry
Book Illustrations by Viktoria Ter-Nikoghosyan
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DEDICATION
I am indebted to Dr. Richard Bandler, whose genius in finding simple, fast-working and easy solutions for humans to excel has inspired me to find a simple parenting formula. Thank you!
To my husband, three children and two granddaughters - thank you for coming and staying in my world to share fun and laughter!
What parents are saying about the book…
If you have a teenager in your family, you owe this book to yourself. Full of practical advice, powerful techniques, and real-life examples that can help you connect with your teen as it did for me with my 17-year-old son.
-Jennet Appova
UN Officer, New York, New York
I resorted to this book when I became desperate about our interaction with my teenage son. For a few years, we had little, if any communication, and even when we did, it consisted of me explaining to him what to do and how, what is good and bad for him, and him impatiently interrupting me with an ok, ok, ok.
While I realized that this was not working, I was clueless about what to do.
With this book’s help, I repaired our broken communication and now achieve so much more. For the first time in quite a long time, I had an over hour-long interesting and sincere conversation with my son. I felt that he was not only listening to me, but he was also really engaged in the conversation we were having. I was the first one to say goodbye (!) and he called me in a week (!), himself, to share some news and happenings in his college life. For the first time in such a long time, HE called me. I am so happy!
The book is well written and offers easy-to-follow guidelines. It gave me so many aha
moments that I had to stop and think; the power of a question was the real eye opener for me and once I started using it, I became more convinced of its hidden potential as an important step in problem solving. I like that the author came up with her ideas when she started asking herself questions about how to best deal with her teen.
The beauty of this book’s approach is its astonishing simplicity and the ease of applying the suggestions. You can start using it almost immediately after reading, as I did, and, over time, you will become better at doing it. In one conversation with my son, I used all the suggested tricks and saw immediate results.
I should also stress that the book is more universal than it claims. You can absolutely use these methods to communicate with anyone, not just your child, and you do not have to have communication problems to benefit from it. There is always room to improve what you already have. I started with my son and I went on to use it with my students, friends, family, colleagues, and just about everyone, including myself.
-Gayane Hovakimian
Professor, New York, New York
I have read your wonderful book! It is outstanding! I remember and usually use the techniques, but sometimes I slip back into bad communication, so I recommend re-reading the book from time to time. And the illustrations are PERFECT! They communicate your ideas so well! I would like to be one of the first to purchase a bunch of copies to have one on every floor of the house and enough to share with friends.
The approach is great for teens but it is also about ME! When I adopted this