Escape From The Spider's Web: How To Get Out Of An Abusive Relationship
By Eve Joy
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It is not the aim of this book to break up good, loving relationships...
It is however the aim of this book to break up bad, abusive relationships
The real danger happens when you allow yourself to remain in an abusive relationship. You then become conditioned to the abuses, accepting them as normal, and giving him the means and power to become a fully-fledged spider; turning yourself into a victim, his fly
You begin to accept this nightmare as a normal way of living and loving –which it is not!
If you have children, they will in turn think this is how normal adults live and treat each other.
Believe me, there are many couple out there living as spider and fly! Some of them have children. (How do you expect them to treat their spouses when they grow up?) -
Imagine the endless nightmares.
•Why would you want to allow someone to take away all your rights and turn you into his slave, his punch bag, and claim he is doing this out of love? No, this isn't love. Yes, he is evil; a true gift from hell. – GET RID OF HIM. (NO! – DON’T kill him. LEAVE HIM! Yes, leave him. Believe me it works out better for you. – and him, eventually.)
•Love? Let's not confuse emotions here. There is no love in hell. If you are in an abusive relationship, you definitely are trapped in a spider's web. There is hell in a spider's web. Not love.
This isn't right. This isn't love. Its torture and abuse. Don't do this to yourself. Yes, tell yourself: "I DESERVE BETTER!" and walk away...
Eve Joy
I am happy to take time and write something useful. Lucky for me, I have had the blessings of outstanding experiences in my evenful life. Most interesting are the people I met coming from all walks of life, each willing to share life-defying episodes in their lives. My task has been made easier by this... I now can thank them all for widening my horizon. I am able to capture most of this, and make life useful for many who care to share with me by reading my works. Life is a wonderful teacher. I hope I remain an attentive student of life.
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Escape From The Spider's Web - Eve Joy
ESCAPE FROM THE SPIDER'S WEB:
How to get out of an abusive relationship
by
Eve Joy
(Good Love Gone Bad Series: Book 1)
ESCAPE FROM THE SPIDER'S WEB:
How to get out of an abusive relationship
(Good Love Gone Bad Series: Book 1)
Copyright © 2017 by Eve Joy
Smashwords Edition
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To you who finds yourself at the crossroads in life. Let hope shine in you and give you the strength to fight on. To all those who have been through the spider’s web and are willing to share their experiences to help others, I thank you.
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Table of Content
Author’s Note
Book Brief
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
PROLOGUE
Chapter 1 Step 1: The Making of a Spider
Chapter 2 Step 2: Admit You are Trapped in a Spider's Web
Chapter 3 Step 3: Untangle Yourself from the Trappings of a Spider's Web
Chapter 4 Step 4: Escape From The Trap of a Spider's web
Chapter 5 Step 5: In and Out of a Spider's Web
Chapter 6Step 6: Remove the Cobwebs of the Spider's Web from Your Life
Resources Kit
Thank You
Author's note:
Please note: Throughout this book I shall refer to the abuser (the spider) as a man: that is, 'him'/'he' - male gender. Please note this is only to avoid using him/her or he/she as this irritate the reader. Admittedly most spiders (abusers) are men.
Women can and do abuse their male partners.
The Spider can either be a man or a woman. I only chose to address the abuser as a man to allow the book to flow. My apologies if, in doing so, I have offended the good men out there. This book is for both men and women victims.
In this book, I am addressing couples. This include those in a marriage union, those who live together in any agreed arrangement, and those who have begun dating and are planning to formalize their union. This book addresses all of you. I shall refer to your union or arrangement as a relationship. Your spouse, lover or boyfriend/girlfriend, I shall address to as your partner and him. Thank you.
Book Brief:
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