How to Have a Faithful Marriage: Marital Infidelity Is Not an Option

By Dueep Jyot Singh

Table of Contents

Introduction
Wife Vs. Mistress – the Historical Background
Legitimacy Vs. Illegitimacy
If One Is Tempted to Stray...
But I Think He Is Also Being Unfaithful...
We are Growing Apart...
Is My Marriage Going Sour?
At Least She Does Not Nag...
Some Old-Fashioned Reminiscences
Desperately Hanging onto Your Man...
Conclusion
Author Bio
Publisher

Introduction

We were just talking generally, when a friend of mine told me that she did not mind her husband straying occasionally as long as he came back to his wife and kids at the end of the day.

I was horrified and shocked. Here was a sensible, intelligent, woman who was condoning marital infidelity, by saying overtly, men will be men, and marital infidelity is acceptable. This book is for all those people who believe that marital infidelity in any form is unacceptable, socially, traditionally, religiously, psychologically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. In every marriage ceremony, in any religion, coming down through the ages, two people are joined together, as husband and wife.

In many marriage ceremonies, it is always said that you have to be faithful to one another, and under no option do you stray. But in many ancient civilizations and societies, wives accepted the fact that their men would stray, even though they were married, because that was the nature of the man.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Mendon Cottage Books
• Release date: Feb 19, 2017
• ISBN: 9781370998234

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How to Have a Faithful Marriage

Marital Infidelity Is Not an Option

Dueep Jyot Singh

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Wife Vs. Mistress – the Historical Background

Legitimacy Vs. Illegitimacy

If One Is Tempted to Stray

But I Think He Is Also Being Unfaithful

We are Growing Apart

Is My Marriage Going Sour?

At Least She Does Not Nag

Some Old-Fashioned Reminiscences

Desperately Hanging onto Your Man

Conclusion

Author Bio

Publisher

Introduction

We were just talking generally, when a friend of mine told me that she did not mind her husband straying occasionally as long as he came back to his wife and kids at the end of the day.

I was horrified and shocked. Here was a sensible, intelligent, woman who was condoning marital infidelity, by saying overtly, men will be men, and marital infidelity is acceptable. This book is for all those people who believe that marital infidelity in any form is unacceptable, socially, traditionally, religiously, psychologically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. In every marriage ceremony, in any religion, coming down through the ages, two people are joined together, as husband and wife.

In many marriage ceremonies, it is always said that you have to be faithful to one another, and under no option do you stray. But in many ancient civilizations and societies, wives accepted the fact that their men would stray, even though they were married, because that was the nature of the man.

Who thought this one up, and brainwashed women kind to think of this as acceptable human behavior is unknown, but women will always say that it was some man who thought this one up. And so he could justify promiscuous behavior, because according to him, it was his duty to spread his gene line far and wide wherever he went, and destroy other gene lines.

This actually is the theory of natural selection, where the weaker who cannot survive is going to be destroyed through natural or human agencies. And that is why man’s natural instinct is to make certain that future generations of his blood, manage to survive somehow, somewhere, sometime, and in someplace else.

Man was never born civilized; civilization was imposed upon him as a way to stop him from creating mayhem and havoc in a well regulated society. That is why rules and regulations and traditions were imposed upon man. These included the marriage ceremony, the sanctity of two families, and the bringing together of gene lines, in a marital bond, so that the next generation could have the strengths and the weaknesses of different gene lines.

And that is why the cavewoman always looked for a mate, who was capable of hunting for food, and providing shelter for her and her children. And a man always looked for a mate, who was capable of bearing him strong, sturdy, and able to survive children instead of weaklings, which could put the whole tribe in danger.

This instinct is of course very much present in animals and it is supposedly dampened down in man, who is considered to be rational and civilized, through the training of ages. That is why he cannot go into his neighbor’s house, say Thy wife is more beautiful than mine, I covet her, she is my property now, and drag her into his own house to be his own mate, while the neighbor stands shivering and cowering in a corner.

This instinct, down the ages has been repressed through the rules imposed on a person who is in a bond of marriage. It is his job to