The Sex Files
Our experts answer your most intimate questions — no holds barred
JACOB M. JOHANNESBURG
Sex with a third person is tricky because it brings a potentially destabilising element into the relationship. So when you discuss it with her, I’d focus on 1) creating a new fantasy experience with her and 2) her needs and pleasure.
That is, be sure it’s about bringing you closer, not providing a guilt-free way for you to have sex with another woman. DR AARON
To avoid jealousy, tell her you think a threesome could be really hot for her, not just for you.
But: It’s best to avoid doing it with someone she knows or you could set yourself up for a problem: Are you comparing her with her friends? Do you desire someone else? Instead, let her pick
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