How Manners, Migration, Concentration and Technology Affect Our Lives

By Matt Green

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How Good Manners Affects Our Lives?
Manners determine a relationship and that relationship is either affectionate or unfriendly depending on how the manner is presented.
As we become a responsible parents for our children, we discipline them with the good manners we grew up learning, and hence they become their own discipline.
Good manners have a variety of ways in affecting us in a community that can present physically or emotionally.

Migration has been with us since time immemorial.
As people search for countries that offer high wages, they also affect national security, the spread of diseases, brain drain and globalization.
In all, using the concepts of social construction, definition of reality by the powerful and hegemony, we will then be able to properly and sufficiently discuss the effects of migration to interstate relations.

Why We Are So Dependent On Technology?
Have we ever thought that where does the future of humanity and earth lies after a few decades?
How much positive are we extracting from our modern technological and scientific advancements?

How the body and mind are directly influenced against each other?
How we can take advantage of this?
The attention given to the present seems to be the least among many people and it has a devastating effect on people’s lives.
The mind did not come with our birth, it came later as a creation of our addiction to the past and the future.

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• Language: English
• Publisher: Matt Green
• Release date: Feb 6, 2017
• ISBN: 9781370929184

Matt Green

Matt Green is an international best-selling author who writes about celebrity figures and their real stories. Matt's goal is to make celebrity biographies more accessible and enjoyable by the readers. His books are easy-to-read, short to the point and with very interesting facts about how normal people rose to stardom. He lives with his wife Kate in Surbiton, London, United Kingdom.

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How Manners, Migration, Concentration and Technology Affect Our Lives

Matt Green

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Copyright© 2017 Matt Green

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Book One - Manners

Book Two - Migration

Book Three - Concentration

Book Four - Technology

How Good Manners Affect Our Lives

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Preamble

What can we call good manners?

Some snap shots from our surroundings carrying sign of good and bad manners

Necessity of upholding good manner

Room for culturing and practicing good manners

Examples of Manners practiced in some countries

How ‘Good Manner’ affects our lives

Conclusion

Preamble

"He shut the door showing discontentment. My 2 years old daughter got a bit scared and about to cry. Actually, it happened when I went to my neighbor’s door to borrow simply a screwdriver. The lock of my wardrobe, where I usually keep my important documents, got slightly loose. I have some necessary daily mechanical tools. I searched for my ones, but failed. Later on, I received the harsh reaction for him.

It was one of the bitterest experiences of my life. I asked my other neighbor what his problem is. The reply was not positive." Just think the situation if it happens to you and how would you feel if such an incident happens in your life? Here comes the question of manners; more specifically, we can call it ‘good manners’.

‘Good manner’ identically relates to behaving and acting nicely even in an adverse situation. Though it is impossible to acquire all the great qualities at a time, we the most intelligent creation of the world, we are to do our utmost to obtain those for our fulfillment as a human being.

There would have no difference between us with other animals if we do not culture good qualities. ‘Good manners’ is not merely a quality rather indicates something more full of gentility and showing courtesy. It is not a readymade product, or a natural stuff that we can earn by physical labor. The word ‘Manner’ implies not only the good ones; we have many bad manners too. We may lose control over our mind for a while, but not permanently. After some time, our good sense comes back again if we are habituated to those.

If we scrutinize the words ‘Good Manners’, we find the first one ‘Good’ which suggests and leave a sense of fair, auspicious, properly anything, excellent, superior etc. and the second one ‘Manners’ implies the sense quite similar to regulated behavior, polished conduct, comportment, attitudes, modest attitude, approaches politely towards anything etc. So, the amalgamation of these two senses feels us to think such a quality which one possesses and reflects such a personality during his way of speaking, movement, dealing with others, ways of living and his demonstrating honor to social obligations and responsibilities.

However, ‘Good Manner’ indicates a person’s refined, polished and cultured outer expressions and inner excellence. The actor surely gets advantage at every sphere in his life if it is genuinely acquired and practiced by him. We can draw the best output from it and dream of a pleasant and well-organized image of life.

Practicing good manners has a constructive effect on our day-to-day life and we can change our way of life largely. Significant change is possible if anyone cultures it properly and earnestly. Prior to our proceeding on, we may have queries about its ins and outs.

What can we call good manners?

Social manners have not emerged out or evolve up over night. Civilization has been rearing it up for thousands of years. As a social being, Man generally desires to live a life with cooperation, mutual understanding, solidarity, goodwill and bearing other qualities essential for a smooth pass on. All these will be ineffective if there lacks such quality like ‘good manners’. In our childhood, our parents strived heartily to edify us about the ‘do’s and ‘do not do’s.

In the classroom, the instructors, besides their designed curriculums, very often discuss how to interact with others, suppose they may be their classmates, friends, family members, neighbors and whomever he or she meets. If we say for further clarification, we do not expect any kind of rude behavior and harsh reaction from any child. As normally, we are fond of little kids, concern about their likings and disliking, caring, try to facilitate as per our ability, never can justify any odd reply or attitude from them. We wish to develop in them good manners for their own sake and for the country itself. Accordingly, in the social life we do not expect behaviors or any ill response from our surroundings.

At the opening, we have heard about the innocent baby that got scared at that kind of attitude and might have a negative thinking about her (the babe’s) surroundings where she would breed up. We can remember our childhood in this case. We obviously used to think our surroundings as of our won, played with others, climbed on the trees, ran after place to place, considered our nearby residents our close one next to our relatives.

However, our limitation, lack of frankness causes such trouble and hampers family and social balance. Such a maltreatment mentioned above must leave an awkward, uncomfortable & embarrassing effect on the tender mind and even on the older minds also. Let alone these types of discomfort, in our regular life, that can be whether in our job places, in the market or super shops, rail stations or other public places, we happen to fall in different types of abuses, sometimes that is experienced by ourselves or by others, that we cannot tolerate at all. From the examples above, meanwhile, we have clearly got a clear conception that, ‘good manners’ are just reverse of those. An ill-mannered man’s may make us feeling ashamed, shocked, humiliated, disgraced and dishonored.

I can smile very nicely with my white spackling teeth and at the time can spread out my mouth as much as possible while laughing, can laugh until my lungs leave out the last remaining air inside it. Here, nobody should have the feeling that I do possess all the good qualities and manners that will make me to be distinguishable though taking amiably with a smiling face is counted a good sign of our showing manner. We can’t come to a conclusion about such expression that it is an outcome of culturing ‘Good Manners’ although there exists nice words, smooth and impressive laughter. There should have room for integrating more qualities for real expression. We can sum up some aspects or qualities that are granted as good practices:

Friendly attitude.

Good relationship.

Possessing good sense

Patience and tolerance

Behaving politely with parents.

Proper addressing to the younger, the older and others.

Nice and well behavior to others.

Punctual and time oriented.

Have utmost control over oneself

Show respect to other’s views

Follow the constructive instructions of teachers and instructors

Respect the older

Admire other’s achievements

Having truthfulness

Keep him apart from causing harm to others

Have enough control to emotions.

Unwilling to apply unnecessary impulse

Avoids inhumanity

Helping other when as per capacity and capability

None should be hurt by words or behavior

Generosity in character

Culturing self criticism

Having love and respect for the country and countryman; and so on.

Manners are practiced by us or we are habituated to manners. So manners and human being are related. The above things are essential to be a good mannered person that ultimately brings opportunity to receive admiration, high regard and social appreciation.

Whilst we find the above-mentioned qualities in a person, we can take for granted that the person is a well-mannered person.

It should be practiced by every human being in order to reduce malice, social disorder, personal misunderstand and will help to build a society where man lives with maximum peace and stability.

Some snap shots from our surroundings carrying sign of good and bad manners

"I was returning from office and it was quite late. I stand for the city bus service. I was standing after twenty people in the queue. It is quite common at the time of office breaking hours. At that time a group of seven boys aged around 17-20 reached there. They cut bad remarks to two women, which was sheer unspeakable. Then they tried to take hold of first position in the queue pushing other people from their stand. The bus came but was over crowed and three boys could not get their seat