Save Your Marriage System: The Secret to Stop Divorce and Make Your Spouse Want You Back

By Erin J. Stanley

Is your marriage or relationship on the rocks and you feel helpless and scared? Maybe you know there is a problem and you want to address it before things get worse. Maybe your spouse has already said that they want to end it. This can feel like the bottom has dropped out of your world but it does not have to be the end of your relationship.

Your marriage can be saved and with this book, you will find out how to bring your marriage back on track. Learn why couple's therapy is not always the answer, learn how to communicate without fighting and learn how to work together to find your way back to a happy marriage. There are things that you need to do right away to help save your marriage and there are things that you must never do. Time is of the essence so get this book and learn how your marriage can be saved today.

• Language: English
• Publisher: eBookIt.com
• Release date: Apr 26, 2016
• ISBN: 9781456622732

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Save Your Marriage System:

The Secret to Stop Divorce and Make Your Spouse Want You Back

Erin J. Stanley

Copyright

© 2014 by Erin J. Stanley

ISBN 9781456622732

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced, copied, stored, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, photographic, or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or in any information storage and retrieval systems, without prior written permission of the author or publisher, except where permitted by copyright law.

Disclaimer

This book is intended solely for dispensing of information of an educational value for the purpose of helping those who read it to restore a failed personal relationship. Application of the information within is recommended in line with a rational and responsible approach to your individual circumstance. Readers are cautioned to reply on their own judgment about their individual circumstances to act accordingly.

This book is not intended for use as a source of legal, psychological or counselling advice. All readers are advised to seek services of competent professionals in legal, business, accounting, and finance field. If you use the information within to assist with repairing your damaged relationship, the author and publisher assume no responsibility for the results of your actions.

Contents

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1. Introduction

2. Will Couple’s Therapy Help?

3. When Fights Happen – Fighting Fair

4. They Want to End It - Now What?

5. They Want to End It – What Not to Do Continued

6. Do You Really Want to Make It Work?

7. Overcome Negative Emotions

8. Problem Stage – Your Spouse is Unhappy

9. Problem Stage – Your Spouse Wants to Leave

10. Problem Stages – When Things Are Serious

11. The We Mentality

12. Secrets to Building a Better Marriage

13. What Makes a Marriage Good

14. Conclusion

1. Introduction

Relationships are not easy. If they were, divorce rates would not be as high as they are. These days, it seems like divorce is the common way to handle marriages that are in trouble.

When things begin to go wrong, is divorce your only option? Can most marriages be saved?

If your marriage is on the rocks, this book is for you. In some cases, divorce is the answer because there are some circumstances where staying together is just not healthy, especially if there are patterns of abuse. If you are in an abusive relationship, follow your instincts and get out. For the rest of you, this book will help you explore your relationship and help you heal it.

Relationships can be healed and marriages can be saved, provided that both parties are willing to meet in the middle. If you are the one who extends the proverbial olive branch of peace, and your spouse is willing to extend their own and work with you, that is half of the battle right there. It takes both parties to fix a troubled marriage. There is no way that one person can and should bear the full responsibility of if the marriage will succeed or fail.

Why are relationships so hard? You have two independent people who are merging their lives together.

This requires compromise and a give and take by both partners. The problem is, sometimes, we demand too much. We want the perfect partner. However, no one is perfect and the expectation that they should be is damaging because no one, no matter how perfect they might appear, is ever perfect.

The perfect relationship might exist but the perfect person does not. Perfect people are things of legend and myth; they only exist in our fantasies. When you shift your thinking to that you want a perfect relationship instead of