Confidence by Hope: A Practical Guide Towards Self Confidence in Life

By Clay Hope

You are special! Have faith in yourself Attain Self Confidence through the divine Hope to succeed in life! Hope is an Internal Belief that good times will come again! Hope to attain the Impossible through Self Confidence!

Are you having issues with self-confidence? With Clay's help, you will learn to tackle the problems of your every day life by working through a slightly different angle. While other experts have attempted to tackle this problem in people of all ages, Clay has spent his life working in social service in an effort to help improve the confidence of teens, children, young adults and even the older generation.

This book is a must-read for all those who are experiencing confidence dilemmas. It is Clay's belief that a person should be determined to be confident in life and face his/her life bravely. With the tools and advice given in this expansive book, it is Clay's hope that he can help you obtain the the self-confidence that you have hoped for your entire life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Evan Hope
• Release date: Jul 7, 2015
• ISBN: 9781311706270

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Confidence by Hope

A Practical Guide Towards Self Confidence in Life

Copyright 2015 Clay Hope

Published by Hope Enterprises LLC at Smashwords

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Table of Contents

Forward

Prologue

Chapter 1: What is self confidence?

Definition

Positive and Negative thinking model

Chapter 2: Do you have confidence?

Chapter 3: Why is it necessary to be confident?

Chapter 4: What does it take to be a confident person?

Chapter 5: Relation between life and Self Confidence

Chapter 6: Golden Rules to attain confidence

Focus of life

Love yourself

Identify your unique character

Recall your Achievements

Congratulate yourself for those achievements

Stop sulking and think positively

Do not compare with other people

Identify your talents

Master your talents

Be determined and self motivated

Help others solve problems through your attributes

Being committed to make your goals come true

Be truthful to yourself

Never overestimate your confidence via your accomplishments

Chapter 7: Difference between Self Confidence &Self Esteem

Chapter 8: Solutions to lack of Confidence

Chapter 9: SELF CONFIDENCE QUIZ

Conclusion

Connect

Forward

This book is a great pathway to help people regain their confidence levels. At some point of life, everyone faces the problem of having adequate self confidence to face the world, people, and situations. Though there are many training sessions and well experienced coaches come forward to teach people of all ages, a lot of time is taken to notice some evident change in the persons who suffer from low level of self confidence.

Having noticed this hidden problem, Clay, the author and creator of this book, felt it is necessary to tackle the problem through a different angle. With such an uprising issue faced by young children, teens, young adults and even the older generation, Clay decided to do something for mankind. During his life long career, he never missed a chance to take part in social service programs that dealt with building the character and personality of teens and children, improving the confidence and self esteem levels of teenagers and young adults, and creating a spiritual awareness in the minds of the younger generation.

To top it all, he expels positive energy to all people around him. This book Confidence by Hope is a must-read for all those who are experiencing serious confidence dilemmas. He insists that a person should be determined to be confident in life, and face his/ her life bravely. He believes that every person is unique, and so you need to hope for the best to happen in your life. Our life is God’s gift, so be positive and happy and live in the best and most useful way possible.

Clay has carefully streamlined this book from the start. You should take your own time to read, then ponder over what he has written and then again go on to the next chapter. All the chapters indicate easy but self motivated techniques which if followed, can help any person overcome the problem of lack of confidence. Since he has compiled all genuine incidents and explanations of why you need confidence and how you can achieve it through Hope, this book is a highly recommended masterpiece to read and adopt in one’s life.

Prologue

Hi I'm Clay and I was born in the Country of Belize but raised in Los Angeles CA. I've been to many countries and States, and noticed that so many people deal with Low Self Confidence, I've worked with many kids, Teens, and Adults that deal with low self confidence and mental illness issues too. I've had a passion to help people build self confidence and know there is Hope.

Frankly, after seeing so many people in distress, I used to wonder what is bothering them and why they cannot overcome this problem. To see them struggling, sprouted an inner urge in me, to help them and all those thousands of my fellow human beings who may be also going through such a situation.

It is not that, I am a very confident person, but the trick is that I learnt the technique to overcome this problem. In one word, I will put it as HOPE. No problem in this world, whether physical, mental, psychological, environmental or political is an everlasting problem, right?

There have been wizards, researchers and other brilliant people who have brainstormed themselves, to find a solution to a problem. That is because they hoped and believed there is a solution for any problem. That is the way God has made this world. There is a beginning and an end to this whole life cycle.

I have only one humble piece of advice to all of you out there. God has given you life, character, a beautiful soul, and some hidden talents and some weaknesses too. This is the formula that each and every person has been gifted through God. But, the difference is that, each person has a different and unique character, path of life or destiny, a purposeful soul and few strengths and weaknesses.

So, that is why you are unique. Make good use of what has been given to you. Hope, believe and be determined to show the world you are different. I hoped to make a difference in so many lives and that hope has urged me to create this book on Confidence by Hope.

Wishing you good luck!

Clay

Introduction

The book revolves around the concept of Self Confidence and its attributes.

A major aspect that has been merged into book is that you need to have the hope and expect for good to happen in your life.

When you take off from the first chapter, you will get a clear idea about exactly is Self Confidence and what studies have been done upon this topic in the past.

From the second chapter onwards, all the chapters are intended for those who have a low self confidence or for those who would like to know more about improving their confidence levels or any other person.

The book takes you through a detailed journey and covers each phase of bringing the right mindset to decide and take your first stride to surprise the society in front of you.

Till Chapter 6, it emphasizes only on the psychological side of a person. It concentrates on how a person can modify their thinking and get prepared to be a confident person.

From the seventh chapter onwards, other aspects of a person are explained. Other aspects would include personal care, role of religion or spirituality, gaining knowledge, socializing and so on.

The book is not meant to be just read through casually, but you need to put a lot of thought and use the simple advices in your daily life.

That is what Confidence by Hope is all about. No book promises to give confidence in a single instance. We need to hope for the best to happen and mold ourselves into the confident person in our dreams.

Unless you hope and expect things to happen positively, you will never feel happy and strong inside. Read through each chapter thoroughly; to find out which all areas in your life lack confidence, where you have excelled in life and which areas can improve if you at least hope and dream for a change.

Chapter 1

What is Self Confidence?

Living a life with self confidence is certainly an accomplishment for any normal human being. Every person has their own flaws and own merits or talents attached to their personality.

It is for us to choose on how to select which quality and use it to be advantageous in our life. The fact that you must understand before stepping into the first chapter is that ‘You’ need to survive in this world.

For that you need to work hard for it. Nothing in life comes with a bag of sweets. So, if you feel that low self confidence is stopping you from moving forward in life, then it is highly necessary to kill that fear and lack of confidence.

If you are determined, then nothing and I mean nothing is impossible. So, let us get started and begin this journey on improving confidence with the Hope that we will be confident in life one day.

Definition of Self Confidence

Self Confidence is a psychological feeling that you experience within yourself. It is a feeling of self assurance; that you can do a