The Honest Book Of International Dating: Smart Dating Strategies For Men: Win The Heart Of A Woman Of Your Dreams, #1

By Sahara Sanders

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GUARANTEED TO LEAD TO SUCCESS!

IMPORTANT NOTICE:
Our project was not created or supported by any existing marriage agencies, so none of our material has been influenced to protect their commercial interests—that is how we have the freedom to call things by their REAL names, in order to provide our readers the maximum help possible!

Smart Dating Strategies for Men:

-  Have you been searching for your true soulmate in Eastern Europe or other parts of the world?

-  Have you become so frustrated that you just gave up trying to find meaningful love?

-  Have you seen all the flashy and tempting offers on today's Internet that are nothing more than "Dating Scams?"

-  Have you become disillusioned from the lack of desirable results?

-  Are you tired of making the dating agency rich while you become poorer?

-  Do you feel like you're fed up with the endless introductions, useless and incredibly expensive trips and translated phone calls?

-  Have you ever felt embarrassed or disappointed by how much money and time you've lost to unsuccessful dating?

If the answer to the above is yes, then let us present you with an honest and easy-to-follow solution to dating women, based upon the experiences of individuals who went through all the "ups and downs" of international dating and succeeded!
If you want your dating experience to finally be successful and truly exciting, then this guide is written especially FOR YOU.

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The easy-to-follow information in our books will allow ANY guy to become successful.
We will show you how easy it is to achieve your dreams, while conserving precious resources!

"WIN THE HEART OF A WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS" series includes the following eBooks:

1. "THE HONEST BOOK OF INTERNATIONAL DATING / Smart Dating Strategies for Men"

2. "DATING COMMUNICATION TIPS FOR MEN / Catch and Keep a Woman's Attention—Trigger Her Deep Attraction to You!"

3. "THE ART OF SEDUCTION: KEYS TO MASTERY / A Pocket Book for a Real Man"

4. "ROMANTIC ACTIVITIES AND SURPRISES: 800 DATING IDEAS / An Illustrated Guide for Men"

• Language: English
• Publisher: Sahara Sanders
• Release date: Dec 10, 2014
• ISBN: 9789669745217

Sahara Sanders

www.saharasanders.com Sahara Sanders is a modern writer of several genres.  She is originally from Europe, perceiving herself a citizen of the world. You will find insightful psychological analyses, informational advice, travel guides, novels, poems—reading material for adults and teens—among her numerous books. Sahara speaks five languages and writes books in three of them. English is not native to her, but it is one of her favorites—that’s why, even having only been self-educated in the language, she reached a high level of fluency and was able to work as an interpreter for many years. She has extensive experience in managing different kinds of businesses. Her interests include: writing, psychology, philosophy, quantum physics, traveling, cultures of the world, gardening, the art of bouquet-making, landscape and interior design, pets, photography, modeling, and other different hobbies that can be used as tools and methods to learn about, express and describe at least some of the wondrous beauty of life for those who were born on this planet. 

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THE HONEST BOOK OF INTERNATIONAL DATING

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Smart Dating Strategies for Men

By Sahara Sanders

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CONTENTS:

FROM THE AUTHOR

1) ONE DAY. . . ONE DAY. . .

2) YOUR PROFILE ON A DATING SITE

3) LETTERS, MESSAGES AND PHONE CALLS

4) HOW TO BE AWARE

5) CHOOSING THE RIGHT PERSON

6) ATTITUDE

7) CHARACTER

8) HYPOCRISY

9) HUMOR AND FLIRT

10) CULTURAL DIFFERENCES:

11) FRIENDS’ AND RELATIVES’ ADVICE

12) WHY IT MAY NOT WORK

13) THE MAN OF HER DREAMS

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FROM THE AUTHOR

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I lived in Eastern Europe, and for over eighteen years was employed by different marriage agencies as an interpreter and translator for their clients. That is how I acquired an immense amount of priceless experience in the field of dating.

Over the years, I’ve observed countless romantic relationships that either succeeded, or failed horribly. This enabled me to clearly understand and sum up all the common principles in dating strategies, which led some men to find genuine love and create personal happiness in the shortest amount of time—while other guys achieved only endless disappointments and loss, even though they were in the exact same dating environment!

My sincere desire is to help people make their romantic dreams come true. It is the reason why I decided to publish these exclusive materials.

Eastern European ladies are well known as some of the most beautiful, feminine, and family-oriented women on the planet. No wonder, fellows from all over the world focus especially on Slavic countries when searching for a suitable partner for marriage, with whom to build a love relationship.

If you wish to find your soulmate in Eastern Europe or other countries overseas—or if you seek to improve the existing relationship with your girlfriend—then the series of eBooks "WIN THE HEART OF A WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS" is meant specifically for you!

It is fair to say that the majority of the advice given in "The Honest Book of International Dating / Smart Dating Strategies for Men" and 100 percent of the materials offered in The Art of Seduction: Keys to Mastery / A Pocket Book for a Real Man and "Romantic Activities and Surprises: 800 Dating Ideas" guides are not only suitable for international dating, but also extremely helpful for ANY kind of romantic relationship.

Originally, "The Honest Book of International Dating" was intended to be written as one single work. In the process of writing, it became clear that some particular parts would be better if they were separated into annexes (or supplements); the annexes grew up into absolute full-fledged guides themselves. That is how our project became the "Win the Heart of a Woman of Your Dreams" series, and that is why the supplements to the first eBook are also sterling guides full of value.

The books are well illustrated, and intentionally written to be easy to understand. These two factors make the books exceptionally readable and exciting to explore.

Some chapters will make you laugh, while some may shock you; in some parts, you may well recognize situations identical to your own dating experiences.

We guarantee you highly entertaining, emotional, and very informative books!

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PS.

I express my deepest appreciation to those who helped with editing of the original text materials, and whose kind support and big hearts made releasing this project possible in the shortest amount of time—thank you very much for your assistance.

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1) ONE DAY. . . ONE DAY. . .

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It seems reasonable to believe God is pleased when we do our best to make our destiny a happy one, because we are granted the most precious gift ever possible—LIFE.

Fate gives us a whole ocean of chances, opportunities and possibilities, but how often does it seem that we are simply too lazy to swim in that ocean?

Are we brave enough, and wise enough to use the treasure of life in the best possible way?

How are we spending our existence, and for what?

Are each of us really living the life we dream of?

"Many people wait endlessly for things to come their way:

-  All week they wait for Friday;

-  A whole season they wait for a holiday;

-  All year they wait for summer;

-  And their whole life they wait for happiness!"

/Saying/

Some individuals are simply existing, and believing that ONE DAY they will change their life into something better. One day. . . one day. . .

So they waste the best years of their lives being full of doubt, and as they slowly get older they remain lonely, unsatisfied and feeling sad about what could have been—but never was!

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You might ask why we are speaking of courage and wisdom in this book’s first chapter, instead of immediately listing off the secrets and strategies for successful dating that you were promised. The reason for this is to make sure you feel truly ready to start a wonderful love relationship, right now. Your vehement desire and determination to reach the goal of happiness is as important as the powerful knowledge you’ll learn from this very candid book.

You are a unique and special person, born to be happy—not just spending day after day working and working. . . going to bed every evening when you’re not really tired. . . waking up every morning when you don’t really want to. . . getting ready to go somewhere you are not really excited to go. . . doing something you don’t really want to do. . . continuing to be sad and lonely day after day. . . and always dreaming of some better future for yourself. . .

Even in the worst of times, you could feel so much more optimistic and positive, if you had an amazing woman next to you, who brings true paradise into your life. Someone who would make you fresh morning coffee and tasty toasts, hug you with passion and say, "I love you. You are the best man in the world for me, and the center of my universe. . . Everything is going to be fabulous today, and in the future. . ."

Do you wish you could hear this now?

If you have ever been deeply in love and still cherish those memories, does it seem like nothing as bright and exciting has ever happened to you since then?

Speaking of being alone, did you know that statistics confirm that, on average, married men live longer and better quality lives than single ones?

We are going to share with you some most effective working strategies for successful dating. These tools will enable you to create an AMAZING personal life for yourself, and to experience this life as soon as you wish!

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The Honest Book of International Dating Will Show You Exactly HOW TO:

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Make the Woman of Your Dreams Trust You

Most ladies are skeptical of a guy's promises and self-descriptions. This is natural. Women who are not naïve teenagers anymore, who have had some disappointing personal life experiences, are quite cautious with strangers they have just met. Personal life experience, where fellows have lied to them in the past, makes them less receptive to men’s talk, and more receptive to men’s actions. Much of the advice given in this book will help you to ease such situations, solving these problems with elegance and minimal effort on your part.

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Lead a Relationship the Way You Want It

Any couple might encounter minor disagreements or misunderstandings, especially when they’ve just met and don’t yet know much about each other’s temperaments, preferences, etc. Reacting spontaneously may make things worse, and can sometimes lead to a break-up of the relationship, even though both people liked each other to begin with, and felt strongly attracted to each other!

They may conclude, "Our personalities just didn’t match," as is so often said after failures like these.

In reality, the main reason relationships fail is due to a shortage of romantic communication skills, inability of both parties to listen, and a lack of knowledge on how to choose the right words to make the other person be willing to listen to you. The right kind of reaction during an argument can turn negative points into positive ones, create more understanding and closeness between a man and a woman.

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Seduce the Woman You Like

Knowledge of seduction secrets will guarantee you true admirers among the ladies. You will learn a special method of masculine behavior that will melt women’s hearts like ice cream on a hot summer day!

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You Will Also Learn from This Guide and Our Other Books on Dating:

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-  What to do and say to a woman to make her start feeling crazy about you;

-  Different variations on exciting ways to seduce a woman;

-  Common mistakes made by guys who cannot move further with a girl, beyond staying JUST FRIENDS;

-  How to make your personal love story unforgettable;

-  Etc., etc., etc.

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It is not QUANTITY of knowledge that is crucial for someone’s personal success, but the QUALITY of knowledge that makes things possible.

A man can know a lot of things and at the same time not know something really very important.

If you understand the rules of the game, you have a great chance to succeed and win, because you have an advantage over those who don’t understand them!

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Weak people are waiting for opportunities; strong people are creating opportunities.

/M. Gorky/

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Our First Suggestion Is the Following:

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Create your own LUCK in your personal life—instead of relying on fate and hoping that your happiness will spontaneously materialize sometime and somehow, as if by magic.

Be the magician of your own destiny. Take control of your own fate. Be aware. Instead of following the crowd of complainers and repeating their common mistakes, use the Smart Dating Strategies, which are clearly described in the chapters of our exclusive eBooks.

Be successful in your personal life and genuinely loved by the woman of your dreams.

Read how to do it; learn the secrets to use and master them.

Get the keys to the door of your own happiness.

MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.

Choose to be a WINNER!

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2) YOUR PROFILE ON A DATING SITE

It’s not just a formality!

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The most important role of people’s profiles on dating websites is to give a potential partner some information, which creates the possibility to determine in advance if there could be a probable compatibility—and, in a case of interest, to start communication.

As they say: You only get one chance to make a good first impression.

Someone’s international dating success or failure often starts from a profile and introduction letters. A man’s profile can definitely help a lot to create a lady’s first impression about him, because it can reflect that guy’s attitude and show his common qualities.

A reaction to reading someone’s profile can feel like:

-  Ewww. . . or Wow!;

-  Boring or Interesting;

-  Ordinary or Special.

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What Would a Potential Soulmate Feel After Studying a Specific Man’s Profile:

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-  Would a woman feel positive, excited and curious to know more about such an interesting, great guy?

-  Would she feel that she could not care less, and just be bored to death, giving up without reading to the end?

-  Or, would she just turn away and never look it up again, feeling disappointed after just reading the profile?

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The profile can make a good start. . . bad start. . . or no start. . . even at that early stage.

Some gentlemen are thoughtless, not really paying much attention to what they are writing in their profile. They think that LATER they will have plenty of time and chances to explain themselves better; but later may never happen with this particular girl, if she loses her interest initially!

It is a lot harder to change someone’s opinion later—sometimes it can be even impossible. If something has scared a lady away from you, she may not even listen to your attempt to convince her later, and may instead naturally follow the principle better safe than sorry.

Will your profile and introduction letters be the beginning of a great and exciting dating experience. . . or the beginning of an experience full of disappointment and loss, instead of the happiness you desire in your personal life?

Plan your profile carefully, to get off to a good start!

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-  Be interesting to read, and perhaps a bit extraordinary in some way;

-  Highlight your best personal qualities, especially the most masculine ones;

-  Show your great sense of humor, instead of just saying that you have a sense of humor;

-  Create a general impression of yourself as a positive person;

-  Express your attitude to show that you are an open-hearted, sincere, loyal and understanding guy, with true family values, and a realistic outlook;

-  Describe yourself in a most positive way, while remaining truthful;

-  Be honest, but at the same time thoughtful (think first, speak second);

-  Give an idea of the kind of partner you are looking for, but it should NOT sound like a list of demands—more like a list of wishes!

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It is also important to remember that later, when communication continues, it’s necessary that your behavior and actions match to your words, as without that confirmation any self-descriptions would simply amount to nothing.

This is especially true if your plan is to find a soulmate from Slavic (Eastern European) countries. In Eastern Europe, they do not take seriously people who are always waving their great self-descriptions over their heads; this is considered rude and simply boasting. (Similar things can also be said about some Asian countries.)

Fellows with only empty promises and boasts are mocked, disrespected and ignored.

Strangely, this is the favorite—or even the only—path so many guys follow, trying to win someone’s heart in Slavic countries. As a result, is it any wonder that they never succeed in finding anyone serious about them, and that such men only end up wasting thousands of dollars on the high costs of dating agencies and unsuccessful trips?

Describe yourself properly ONCE—then confirm your words by actions and behavior; let your partner or other people be the judge of your great qualities!

That is how a man can win deep respect.

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YOUR PROFILE PICTURES

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It’s equally crucial to pay attention to the kind of photos that will be attached to your profile on a dating site. Choose pictures where you look good, perhaps smiling, and which highlight the best features of your appearance.

Also, choose those that show your lifestyle in a true and positive way, but without boasting.

Do not attach any overly sexy or revealing pictures; they can destroy any chance of leaving a good impression. A man neatly dressed in a nice suit may look a million times more sexually attractive and desirable to a decent woman, than a male standing there with half-zipped pants and a lusty expression on his face!

Avoid attaching photos of yourself near someone else’s posh car or house pretending it’s yours, or with anything else that would give people an untrue impression. Even if you really own luxury class cars and lots of property, it is better not to boast with all of that right in your profile, and to make most decent ladies feel that you are trying, in a primitive way, to attract their attention with your possessions instead of your qualities. Moreover, you do not want to end up communicating with just gold-diggers, right? So let’s try not to attract them in the first place.

EXAMPLES OF MEN’S PROFILES

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Below you can read two different men’s profiles, written by actual dating people. They were copied three years ago from one of the existing dating sites, as outstanding examples for this book.

Note:

To protect the privacy and comfort of the men involved, their real names and some very personal information, such as ages, etc., were changed.

At this present time, one of these gentlemen is very happily married, and the other one is still at absolutely the same stage where he was three years ago!

Let us have a look and see why they achieved such opposite results, and then let’s consider what they were doing differently from the early start of their dating experience.

The crucial difference is in these men’s specific attitudes, obvious by what they describe in their applications.

Of course, it’s not their hair color that sets them apart, drawing your attention in those profile applications—but the difference in their descriptions of how they see life and relationships; how they describe what they want from their dream life partner; what kind of IMPRESSION they make on a woman; what kind of emotions and thoughts they trigger in a woman’s heart, all from the very beginning of their acquaintance.

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1)  Brad’s Profile:

« First Name:

Brad

Age:

53

Location:

United States of America, AZ

Height:

191cm (6’3")

Eye color:

Hazel

Hair color:

Light Brown

Do you have children?

One child, a 7-year-old boy, living at home.

Body type:

Muscular

Marital status:

Divorced

Smoking Frequency:

Never

Drinking Frequency:

Occasionally (Socially)

Language:

English

Job Title:

Retired

What religion do you practice?

Catholic

Do you enjoy dining out?

I love it.

How often do you like to go out?

Twice a week.

Ideally I would like to live in a:

Beach house.

Do you enjoy cooking?

I really enjoy cooking.

Do you enjoy grocery shopping?

I get by.

How much do you enjoy other types of shopping?

I don't mind it.

Do you enjoy gardening?

Don't mind helping.

Keep my space:

Always clean for company.

Describe myself at a party as a:

That depends. Am I invited?

When it comes to TV:

I opt for a movie.

Age of woman desired:

30-99

Country:

Any

Eye color:

Any

Hair color:

Any

Is it okay if they have children?

Yes

Body type:

Slim (slender), Average

Smoking Frequency:

Any

Drinking Frequency:

Occasionally (Socially)

Ethnic Preference:

Hispanic/Latina, Native American, Asian, Caucasian, South American

What type of Television programs do you enjoy watching most?

Comedy, Documentary, Educational, Films, Mystery/Thriller

I enjoy spending free time:

Doing something athletic, Having lunch with a friend, With family, Visiting a museum or gallery, Catching up on household chores, Watching TV or a movie, Dancing, Taking a walk, Being among friends.

Activities that I enjoy:

Weight lifting, Water skiing, Swimming, Skiing/Snowboarding, Other, Fishing, Boating/Sailing.

Sports that you enjoy watching and/or playing:

Olympic sports, Hockey, Football, Extreme sports.

Forms of entertainment that you enjoy:

TV entertainment, Rock music, Jazz music, Museum/arts, Movies, Dinner parties, Dance clubs, Fine dining, Concerts.

Other hobbies or interests:

Traveling, Philosophy, Painting, Investing, Home improvement, Gourmet cooking, Family/Kids, Cats, Cars, Antiques.

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How would you describe yourself?

I'm a man for whom family comes first, unlike the way American life has become more about materialism, consumerism and everybody wanting things quick. I would not thrust my opinion on another, but would rather talk things out

Reviews for The Honest Book Of International Dating

[Alex Petersen · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Interesting book :-) I can foresee some guys may get mad when they well recognize themselves and their own dating situations while reading it (same as I did, by the way) but inability to face the truth is sometimes exactly what keeps us away from the desirable success in different spheres of life, by my personal oppinion.

[Mark Cooper · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Hi, I wanted to share my opinion about this book. I believe everything written in it is accurate, and the author is very good at understanding the psychology of both genders.