The Dictionary Of Life: Harvesting The Power Of Attention

By I. B Opene

The Dictionary Of Life - Harvesting the power of attention - a Self Help and Personal Development Book
The major theme of this self help book: is on understanding how life really works, its peculiar language and habits and how to leverage that knowledge in fulfilling your deepest wishes and desires.
You will also get an answer to important questions like "What is Love?" and much more!

"The dictionary of life" deals with a number of existential misconceptions and imparts timely wisdom aimed primarily at encouraging the reader to be the best that they can be, to shrug off heavy weights of the heart and to gear up for a brighter tomorrow which is just there waiting, calling...today!

It is a treatise on how to effectively say "NO" to issues in your life that seem to have taken over control against your will.
For instance many people struggle desperately to kick substance abuse or debilitating habits like excessive pornography, without much success.
The secrets expounded in this work are inspirational, motivational, and exceptional and have over time been found to be effective in the life of the author himself.
I suffered for many years under circumstances that the Will found hard to overcome.
This is a timely work that seeks to talk to people having a difficulty in saying "NO" in any arena of their lives and not just with chemical abuse but in emotional relationships, daily activities as well as health and the very important finances.

• Language: English
• Publisher: I. B Opene
• Release date: Aug 31, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301981731

I. B Opene

The author is an Engineer, Inventor, Musician and Father. He lives in Cheltenham, a beautiful rustic part of the Cotswolds, UK with his family

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THE DICTIONARY OF LIFE:

Harvesting the power of Attention

I.B. Opene

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Copyright © 2013 by I.B. Opene. All rights reserved.

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CONTENTS

Preface

Introduction

No...An illusion?

-- Your life is what you give attention to

Who are you?

-- You are master!

-- A master is an absolute idea

Apparent lack of finances

Energy sapping addictions

-- Broken hearts healed

Fear

Death and joy

Healing

-- Dream state reality concept

The concept and role of emerald city in you life

-- Love wisdom for men

-- The 12 golden love rules for men

-- 25 virtues a man should desire in a woman he intends to partner with.

-- The 12 golden love rules for women

-- 25 virtues a woman should desire in a man she intends to partner with.

-- Love tips

-- Dealing with uncertainty in relationships

-- The elimination of heartbreak

The divine love energy

-- Man in a million years

…A contemporary Spiritual classic

Dedicated to Laura and Harmony-Rain

PREFACE

THE DICTIONARY OF LIFE- Harvesting the power of attention…is an inspirational, contemporary classic. It deals with a number of existential misconceptions and imparts timely wisdom aimed primarily at verving up the reader to be the best that they can be, to shrug off heavy weights of the heart and to gear up for a brighter tomorrow which is just there waiting, calling…today!

The major theme of this work is on understanding how life really works, its peculiar language and habits and how to leverage that knowledge in fulfilling your deepest wishes and desires.

It is a treatise on how to effectively say NO to issues in your life that seem to have taken over control against your will.

For instance many people struggle desperately to kick substance abuse or debilitating habits like excessive pornography, without much success.

The secrets expounded in this work are inspirational, motivational, and exceptional and have over time been found to be effective in the life of the author himself.

I suffered for many years under circumstances that the Will found hard to CONQUER.

This is a timely work that seeks to talk to people having a difficulty in saying NO in any arena of their lives and not just with chemical abuse but in emotional relationships, daily activities as well as health and the very important finances.

This work is a spiritual and psychological elixir and rejuvenating tonic that offers inspiration that will help take you to the next level in your life.

The Author

Introduction

If you chose to read this work out of curiosity, then that’s a start. Curiosity is the whisper from the lips of destiny. But, I’d rather you approached it from the standpoint of desperation, exasperation even. It means that you want something well enough to step out of the fear zone.

This is NO mere whisper; it is a clarion call for change.

Friend, I will teach you, help remind you, of what will be required to open the next chapter in that story which is your life. I will teach you what I have been taught also. What I have learned about problems. That is how to say NO to them.

If you are ready, I will teach you how to say NO to every circumstance or condition that you desire a stop to.

Once you have learnt how to say NO properly to negativity, your next task will be managing the joy that floods your life.

But first you must listen to me with your heart!

The problem has always been that your NO was never really your NO at all!

This is why someone will say NO to a debilitating habit or something truly unprofitable in his/her life on New-year’ day and fail, neither did a vehement refusal to being broke, being lazy, fast fingered, fibbing, stuttering, fearfulness, etc. work; it only took time and one was back in that same old soup.

LISTEN, FRIEND!

There is nothing now you sincerely and positively desire you cannot have, just listen!

Can you prove life wrong? An end to that feeling of stagnation, of being stuck against your will is at hand. The quicksand will now become solid ground.

By the end of this interaction, you will be able to say NO in the right way to disease, fear, lack, addiction or any other negativity.

I will help teach you how to say NO properly to hurtful relationships, and failure.

Anywhere a well-placed NO belongs in your experience, I will help teach you how to properly say NO to it. This is achieved by understanding the language and the dictionary life itself uses in delivering your experiences to you!

This is my desire!

That is why you are here now. But, do you want a change? Do you want a healing bad enough? It doesn’t really matter if your doctors said you or someone you care about had only two weeks left to live.

I am not really bothered either if you have been unable to help yourself for many years. My pre-occupation is not that depression or the addiction; it isn’t even the debt or bad credit.

NOTHING WILL WITHSTAND A WELL PLACED NO OR STOP!! OR ENOUGH!!!

If you want a change, if you truly desire a positive direction in your life then you can have it in the Now.

Let me teach you how to truly say NO to that stumbling block that has been keeping you from true fulfillment and fullness.

"EVERYTHING HUNGERS

FOR RECOGNITION, FOR POWER AND FOR LIFE"

NO

A thing - a circumstance, a habit, an addiction, a disease - gets recognition, or power to exist by calling attention to Itself.

A cancer for instance by this method makes its desire for recognition felt.

When ignored, not medically but using the language of life, it loses its hold on existence; it loses attention, power and recognition.