Naked Solutions Of Dressed Up Life Woes
By Santosh Jha
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Non-Fiction: Empowering Consciousness, Life Wellness, Personal Excellence: word- 23,000 approx: Language-English.
Solution of problems is not a big task. If you have a problem, you already know it that solution is somewhere ‘inherent and embedded’ in the problem itself. The milieu around us presents some factors in an ‘arrangement’, which stand in our disadvantage, at a particular stage of our life positioning and we call the outcome of such an arrangement as a ‘problem’.
Often, solution presents itself as some ‘alternative’ arrangement or placement of the same factors in such a way that they turn advantageous for us, hence qualifying as a ‘solution’.
In most cases, especially the modern day problems we face, the artistry of arriving at solutions is not in ‘creating’ or generating something externally but in ‘rearranging’ and ‘repositioning’ the already present factors and elements in some alternative ways.
That is why, we need little ‘action’ but loads of calm and objective ‘reception’ in analyzing the ‘factors’ that essentially constitute a problem. We talk like friends about the mechanisms of problems and solutions in an assimilative and integrative way.
Santosh Jha
People say, what conspire to make you what you finally become are always behind the veil of intangibility. Someone called it ‘Intangible-Affectors’. Inquisitiveness was the soil, I was born with and the seeds, these intangible-affectors planted in me made me somewhat analytical. My long stint in media, in different capacities as journalist, as brand professional and strategic planning, conspired too! However, I must say it with all innocence at my behest that the chief conspirators of my making have been the loads of beautiful and multi-dimensional people as well as ideas that traversed along me, in my life journey so far. The mutuality and innocence of love and compassion always prevailed and magically worked as the catalyst in my learning and most importantly, unlearning from these people, ideas as well as situations. Unconsciously, these amazing people and my own stupidly non-intuitive cognition also worked out to be the live theatres of my experiments with my life’s scripts. I, sharing with you what I have internalized as body-mind Media, is essentially my very modest way to express my gratitude for all of them. In my stupidities is my innocence of love for all my beautifully worthy conspirators!
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Naked Solutions Of Dressed Up Life Woes - Santosh Jha
By Santosh Jha
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Copyright 2013 Santosh Jha
(Revised 2017)
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Table of Contents
Lets Us Talk Like Friends: Welcome Note
Core Accord In Peripheral Discord
Body As Theatre, Not As Protagonist
We As ‘Generic’ And ‘Specific’ Subject
New Thinking On 3Cs
Problem Of Judging Those, Who Judge Us
Dualism Of Love And Problems It Engenders
Conflicts Of Different Layers Of Consciousnesses
Dualism Of Love And Higher Consciousness
A Mega Facility and the Chief Trouble Maker
Why Problem-Solver Turns Mega Problem Itself
Mechanism Of The Layers Of Consciousnesses
Modern Milieu and a ‘Self’ In Constant Flux
The Master ‘I’ As Summation Of Different ‘Is’
Archetypal Genius v/s New Genius Problem Solver
Assimilative And Integrative Decision-Making
‘Unlearning’ Is Greater Challenge Than ‘Learning
Bare-Basics Of Cultural Troubles Of Gender-Divide
Challenge To Accept Objective Mind Consciousness
Commonality Of Ideas on Objectivity
Summary
Accept My Gratitude
About The Author
Other Titles By The Author
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Thrilled to have you with me!
I FEEL TRULY HAPPY to tell you that more than a book, it is like friends chatting up, sharing whatever we can together to enhance the wellness space.
It is my humble belief that any person, in whatever state of consciousness and life positioning, is in some special ways, better than a wisdom-book, for the purpose of life & living learning. I must tell you, I have learnt and more importantly, unlearnt, primarily from people. Books somehow are people-matter in text-format.
I am sure; you too have realized that the world we live is what it is, neither good nor bad. It is somehow neutral and objective. It is people, who are the ‘Theatre’ of all troubles as well as happiness. It is in our subjective consciousness that we accept something as trouble and others as happiness.
It is such an amazing contrast; we all know and accept that human mind is the most capable and instinctively galvanized mechanism in the entire universe to solve problems. Be it from the standpoint of evolution or God’s design, it is very clear to us that humanity has succeeded and excelled on Earth because of its brilliant problem-solving skills. Still, everywhere humanity is in troubles.
We shall talk about the problems and their easy solutions. However, first, we have to come down to one common premise, which shall help us is the fruition of the issue at hand – Artistry Of Problem Solution.
There has to be a humble admittance – Any word, however well meant and well spelt, is a possible suspect of ‘misrepresentation’. There is a simple reason. Do you remember when your flight is about to land, the pilot aborts the landing, jolting your peace, just because something as insignificant as a ‘stray dog’ happens to be on the runway?
You already know, how similar is the fate of human words, which we all accept as the best and worthy carriers of human ‘intentions’. This airplane of human words, carrying good and noble intentions need to make a good, smooth and safe landing on the runway of another human’s mind and consciousness, which again is worthy and hugely able.
Still, the good intentioned words sometimes fail to land on the mind of others, as there is some ‘insignificant’, yet potentially fatal obstacle standing midway the runway!
It is believed, If the hypothesis is right, the idea is accepted as right
. If two people have an assimilative and integrative attitude, one can easily see that root trouble is in subjectivity of the hypotheses. This helps in resolution of conflict of ideas.
Friendship is one positioning, where assimilation and integration about divergent hypotheses has larger accommodative space. A seed is more objectively accommodative in space than a grown up tree. Friendship is seed positioning. That is why, at the very start, I very affectionately request you to be my friend and accept this all as one long conversation between friends. Kindly, accept this not as a book but a ‘confabulation’ between friends. This, I am confident, shall engender smoothness of navigation and fruition of the entire exercise.
With all humility and sincerity at my behest, I wish to tell you that it needs to be said, there is only one person on the earth, who can say that he has understood. Otherwise, this domain is reserved for a metaphor called God. This is not available for humans.
It is also a heart-felt realization that our very worthy ancestors; who had the intelligence and courage to face the worst, life made them to, so that we inherit a better beautiful world; have already said almost all good things. What I can do is present them in new set of words with novelty of references.
The only justification of me telling them is that all goodness and wellness ideas and words need to be repeated and retold, to add to their all-pervasiveness.
At my age, I can say with innocence that getting old is such a beautiful and satisfying experience. It makes the ‘self’ accept the ‘utility and fruition’ of holistic, assimilative and integrative consciousness. Getting old has probably pushed ‘me’ close to the ‘eligibility’ of perhaps beginning to understand as what essentially is there to be understood!
I chat up with you to share with you whatever is part of my consciousness. All wisdoms say, human is designed to live in state of ‘flux’, a state of instinctive semi consciousness. To jolt oneself out of this, one must challenge itself; something humanity has done since millions of years. What stays with you is what sinks in. Wisdom is what we internalize.
I share with you whatever I have internalized in my life.
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At The Very Outset
SOLUTION OF PROBLEMS IS not a big task. If you have a problem, you already know it that solution is somewhere ‘inherent and embedded’ in the problem itself. The milieu around us presents some factors in an ‘arrangement’, which stand in our disadvantage, at a particular stage of our life positioning and we call the outcome of such an arrangement as a ‘problem’.
Often, solution presents itself as some ‘alternative’ arrangement or placement of the same factors in such a way that they turn advantageous for us, hence qualifying as a ‘solution’.
In most cases, especially the modern day problems we face, the artistry of arriving at solutions is not in ‘creating’ or generating something externally but in ‘rearranging’ and ‘repositioning’ the already present factors and elements in some alternative ways. This repositioning is required primarily in cognitive domain – that is, the way we look at a reality of situations or perceive it as.
That is why, as you already know it, we need little ‘action’ but loads of calm and objective ‘reception’ in analyzing the ‘factors’ that essentially constitute a problem. The ‘genesis’ of solutions is in total and perfect reception of the ‘genetics’ of the problems.
The core trouble is, modern day problems are so ‘dressed up’; partly by our complex environment and partly by our own perspectives that we fail to see the ‘naked’ reality of the nature of problems. We can see them clearly, if we ‘undress’ them.
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Core Accord In Peripheral Discord
WE HAVE A VERY SIMPLE example of this in our daily lives, which you