Just Me, Just You: An Intimate Novellete

By E

What happens when your perception of the American Environment shifts and old perceptions as stated in Chapter 1 of the New Beginnings are not appropriate for the readers I seek. One suggestion is to scrap The New Beginning pages 7-9 and recreate the tone, feel and space for the beginning of Just Me, Just You.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Mar 30, 2009
• ISBN: 9781453516003

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Copyright © 2009 by E.

ISBN:                     Softcover                               978-1-4363-6834-6

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Contents

The New Beginning

Getting the trash out of the talk

THE ESSENTIAL MAMOC

Phase I

Seeing with the Heart

Hear with the Mind

Speaking from the Intuitive side of Experience

Phase II

The Reality of Intimacy

The Reality of Doubt!

Hell is a Place Called Doubt

Phase III

LLets Talk

Talking /Communication Comes From Within

Understanding our own Genuineness

How do we achieve Genuineness?

Phase IV

Knowledge: How do I know what I Know?

Being in a comfortable Relationship

Phase V

RULES THAT INHIBIT MAMOC

CRIPPLING CRAP (when relational inertia is the symptom)

WHAT WORKS WHAT DOESN’T

Phase VI

PUSHING THE ENVELOPE (Sending the right letter)

THE AREA CODE, THE ZIP CODE, How do we find the real you?

Phase VII

THE POWER OF TWO

ONE WORD SPELLS Self-Esteem

IT’S HOW YOU SAY IT

Summary

The New Beginning

TALK, Talk. Men Talk, Women Talk, girls talk, boys talk. There are so many magazines and self help books designed to assist the average person with the newest method of what to say, when to say it, how to say it, and where to say it. What do you say to that new generic piece you have your eye on? When do you know if this generic piece is for you?

How do you maintain this generic piece after you have secured it?

A startling thing occurred while preparing to share a few concerns about this very delicate subject, and it dawned on me that most of the above takes place in the area between the top of the head, and a point less than a centimeter below the heart. The eyes see it, the ears hear it, the nose smells it, the mouth tastes it, the mind forms the imagination about it, the breath confirms it, and the heart reacts to it all in less time than it takes to say . . . After that everything else that we call physical attraction or sexual attraction is automatic or naturematic. The talk either becomes hurried and anxious, or slow and deliberate, or moderate and determined, or excited and incoherent. The talk turns us on, or turns us off. A right word and we are on target, and a wrong word destroys the potential for the generic piece.

Getting the trash out