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GRINDR… ‘80s STYLE
It may come as a surprise to some that way back in the murky past of the ‘70s and ‘80s we also had our rendition of Grindr, slower I will admit, but we had it. Let me explain. In order to access this archaic app, one had to jump through a few hoops.
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Alan Samons
Ever broken a favourite piece of ceramic? Love the idea of having it mended in a special way? Kintsugi originated in Japan in the 15th Century and is still practised today using traditional urushi (natural lacquer), or modern synthetic compounds. Thi
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Euthanasia dying With Dignity And The Cost
He was a healthy seventy-year-old before the stroke. It was four weeks earlier in a hospital in South Africa that his son asked him the question. “Dad”, he said. “We spoke about this before. If you wanted to go through with this”. His son hesitated t
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Editorial
Is it just me or does time appear to speed up? Most of us work long days and have strict targets, whether self-enforced or adhering to demanding corporate timelines. Having worked on both sides of the fence I think as we take on more responsibility,
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Music Reviews
Agnetha is best known as the blonde lead singer for the band Abba. In 2013, she released the album A which was met with rave reviews. Recently she heard one of the songs on the radio and was wondering what the album would have sounded like if she rec
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The Lady Is A Champ
Lady Charles was born as Charles Hoppner in a small town just outside Ottawa in Canada and was exposed to bullying from an early age. This did not stop them from stepping up and owning who they are. “I had always felt more fluid in terms of my gender
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Being Crystal Clear
The fully grown human body contains about 0,2 milligrams of gold and if you look around you, you most certainly will see a fine mineral in some device or decoration. Shiny objects have always fascinated humans; whether that be a sparkle in the eyes,
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OUR Chosen Mothers
Very explicitly, he commanded me not to write Britney’s name anywhere on the card. Back then, I couldn’t understand why he was so annoyed. Now, I know that he didn’t understand my obsession with her, I don’t think anyone in my family did – except my
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Illegally Gay
Completely surrounded by four countries, and sharing the miraculous Victoria wonder-fall with Zambia, the so-called Land of Stones is filled with spectacular beauty. With its harsh mineral-rich environments and just-as-harsh legislation, Zimbabwe is
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Southern Africa – A GIANT Leap In Gay Rights
As reported in a 2020 survey conducted by the International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Intersex Association (ILGA), of the 54 countries in the “dark continent,” only 22 nations have legalised same sex couplings as well as the marginalised gro
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Twink Going On Twunk
Almost no one has time for him. We will say it is because he is creepy or overbearing. But my theory is that it is because we can see our future selves in him, and that terrifies us. He is the destiny of every gay man who doesn’t make it out of the s
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Colour
Blue, the colour of the sky and the depths of the ocean, has captivated humanity’s imagination for centuries. Its history is an enthralling tale of scarcity, intrigue, and ingenuity. Join us on a journey through time as we unravel the fascinating his
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Restaurants
Plettenberg Bay Housed in an immaculately-restored heritage building – in fact, the oldest surviving dwelling in Plettenberg Bay – Restaurant 1777 is a charming bistro-style eatery with a warm and welcoming atmosphere situated a few sandy steps from
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Unveiling The Taboo
Motherhood is something we often associate with warmth, love, and nurturing. And let’s be real here, there’s this idea floating around that gay men love their mommies. Pop culture paints the gay son as the loving caring one who mommy dearest loves be
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In The Spirit
At Muratie every wine tells a story and the estate, established in 1685 and hidden away in the exquisite Knorhoek valley in the premium Simonsberg wine ward, is rich in history and heritage. Guarded over by magnificent ancient oak trees, the passion
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Out In Africa Safely
While Ireland is beautiful and has a certain mystic charm, and England is England (but too much traffic!), both are fickle as far as the weather is concerned. And good weather is what Africa, and South Africa in particular, seems to have in abundance
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Otherness
OSTRACISED INTOLERANCE AND HATE CRIMINALISED HETERONORMATIVE MORES AND VALUES SEXUAL REVOLUTION PEACEFUL COEXISTENCE FREEDOM NOT WAR EMBRCE AND CHANGE TOLERANCE AND LOVE To me it is important that we distinguish between Palestinians and the Hamas, Is
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Embracing Diversity
“Never discuss politics or religion.” This adage is so true, especially in today’s volatile atmosphere. As much as I am an atheist, I do follow Buddhism as a philosophy and having a spiritual practise is, to my mind, a good thing. But how can a self-
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Memoirs Of A Millennial Dirty Thirties: Tips From A Tricenarian
The giant tube suddenly slows down to taxi-speed and just like that we’re abiding by a whole different set of rules – the rules of the road. Finally stopping, the door opens, and enclosure makes way for freedom and fresh air. We go through transition
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Editor Rubin van Niekerk Deputy Editor/Creative Director Alan Samons Graphic Designer Darnell Sardinha Office Manager Joan Doyle Décor Editor Alan Samons Art and Entertainment Alan Samons Lifestyle and Social Henry Bantjez Restaurant Reviews Rubin va
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…hotter Than Just Hot
Growing up amongst car and bike enthusiasts, I know that the GR Hatch is a game-changer amongst compact performance cars. Perfect seamless power, precision, and practicality makes you want a track, even though it is easy to drive anywhere. Falling in
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Stunning Mercedes-benz Glc Coupé
Inside the sophisticated GLC Coupé’s interior, emphasis is on sportiness and contemporary styling while a horizontally divided dashboard and luxurious crafted details creates an inviting ergonomic cabin. A massive Panoramic sunroof is offered for the
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Streaming/film Reviews
• With Taylor Zakhar Perez and Nicholas Galitzine Directed by Matthew Lopez This is the sensational, beloved and best LGBTQ+ movie of the year. It has taken the world by storm, especially because of the sizzling chemistry (and lots of nudity!) betwee
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Crossfit a Queer Revolution
This is a society that the LGBTQ+ community has been wanting for decades. Well, the good news is that there is a community where this is a reality. CrossFit (yes, I can hear all the eye rolls, but bear with me) has been taking the LGBTQ+ community, a
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Ecology
Did you know that the earth is flat, scientists don’t agree on climate change, evolution isn’t real because it’s a theory, vaccines are not worth the risk and, overall, electric vehicles are worse for the environment? These are views that are not gro
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Travel The World Without Leaving Sa
What if I told you that no matter what your travel bucket list items are, you could make it happen almost immediately. Perhaps you would prefer a beach holiday where you can lie on a beach enjoying the warm tanning rays of the sun like in Mauritius,
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Intelligence, Mentorship And Learning Skills Throughout Life.
As a hyper self-critical child, I fretted over my perceived weaknesses and aberrations from what was considered normal. We were a very musical family and all of us played musical instruments which was most unusual for a blue-collar family who must ha
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Contributors
Alan is an inexhaustible maker – from writing, to painting, sculpting, making jewellery and working with a variety of other media, including ceramics and restoring Asian scrolls and ceramics. When not making ‘stuff’ he can be found with his nose in a
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Book Reviews
In 2021, Johannes Radebe became the first male dancer to perform in heels in Strictly Come Dancing history. Wearing black patent leather boots, Johannes danced with a red Posefan to a rendition of Blondie’s Rapture. That year, Johannes was also part
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