We often want to help others. It's a great trait to have in a world that is rather selfish. Yet, it can be a terrible idea when you're communicating with friends and clients. People rarely want your help. What do they want instead?  Listen to the "hug, hear, and help" method to change the way you see the world and also the way the world sees you.   Next Up: The Not So Obvious Angles For Succeeding In Life