We are talking about the concept of what it means to be “chill,” in your dating life, how being “chill,” might be impacting you negatively, and how to embrace your intensity to find the right partner for you.  In this episode, Lily explores how you might be making yourself feel wrong for being human and encourages you to shed old stories that no longer serve you. Don’t be chill because when you are your biggest self, you will attract the right people to you. Hot-takes from this episode: Notice where you are judging yourself for being human. Look at where you are intense and how might that be a gift to people in your life. Celebrate your intensity! Take up space! Being chill can be a function of trying to belong in a world that would rather you not be too much.  What it means when someone wants "laidback" - red flag! ? Episode links: The Brazen Breakthrough Coaching Party + Info SessionThe Brazen Breakthrough Las Culturistas Follow Date Brazen on Instagram Follow Date Brazen on TikTok Show notes:  http://datebrazen.com/blog/dont-be-chill